Women And Sexism - Bothersome and annoying

Milk

Dec 16 2004, 06:41 PM

Please note, I'm female myself.

Sexism is not a huge problem, but sometimes when an introverted sexist guy comes up to me and just wants to use me for sex, it makes me feel deprecated. Women have feelings and deserve to be treated right and with respect, just like any other human being in this world. I'm not saying that we should have equal responsiblities because you have to take into consideration that the physiques of men and women are very very different, as are their minds; meaning that there are different jobs that are appropriate and not appropriate for both genders. Like, women aren't made to cook and clean, but it is usually more appropriate as they are only capable of so much hardship, while men aren't made to go and fight wars or lift heavy items. I think that the responsibilities of both men and women should be appropriate for the gender, but they can't be open only to a certain gender. Like, a man can be allowed to be a quilter, if he so desires, and a woman can be allowed to help fight in a war, if she so desires.

I hate those women who are like, "Give us equal rights!" and when given, they just sort of slug and loll around, then don't do anything because they have what they want. That pisses me off alot because when given a privelidge, you have to work hard to keep that privelidge. However, I dislike the men that shun down on women, using them only for sex and food as we are not items to do your bidding. It's because of guys like this that there is prostitution because we think we can use you. Therefore, guys who hate on women for prostituting and stripping, you brought it unto yourselves. There is always a reason for everything, and the reason why guys think they can just use women for sex, I blame the bible and the old religion fanatics.

The bible contains stories that almost always end with the woman at fault. Even genesis, when eve was blamed for having eaten the stupid fruit on the tree of life. It's wrong and cruel, and because the bible was written by old geezers who couldn't get laid, and had never been laid, society is like so.

I guess my point is, is that all humans, any race, any sex, should be treated with respect.

Agree? Disagree?

b4dark

Dec 17 2004, 08:51 AM

QUOTE(Milk @ Dec 17 2004, 02:41 AM)

Agree. Up to the point "Sexism is not a huge problem".

Donegal

Dec 17 2004, 12:49 PM

hmm.. I'm going to take a bgi shot into the dark, are you freid milk from random insanity?

I'm only asking because.. you use tag's like on gamefaqs.. anyhoo..

PSH! sexism... You women want equal rights, but the moment they start to become bad equal right's..

ie : having to pay the same amount of insurance as men

You suddenly disagree.. O_O you like gentlemen, but all gentlemen only exist because they know they can get some...

And no, I didn't read the entire post.. I'm.. lazy..

s243a

Dec 18 2004, 04:42 AM

QUOTE

I guess my point is, is that all humans, any race, any sex, should be treated with respect.

Agree? Disagree?

Must agree with this but in any relationship there will be things one person want that will make them happy and this may be different from what the other person wants. Respect works both ways. As for equal rights vs roles I won’t get into this. As for hating woman for stripping or prostituting I wonder if more guys have such thoughts or girs. Personally I see nothing wrong with stripping but there are safety concerns to do with prostitution depending on the volume someone does, what they do and who their clients are. In some states it is regulated which is much better then street prostitution. Both guys and girls make choices of who they have sex with and they can look positively on those choices or regret them. By choosing a particular sexual lifestyle a person chooses a set of rewards and consequences. These consequences include how others view the actions. Although I believe in freedom of lifestyle I understand the concept of respect. If a person values enough the respect by others they will choose a lifestyle the suits those values. The way respect is learned or lost may not be fair but that is life. As far as one night relationships go I think they can make a person feel better provided it is with someone that you could imagine having kids with. Sex is an emotional as well as a physical experience.

Milk

Dec 18 2004, 06:42 AM

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Agree. Up to the point "Sexism is not a huge problem".

Well, okay so I have *BLEEP* intros. Sorry? And besides. It really isn't a HUGE problem that will make the nation stop to even consider to address this situation. It's just on my mind and this is the place to "vent out" what is on your mind. No offence, but if you're going to post some crap like that, please do not post at all.

QUOTE

hmm.. I'm going to take a bgi shot into the dark, are you freid milk from random insanity?

I'm only asking because.. you use tag's like on gamefaqs.. anyhoo..

I didn't know you couldn't use them...well, I'm just used to them. thats all..I'm too lazy to go and click the [I] tag. and no, I'm not freid milk. =P

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PSH! sexism... You women want equal rights, but the moment they start to become bad equal right's..

That's exactly my point...that I didn't get across too well. It really ticks me off when women do that you know? It's just...I dunno. I'm trying to prevent MYSELF from thinking and acting like that just cause it would then become a paradox. =(

QUOTE

Must agree with this but in any relationship there will be things one person want that will make them happy and this may be different from what the other person wants. Respect works both ways.

This is why I love message boards with intelligent people. O_< They make you think outside the box.
I agree with you on this too, now that I actually think of it. But I think my point was just respects in general. I didn't go too deep down into relationships..did I?

randycori

Dec 20 2004, 09:24 AM

I both agree, and disagree, why? Because the answers on both sides are interesting.

1) please note that when I testosterone filled creature wants to use you for sex - it probably isn't a personal attack - it is simply 1) biological - you have a "dna match" that a person is instantly attracted to (you've heard of love at first sight? happens all the time - an electricity thing), 2) you are female, have the right parts, and masterbation is less fun, 3) gotta hate it but I've known ugly guys that get laid more than me ? why ? because they "ask" more...sales is all about numbers and you were simply a number that he had to go through to get to the "yes"!
2) personal attack - interesting - no one can make you feel bad except for yourself - don't allow his asking to upset you
3) I agree though that it is in bad taste to ask for that - but hey, its more direct and time saving than buying drinks, visit, talk on the phone, internet chat for hours....5 months to get laid and then get dumped - just cut to the chase and ask!
4) prostitution - big issue a) if wives were doing there job you wouldn't need to go elsewhere - no energy!

if manipulation by wives via sex weren't so common, that would solve a bunch of problems c) if there weren't so many damn fine looking women in the world, men could concentrate! d) can be a great life saving, family saving service, e) woment are doing prostitution all the time to i) marry rich, ii) get what they want in life - promotions, etc, ... they are only getting paid in different ways and get away with it!
nuff for now

Good Grief Graphics

Dec 20 2004, 10:16 PM

You know, I really could get into this discussion, but, I really don't feel like it.

