What Is Wrong With Being A Virgin - Yes this is to be taken seriously but be warned :)

spawn_syxx9

Apr 13 2005, 10:27 PM

OH yeah I brought this topic here now ><!

To start off i would like to say i am not a virgin. I havent been for some time, but i would like to see what your thoughts are on this. Society seems to look down upon them. anyone who hasnt slept with others for sexual pleasures is seemingly put down for some reason. that many are forced to lie about their situation just because they feel they need to. how sad is this?

The practicality of it is that some ppl want to save themselves for that special person and i see nothing wrong with that. why is it that it for some reason matters how many ppl you have done it with?

I find that to be sick and degrading..but what are your thoughts?
and before you even ask.. i have had lots of that kinda of stuff so erm yeah.. and i am very sexually open so dont fear of just plaing being blunt and asking about it

This topic is about virgins only so.. lets try to keep the suggestions and comments surrouding them.. the non-virgin topic will be made soon and I don't wish to offend anyone. I just like talking and finding out about experiences.

What made you want to even wait.. how did you know the person you wanted to give it to?..

I openly admit I am not a virgin.. but the person who I gave my virginity to.. though today i wish i had saved it. I am not angry at the choice I made because I lost my virginity out of love

fsastraps

Apr 13 2005, 10:37 PM

Im not, but some or monst of my friends are, and i dont look down on them, i think its fun, and something you do when you love someone, i dont like those people that do it with a ton of people just to do it and for the fun of it, yeah maybe with a few for the fun of it, i also dont like the people that brag about it, i hardly ever talk about it, even very few people know about me not being a virgin, but not anymore all trap17 and many more know now haha. I dont care. but yeah.

Well now to answer some questions.
i lost my virginity to a person that i love and that i am still going out with, met her at school but we didnt do it till after 8 or so months of going out.

ReRush

Apr 13 2005, 10:52 PM

I would be a virigin, then again, I'm not really of that "age" to not be a virgin. Personally, sex is something that should be done inside of marriage, if you truly love someone... you wouldn't force them to have sex with you before.

It's something special to me... which can be fun, but at the same time is very serious. I hope to be a virgin for quite awhile longer.

snlildude87

Apr 13 2005, 10:55 PM

<moderator>Okay, try to keep this thread as unsexually explicit as possible. If any user reports this post saying that it's making them feel uncomfortable, I will have to shut it down immediately. Thank you

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spawn_syxx9

Apr 13 2005, 11:00 PM

QUOTE(snlildude87 @ Apr 13 2005, 02:55 PM)

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No problem man

I understand.

Anndi

Apr 14 2005, 01:22 AM

Society puts down virgins? Well, I'm still in school, so that could have something to do with this, but at my school you get put down if you're NOT a virgin!

I'm in 10th year... And a virgin!

round

Apr 14 2005, 03:35 AM

wish people wouldn't make such a big deal about the whole thing. Maybe they should start making a bigger deal about having safe sex, seems like all std's are on the rise.
round

Caveman

Apr 14 2005, 03:41 AM

Non-virgin...haven't been for a few years. Whatever, I try to avoid the drama of those situations. I have some friends that are virgins and some that aren't--it's not like they're competing or anything. I'm in love, so I guess I really have no reason to wait, ya know? We use protection and the whatnot to make sure there are no little Cavemen running around. We're responsible kids

I agree that sex isn't something that should be taken lightly...the first time is always a huge moment in everyone's life. If you just take the time to think about what you're doing and don't act on impulse, there's nothing wrong with what you decide to do. I respect anyone's decision either way.

Saint_Michael

Apr 14 2005, 03:41 AM

woo im a virgin for the very first time

munim

Apr 14 2005, 11:47 AM

hey.. me just an 18 year old guy.. virgin and i am cool abt it.. nothing to be proud of..
i am not even plannin to get married actually..... its kinda personal... i won't marry anyone except one friend of mine... and she won't marry me.. so thats it..
guess i will be a virgin all my life

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bishoujo

Feb 29 2008, 08:57 AM

I'm from an Asian society, and most of our elders are still very conservative about it. They see pre-marital sex as something to be ashamed of. The younger generation is more open-minded, people would probably be engaging in pre-marital sex but not go around discussing about it. I like that you've made a topic like this, because it's something that I wouldn't discuss with my friends or people I know face-to-face.

Myself, I'm not a virgin. My first sex partner wasn't a great guy and we split up ages ago, but I don't regret it. We were curious and fun-loving then, and it was a memorable experience. I don't see pre-marital sex as something morally wrong, no matter how many times and with how many people it's done with. I didn't get pregnant and abort any babies, nor have I contracted or spread any sexual diseases.

I don't think there's anything wrong with virgins. I believe they simply haven't met the 'right' person, or their virginity is special to them and they want to keep it for their special someone. We all treasure different things.

jopak134

Feb 28 2008, 06:44 PM

there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. it is the society that is dictating what is wrong with it.

someone being a virgin for me has gained more reputation for me.

one thing about is that you can lose it so fast but you cannot have it back again

this is one scenario:

your first in the honey moon: girl not virgin boy virgin: boy: how do you do this? girl: i teach you

i have a little of a six sense when determing one is a virgin and it is a little bit of a turn on

ranperij

Jan 19 2008, 11:39 PM

I'm a virgin, though probably not for longer. I really have no problem with what society says, since a few girls have wanted to sleep with me but I haven't wanted to sleep with them. Almost all the guys I know are obsessed with getting laid, even if its to that girl you normally wouldn't talk to, or that girl who's...been around the block too many times.

strange-garden

Jan 16 2008, 05:17 AM

QUOTE(Tunay @ Jan 16 2008, 04:15 AM)

i lost my virginity to my fiance

but you really can't do anything about the past x-x so o.o yea.

Yeah lol. I just don't talk about it with him, and it doesn't bother him.

Tunay

Jan 16 2008, 04:15 AM

QUOTE(strange-garden @ Jan 15 2008, 09:54 PM)

I lost my virginity when I was 17, and thought it wouldn't matter. But when I told my current boyfriend he almost broke up with me over it...he wished i lost my virginity to him lol.

I don't care though, there's a lot of things he doesn't approve with. He'll have to live with it.

i lost my virginity to my fiance

but you really can't do anything about the past x-x so o.o yea.

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