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The chase is half of the fun my friend... But you know you will love someone not from one large event or occurence. You know that you love someone from the ways that they affect your life in the small ways they affect your life. They are your goodmorning, your entire day and your goodnight. They are constantly on your mind, and when you are with them you are never more happy. (Mine is in Spain ... read more.
The answer to the first question is easy. You simply know when you love somebody... you may lie but you do know wether you feel love or jus desire for another person.
The second is more difficult. You have to trust in the other person. You may mistake but it´s a risk that comes with love. Love would be less exciting without any surprise, I guess. QUOTE(Sprnknwn @ Apr 4 2006, 01:51 PM)  The answer to the first question is easy. You simply know when you love somebody... you may lie but you do know wether you feel love or jus desire for another person. The second is more difficult. You have to trust in the other person. You may mistake but it´s a risk that comes with love. Love would be less exciting without any surprise, I guess. ok. lets discuss abt the later one. i think if we completely trust on a person, that will kill u. because the gal are lier. they are the ones that completely use the love as a weapon to flight the man. also, the gal are perfect pretender and the guy can't know wht the gal's mind. may be there are some techinque or ways that i don't know. can u point me some? J QUOTE the gal are perfect pretender this may be true in some circumstances, but not in all, thats what you gotta remember.QUOTE if we completely trust on a person, that will kill u complete trust can prove to be a wrong decision, but then having someone who you can completely trust and who wont let u down when u need it is the important person. QUOTE guy can't know wht the gal's mind. this aint always true, sometimes you can just know someone so well that you know what they r thinkin and how they r feelin.now to answer your questions: QUOTE how can i know i really love on a gal you know when ur in love, you jus doQUOTE how can i know a gal really love me you cant. it just depends on how much u believe it. hope that helps
Girls do not seek out boyfriends for the sinful pleasure of breaking their hearts. That's not the feminine nature, that's the sociopathic tendency. Girls want love just as much as you do (assuming you both have the same outlook on love—if not, mutual "love" is hard to determine). The point here is, girls do not intend to become "the perfect pretenders." Rather, I have found that girls are more keen to open up to reveal their true personalities quicker than boys are. As far as she is concerned, she may believe that boys are truly "the perfect pretenders." It's all a matter of perspective.
As for knowing what's on a girl's mind, it is often difficult for men to apprehend their thoughts precisely. Men and women can have very different though processes. The best one can do sometimes is to pay close attention to your girlfriend. Try to relate to them on as many levels as possible. Resolving whether or not you're loved by someone is not easily done. I, being obscenely analytic of everyone around me, compare how I interact with someone to how they interact with me. If we act similarly towards each other, chances are any emotions I have directed towards that person may also be shared by that person for me. Obviously, you can tell if she doesn't like you by whether or not she seems to be making a conscious effort to avoid you, or attempts at talking to her wind up with her giving laconic responses such as "Yeah" or "Ok." When there is mutual love, the both of you won't feel any sort of aversion to each other at all. QUOTE(jaylin @ Apr 4 2006, 10:30 PM) also, the gal are perfect pretender and the guy can't know wht the gal's mind. may be there are some techinque or ways that i don't know. can u point me some? This may seem like a radical idea, but if you're wondering what she's thinking or feeling *ask her*. Most women are flattered when you take enough interest in them to inquire how they're doing. Yes, there's a subset of women who either think that men should just innately "know" somehow, or who just like manipulating men, but most women are fairly reasonable. If you're interested in developing a real relationship, the communication's going to be the most crucial part. Also, just as a hint, women *hate* to be stereotyped, especially along gendered lines -- reconsider your point of view, or if you can't then it's probably best not to share it. QUOTE(fuziwara @ Apr 12 2006, 07:29 AM) Love is all. The people can't live without love. If u think LOVE IS ALL, u r nothing If u can't live without love, u r useless
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Easy there. We should not be insulting people. Here is what perfect love is. It is uncodnitional. It isn't shelfish, it isn't prideful. It is self-sacrifice. It is something you will be willing to do anything for. What is a potrait of perfect love? I can give it to you in one simple story. I will give you two examples. There was a father and he took his son out for a walk one day. They were walking in some mountains on a trail. However, a bear lunged out of a bush toward them. It grabbed the boy, and started to drag him away. The father grabbed his son and beating on the bear ggot it to let go. He told his son to run, which he did. Later that day, the authorities found the dad. He sacrificed himself for his son. That is the potrait of perfect, unconditional love. Is the story true? Yes. A parellel it may be, Jesus saw His childrensuffering and dying down here. What did He do? He came down here, and died for all of us. for you, for me. And he did it knowing what was going to happen to him. It was an act that rejected all selfishness and pride. There is the perfect axample of love. In a single story. Provided by a single man. That is, Jesus the Christ. QUOTE If u think LOVE IS ALL, u r nothing If u can't live without love, u r useless Thats harsh and insulting, it really is. You can live without love, but you cannot be ALIVE. Love just cant be explained, as everyone before has said, if you are in love you know it but you can never, ever tell that person exactly how you feel. You can say "I love you" but it never explains what you're feeling. One thing i can say about love is it is the best and worse feeling anyone can ever feel. Its the best when your with the person you love, laughing, joking, talking, holding etc...but when you're in bed, alone while they are in their bed with their partner its the most lonely, depressing feeling you could feel. QUOTE Here is what perfect love is. It is uncodnitional. It isn't shelfish, it isn't prideful. It is self-sacrifice. It is something you will be willing to do anything for. True words. By the way, interesting topic you've started here 
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The chase is half of the fun my friend... But you know you will love someone not from one large event or occurence. You know that you love someone from the ways that they affect your life in the small ways they affect your life. They are your goodmorning, your entire day and your goodnight. They are constantly on your mind, and when you are with them you are never more happy. (Mine is in Spain for three weeks and it's KILLING me)
