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What Is Wrong With Being A Virgin - Yes this is to be taken seriously but be warned :)

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lol 16 here. Got laid for the first time last weekend. Good time, good times XD
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What Is Wrong With Being A Virgin - Yes this is to be taken seriously but be warned :)

spawn_syxx9
Apr 13 2005, 10:27 PM
OH yeah I brought this topic here now ><!

To start off i would like to say i am not a virgin. I havent been for some time, but i would like to see what your thoughts are on this. Society seems to look down upon them. anyone who hasnt slept with others for sexual pleasures is seemingly put down for some reason. that many are forced to lie about their situation just because they feel they need to. how sad is this?

The practicality of it is that some ppl want to save themselves for that special person and i see nothing wrong with that. why is it that it for some reason matters how many ppl you have done it with?

I find that to be sick and degrading..but what are your thoughts?
and before you even ask.. i have had lots of that kinda of stuff so erm yeah.. and i am very sexually open so dont fear of just plaing being blunt and asking about it

This topic is about virgins only so.. lets try to keep the suggestions and comments surrouding them.. the non-virgin topic will be made soon and I don't wish to offend anyone. I just like talking and finding out about experiences.

What made you want to even wait.. how did you know the person you wanted to give it to?..

I openly admit I am not a virgin.. but the person who I gave my virginity to.. though today i wish i had saved it. I am not angry at the choice I made because I lost my virginity out of love

 

 

 


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fsastraps
Apr 13 2005, 10:37 PM
Im not, but some or monst of my friends are, and i dont look down on them, i think its fun, and something you do when you love someone, i dont like those people that do it with a ton of people just to do it and for the fun of it, yeah maybe with a few for the fun of it, i also dont like the people that brag about it, i hardly ever talk about it, even very few people know about me not being a virgin, but not anymore all trap17 and many more know now haha. I dont care. but yeah.

Well now to answer some questions.
i lost my virginity to a person that i love and that i am still going out with, met her at school but we didnt do it till after 8 or so months of going out.

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ReRush
Apr 13 2005, 10:52 PM
I would be a virigin, then again, I'm not really of that "age" to not be a virgin. Personally, sex is something that should be done inside of marriage, if you truly love someone... you wouldn't force them to have sex with you before.

It's something special to me... which can be fun, but at the same time is very serious. I hope to be a virgin for quite awhile longer.

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snlildude87
Apr 13 2005, 10:55 PM
<moderator>Okay, try to keep this thread as unsexually explicit as possible. If any user reports this post saying that it's making them feel uncomfortable, I will have to shut it down immediately. Thank you smile.gif </moderator>

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spawn_syxx9
Apr 13 2005, 11:00 PM
QUOTE(snlildude87 @ Apr 13 2005, 02:55 PM)
<moderator>Okay, try to keep this thread as unsexually explicit as possible. If any user reports this post saying that it's making them feel uncomfortable, I will have to shut it down immediately. Thank you smile.gif </moderator>
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No problem man smile.gif I understand.

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Anndi
Apr 14 2005, 01:22 AM
Society puts down virgins? Well, I'm still in school, so that could have something to do with this, but at my school you get put down if you're NOT a virgin! rolleyes.gif I'm in 10th year... And a virgin! tongue.gif

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round
Apr 14 2005, 03:35 AM
wish people wouldn't make such a big deal about the whole thing. Maybe they should start making a bigger deal about having safe sex, seems like all std's are on the rise.
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Caveman
Apr 14 2005, 03:41 AM
Non-virgin...haven't been for a few years. Whatever, I try to avoid the drama of those situations. I have some friends that are virgins and some that aren't--it's not like they're competing or anything. I'm in love, so I guess I really have no reason to wait, ya know? We use protection and the whatnot to make sure there are no little Cavemen running around. We're responsible kids cool.gif

I agree that sex isn't something that should be taken lightly...the first time is always a huge moment in everyone's life. If you just take the time to think about what you're doing and don't act on impulse, there's nothing wrong with what you decide to do. I respect anyone's decision either way.

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Saint_Michael
Apr 14 2005, 03:41 AM
woo im a virgin for the very first time tongue.gif

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munim
Apr 14 2005, 11:47 AM
hey.. me just an 18 year old guy.. virgin and i am cool abt it.. nothing to be proud of..
i am not even plannin to get married actually..... its kinda personal... i won't marry anyone except one friend of mine... and she won't marry me.. so thats it..
guess i will be a virgin all my life

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LastCause
Jul 27 2009, 03:50 AM
lol 16 here. Got laid for the first time last weekend. Good time, good times XD

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iGuest
Jul 22 2009, 06:23 AM
All is fair in Love and War !!!
What Is Wrong With Being A Virgin

All is fair in Love and War... But just like war, in love there is no second best, no runner ups. You're either the first one in his/her life or you've lost. What puzzles me the most is how can people get so close, so intimate with someone just for the sake of fun, just for the sake of loosing their virginity. Even if you're the 2nd, 4th or even the 25th guy/girl who has finally 'won' his or her heart, it still is a 'hollow victory'.

There is no properly coined word for the term non-virgins... The term is 'F***ed Up'

If you're in a relationship, imagine your partner picturing the faces of his/her ex(s) on you while having sex and even accidently calling their names. It's just demeaning. Remember ! your sexual assertiveness before marraige/relationship reflects your loyalty or trustworthiness during marriage.

When you get married, your virginity (along with the rest of your life) is the greatest gift you can offer your spouse.

Only when your love is stronger than your lust, you shall have a successful and happy married life.


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surbjit
Dec 23 2008, 04:01 PM
Theres nothing wrong being a virgin. It does not mean that if we have sex we have a higher status does it?
Just wait for the right moment and enjoy it lol.=]

Surbjit

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y4nzi
Dec 23 2008, 09:32 AM
Strangely enough this topic has never come up in discussion with me and my friends. We've discussed boyfriends and sex but somehow skipped around the use of the word 'virgin'. We've all pretty much assumed/gathered from what each of us has told one another whether we are or not and don't particularly feel pressured or necessarily 'different' and uncomfortable if we are or aren't. I think that's a good thing.

I guess I'm not in a group of friends where we count 'the number of people we've done with it' or anything like that. If they did I wouldn't be friends with them. Personally I find that kind of discussion degrading. Sex isn't something to be taken that lightly...

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Echo_of_thunder
Dec 22 2008, 02:47 PM
Nothing is wrong with it at all. We are all born that way. If you really think about it too, Your a virgin even after you have sex. I mean what do a lot of people call someone that has never used say the internet before? a computer virgin. So there is nothing wrong with it.

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