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The bible contains stories that almost always end with the woman at fault. Even genesis, when eve was blamed for having eaten the stupid fruit on the tree of life. It's wrong and cruel, and because the bible was written by old geezers who couldn't get laid, and had never been laid, society is like so.

If it's to the point where you believe this, then I feel that it is basically pointless to argue here. When a golf tour is forced to include women, then... well... I don't know. There's people who argue that men and women aren't different, but yet, we are, whcih is why some things are the way that they are.

Milk

Dec 21 2004, 06:00 PM

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There's people who argue that men and women aren't different, but yet, we are, whcih is why some things are the way that they are.

That's what I mean by the whole equal rights thing. Women want them, and they want to be treated exactly the same as men..but in the end, they really just want their opinions to be heard and to have respect from those around us.
Its the selfish women who just want the right to vote, but then they sit on their asses at home and do nothing, complaining all the time, that really get to me. =(

dashin

Dec 24 2004, 03:32 PM

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I agree with you 100% btw. good point

randycori

Dec 25 2004, 04:46 AM

Yes I agree as well - people should respect other people. Points of views are simply that. Respect all.
Great, so now we've proven that a small group of intellectuals writing on a chat board to prove that we want hosting for free...have agreed (a handful) that we should treat each other equally.

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gisellebebegirl

Jul 2 2008, 09:40 PM

i agree, both men and women should be treated with the same respect.. but maybe not given equal responsabilites, unless they obviously want to.. i mean your not going to get a woman to work in lets say, a warehouse moving heavy boxes, because that could potentially hurt them, etc.. we are different and have different things we are good at.. so i say we should be treated different, unless like i said we choose not to.

Mermaid711

Jun 28 2008, 05:20 PM

I am working class female. Hear me RAWR!

Obviously, you have never read the bible, or you would know that it was Adam who sealed the deal on sin entering the human race. After all, he ate the fruit second. Had he not done that, some of us could be living forever, others wouldn't be able to. And women aren't always at fault in the bible. As a matter of fact, most of the time it's a man. PETER denied Jesus. Judas betrayed Jesus. Cain killed Able. And it wasn't written by old geezers who couldn't get some. You're just not very sharp are you?

And yes, sexism isn't a huge problem in the world, however it is in the corprate world, where women only get paid a fraction of what their men coworkers get. But that's being fixed slowly but surely.

And most men I know are decent people. They see women as equal beings and treat them with the respect they deserve. Most men won't see you as a sex toy. There ARE good guys out there. Not all of them are trying to get inside of your pants. As a matter of fact most of them want to be a loving guy to you and be there for you no matter what.

This is a generalization and isn't true in all cases. Yes there are perves out there who engage in the prostitution business. But did you know that there are male prostitutes?

Think on that for a little while.

And @truefusion:

I agree with your posts alot and you give alot of food for thought when talking about Christian objectives.

However with the way that they get the embryo for stem cells, it is possible to reproduce without a male's intervention however the baby would be a clone.

truefusion

Feb 7 2008, 02:54 PM

QUOTE(Evolke @ Feb 7 2008, 07:02 AM)

Did you hear about recent news, that women may be able to have a baby without any male contribution.

That reminds me of an old movie i saw, and civilization freaked out when a male appeared.

QUOTE(Evolke @ Feb 7 2008, 07:02 AM)

This would mean obviously that there would only be females on Eartth!

Not really. Even if the bone marrow only provided the egg with female-producing hormones (or whatever it is it provides), your statement assumes that all females would in turn become independant. I can see female homosexuals who don't want anything to do with a man jumping over this, but i don't see why heterosexuals would. Also, assuming this is quite new, the procedure to even perform such a task, i'm sure, would cost hundreds of dollars for the general public, if not more. I, personally, don't see it as something that'll in the long run become beneficial—whether it is for society or the person themselves.

QUOTE(Evolke @ Feb 7 2008, 07:02 AM)

We can have babies without you, you cant! Men need us to live!

In your first statement you said "may," which implies uncertainty. Because of this uncertainty, i'm quite sure people will be testing their theories with human life. And even if there were no birth defects because of this unnatural way of birth and assuming only women will be born from this unnatural form of birth, there will always be certain, life-sustaining jobs that would require women to exert as much work into the job as a man would. But not all women are body builders, and some only do it to show off at contests.

demank

Feb 7 2008, 12:46 PM

women? sexy? i really like sexy woman.
i comfort to look at beauty woman.
btw2 until now i didnt have any woman by my side, hiks.
what should I do to have a woman?

Evolke

Feb 7 2008, 12:02 PM

I totaly hate sexist, biggot headed, rascist and bascially people who dont like other because they are 'Different'. So Im like the crqazy hippy, envorimentalist that pollotitions go ape over

Did you hear about recent news, that women may be able to have a baby without any male contribution. Doctors are able to get some sort of sprem related thing out of the females bone marrow or somthing, then its injected into the womb and we can have our own babies! We can be mother and fathers, and we wouldn't need men! How freaky is that. This would mean obviously that there would only be females on Eartth!

Females may be seen by men as the under goers and less important than they, but face it. We can have babies without you, you cant! Men need us to live!

Go Women!

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