Knowing if another loves you is probably one of the hardest things to know. You just have to trust your instincts and go for it, take a risk or for the rest of your life you will be saying "What If..." and that will haunt you for a long long time. So my advice is to just put yourself out there because if you are in the position where you think you should take that risk and that you know that person that well, then the results should yield considerable joy... Ah...love
I think I know a perfect definition, we came up with it in a Bible study group of mine:
There are 3 parts to love. First there's emotion. This is seeing the other person for who they really are and caring about them. From this emotion, you get the 2nd part, knowledge or memory of that emotion. This way when you're not feeling particularly emotional/loving you make the 3rd part, choice/commitment to acting in their best interests apart from your feelings. These continual choices apart from the emotions lead to more emotion for the person as you come to care even more deeply about them because of the commitment to them and their well-being. So love has 3 parts, emotion, knowledge/memory, and choice/commitment. I also would add it is most clear whether a person loves you when it comes down to acting in your best interests or their own. Love is also by definition caring about the other person at least as much as yourself. This is why Jesus says to love others as ourselves. When we have to choose whether or not to help the other person even though it means sacrifice and pain on our part, that's when the rubber meets the road so to speak. This is why so many people THINK they're in love these days, they think it's just emotion. But as the above definition shows, it's more then that. It means making self-sacrificing choices on their behalf, not necessarily to satisfy their wants, but rather their needs. If it's just about their wants, if they want to walk off a cliff you'd let them. But that's not love, love is warning them because you're concerned about their welfare even if they aren't. So many people divorce and break up dating/marriage relationships because it's all about the big ME. They don't care about the other person much. It's about what the other person can do, how they make me feel. Once they no longer get an emotional "high" feeling out of it, they're out of there. Once the other person no longer can provide them with finances or security or popularity they once wanted, they're out of there. They're in it just for what they can get out of it. Let me tell, that's not love. Our society thinks it is. I wrote a poem on the subject actually, here's what I think it's really called: Love What all think they've got And so many do not It's life's biggest must Don't confuse it with lust Any heart it can thaw Fulfils God's moral Law You can give to the poor Let your body be burned Work incredible miracles Speak in tongues never heard And if you're missing out On this which you most need Then let there be no doubt You have nothing indeed Many claim to serve God But escape this command And they find it so odd This is His great demand And for all of your knowledge And wisdom, and power Which makes others to tremble And still others to cower If you're lacking in this Then all you have is moot For you're missing the point This, God's great attribute It never harms others Is patient and kind Meekly it suffers With no evil in mind Bearing all, believing all Hoping all, enduring all Never failing, over all travailing This, God's gift from above- This Is Love QUOTE(jaylin @ Apr 4 2006, 10:56 AM) does any one have the complete meaning abt that? the main thing that i want to know is : - how can i know i really love on a gal - how can i know a gal really love me. any one have any idea? J Untill today i thought i loved my partner, but even though in my heart i know i still do my actions dont say the same!last night i kissed someone else!iv been with my partner for years! im only 19 and ppl keep telling me we are 2 young 2 b together, that i am being held back in my life from what i should be doing!! my partner is very controlling and demanding! and very insecure, i just cant look at him after what iv done! we spend everyday 2gether and when we are not together we are on the phone! i know i love him, i love all the little things he does, i know what hes thinking before he even thinks it and he doesnt deserve to be treated like this! dont get me wrong he can be very posessive and nasty at times, he stays out all night, he fights a lot and is even facing prison!! despite his pitafalls i love him! i feel sick when i think of what iv done, AM I A HORRIBLE PERSON??? but i want to know WHY i did this! i feel like my life is in a mess, everythings going wrong! am i too young, what do i want! what should i do. if i told him hed finish me on the spot and i wouldnt let the reason we split be for a meaningless peck, its not fair on us both! i just want to know what to do next! has anyone experienced anything similiar! HELP!!!!
love is racional and emotional, it's the ideas that make your feelings so strong for that person and also the feelings itself... it's love
 you know a girl really loves you when her eyes shine just from being with you, when she looks happier just by being at your side  you know you love someone when you'll give your life for her and when you like her till the point it hurts good luck man QUOTE Being possibly the most trivial question of all time, this is one hard question to ask. Love is not a bond, or a relationship, but more of a heart to heart conversation. When the conversation grows, the bond and relationship forms. Therefore, love creates the bond and relationship. Still, that leaves us with the main question, what is love? Love is no ordinary thing. It is not voluntary, but when it begins, you will know. There are three types of love. Infatuation, love of family, and love of your spouse. Infatuation, most commonly known as "Puppy Love", is basically love at first sight. Infatuation can be the beginning of a future spouse love. Though most often infatuation doesn't amount to much. Love of family is loving your mother and father, and any siblings you may have. You want to protect them, watch over them, and fill their lives with an unbounding joy. The parents have an innermost feeling for their children, which in my case, they express everyday. Love of your spouse means loving someone you are married to. Whether husband or wife, you support your spouse with a deep modesty, and you treat them with great respect. Okay, so I told you the three types of love. But I still haven't told you what love is. I told you a definition, a heart to heart conversation, but does that tell you much? No. So, I will put it straight. Love means to care, to protect, to watch over, to pray for, to make sure the loved person is happy. But to tell you the truth, those are all parts of love. Not love itself. So, I will tell you what I think of love. Love has a meaning, but we will never know. Many philosophers have tried, but all their attempts have failed. Every single one of them! Love is actually never the same thing. Your destiny, your future path, what you choose to do, that all determines what love is. Love is never the same, you make up the meaning of love by how you choose to use it. From buzzle.com. i like the description they have (: Love to me has no meaning ending.. it means alot to me... 
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