So I decided to keep this real, keep this civil. And please no giggling. Sex is a part of the human interadtion with their spouses or significant others so please do share Why do I have the feeling that sex isn't a big topic around here.

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Maybe because the majority of the age in the forum is 15 ? I think or are teenagers who aren't craving for sex 24/7, unlike some one we know..

I think people are scared of sex. Like they might have small dicks or big fannys. Worry too much about their friggin bodies....

No sex for me 3 years too young

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How can you say your too young? I was 13 when i lost my virginity. Maybe im just a big freak but oh well.

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Well your a good example for kiddies aren't you ?
Well I don't about it but by any chance you lost your virginity to a barbie doll or something ???

Loads of people around here had sex when they were 10, I think that is *BLEEP* and trampy. I mean it's not right is it... Last month my other friend was raped just because she was willing to give head but not sex...I mean WTF the man was 24...she's 14 !!!

Oh I also know another friend who is currently looking after her son she bore him when she was 13....not good eh...the consequences of unprotected and underage sex.

No affence but sex is an easy thing for boys so is viriginity but for girls it is different boys don't loose nothing girls do...not sexism or anything but the truth....

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ROFLMAO... Too Funny!

And for the rest of the points.. I agree with you. Anyways.. now I am thinking that this topic is too personal or for some it might be too embarrasing. And here I am already looking at the explict languages and topics that have been raised.

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Why would people become embarassed even if they are embarassed they have the choice whether to reply in this topic or not...

Anyways....sex is nature...adam and eve did it.... Wonder how we got here... *thinks* okay eww forget that.

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I doubt that boys lose any less than girls. Just there isn't the stereotypical attitude towards guys and girls involving sex and stuff. All I can say is that why would you be afraid to just because of what others might think?

I too lost mine at 13 and don't really care now. I personally am apparently percieved as one of the girls around my group of friends and all of them come to me either for advice or to just talk about anything.

I think it deals with the ability to just be sure of yourself and not really care what others think because you can't limit yourself just be who is in your town.

 

 

 

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I wish I could say that: I am proud to say that, no, I have not had sex. It gets you a bad reputation and I have not had sex. I will wait till I am married.

Well, I have to say: I am in high school and I have been dating a girl for seven years. She is the love of my life, this is the first time I have brought her onto Trap17. We have ... had..... sex. Three..... times. Pains me to admit it but it's good for me. I couldn't resist her. I love this girl. We have only had sex with eachother. I plan to marry her when I am old enough and she plans to marry me. She is several months younger than me. I know I should have waited till I am married and it was bad, it was wrong. I will not have sex again with anybody, not even the only love of my life. I regret it terribly. It will only bring me away from my studies... I commited a sin. And that weighs heavily on me.

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I've always believed people shouldn't have sex until they're married. I've seen cases where people decide to "have fun" early and now have an STD. My fiance and I were waiting ( and still are) for years until we'd get married. We're both virgins. A friend of his went against his advice and had sex before marriage. He got an STD from the woman that's not curable. Plus, it'd be horrible for someone to see such a vunerable side of you and then cheat on you and or dump you. I still don't know how people do this.

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Hi,

The topic is a good one and quite real but the problem is like what becca pointed out the forum is filled with youngsters so they either might be young to have sex or maybe they would not want to reveal this fact as it is too private and somebody who knows their identity in real life and on the forum might see it and later cause problems. It is completely natural but I dont think people are completely ready to allow sex before marriage or as young as 13 or younger.

The topic idea was genuine and it is true that sex is very normal but people still think it to be a taboo and like it better behind the bushes so it will take time for them to get out.

Cheers

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