CHOOSE OR WAIT:::
What Do You Do When You Love Two People?
I suggest that if you not being able to chose between your two loves than you do not have a strong enough bond to love them. In the future you shall find someone else that you truely love and will not be able to even look at another person.Have patience my friend.
HOPE I COULD HELP,JUST BE PATIENT.... read more.
What do yuo do when your stuck between two people?.. two people you love all to much and know it would brake your heart to see them cry and it would brake their heart to see you with any one but them.. im lost and help less at this moment.. Pleas help me...
Your post points mainly to saying that you 'love' two people which causes concerns to the above two posts. Do both these people 'love' you?, If so, how much do each of them 'love' you?
You may be suprised that if you think hard about who 'loves' you the most, you'll find that one doesn't really 'love' but maybe just a friend with a crush. Is what you feeling 'love'?, How can you be sure it's 'love'?
Are you willing to hurt someone, for the better good?, the one you may reject could 2 minutes later find the 'love' of thier dreams around the next corner.
Also, are you willing to sacrifice your happiness for thiers, or thier happiness for yours? Not doubt you have a tought decision ahead, but maybe if you let it sit around for alittle longer, see if one can maybe move on with someone else, leaving you with one choice.
Good Luck, and please share your experiences for others to learn from when things happen. Experience is the best Advice!
This is a matter of choosing who you lover more. You cannot say that you love them both and have the same level of affection for them. There relationships that goes better if you two are just friends or best friends, and most of the time is is better to have a best friend than a girlfriend or a boyfriends. And besides, i guess you are sure if both the two persons would love you that same as you love them. Choose the one who loves you just like you love her or him.
Well the first thing you need to do is ask them if they would mind having a threesome if they say yes cool if not you should leave them both and find two that will LOL
Just kidding i think you neeed to make a choice as if you don't you might end u plosing both of them and then you will really feel stupid then someone might get hurt but it is one those things you can't really help
my roommate is also warried about the thing similar to you.he love two girls one is rich but less beautiful than another,the other came from a poor workers family.both of them are in college,but one will be away for her graduation.so now my friend must make a choice for them.because the rich girl is far away from him who lives in different city,he feel that he love her less than the beautiful one.however,as fact,the rich girl alway concern him by sending him daily things and study info...which is very useful and helpful for him.but the beautiful one alway has a high expense,the money of which coming from my friend,just for her nice face(i dislike this kind of girl ).well,he make deep thinking and decide to love his real love who love him really.
i just gave an example above,so how you want to do is laying in which girl really love you... good luck.
Love is a single thing shared between two mutual people. Love is when 2 find love in the other. What you are talking about is lust, not love. True love is between you and someone else. not someones.
well i think after reading what everyone had to say, i am going to just let it be and not do anything... i'm not abou to do something i will regreat so... i'll just start looking all over again.........
CHOOSE OR WAIT:::
What Do You Do When You Love Two People?
I suggest that if you not being able to chose between your two loves than you do not have a strong enough bond to love them. In the future you shall find someone else that you truely love and will not be able to even look at another person.Have patience my friend.
HOPE I COULD HELP,JUST BE PATIENT.
I'm not in this situation as you see it. I'm on the other end :/
I'm in love with a boy.. He says he feels same but then he told me he likes someone else as well.I honestly don't know what to do ;I cant walk away :/ like he told me to because he hates seeing me hurting. But he doesn't get walking away hurts more.the other girl he likes has been meeting up with boys while all this is going on even though she is aware of how he feels. But I cant think about another boy bar him. When this lad asked for my number I just said. I love someone. He says he's gonna leave us both alone. But that' s not fair. I've realized how hard it is for me to deal with this. But it got me thinking. How hard must it be for him. He doesn't want either of us to get hurt. But what he doesn't understand is that its hurting me while he's trying to chose. When she's out meeting other boys. Ive asked him if he wanted me to walk away.. An he said yea you deserve better :/ butt I only want him. Ive said id walk away for him ;so that there's only one girl to chose from. As long as he'd be happy. But I cant. Ive tried an I cant. ..What am I suppose to do :/? x
stuck between two guys help ?
What Do You Do When You Love Two People?
ok I'm stuck between two guys can someone please help . I meant dude number 1 about a year ago and we've been talking for about a year . He means the world to me . He makes me happy and has always been here for me . We started to date but we had to keep it a secret because his family doesn't like me too well and there is just too much drama . Then we broke up but we still had our connection and still talk. He never told me he loved me he always use to say I really care for you . Then I meant dude number 2 and he caught my eye and I don't really know why I like him I just do . We started to date but I was still talking to dude number 1 well dude number 2 turned out to be a jerk and was very mean and controlling . so I just kept talking to dude number 1 we started to grow more feelings for one another . Well dude number 2 came back and told me that he really wanted to be with me and he will change for me and he did now were dating and we've been dating for two months and there has been no problems but I've notice that I really do care about dude number 1 I think about him all the time and I'm falling in love with him .And I really confused what should I do ???
and just recently I found out that dude number 1 is falling in love with me to
Confused-Need help making sense of my life
What Do You Do When You Love Two People?
My current boyfriend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 yrs now. We have lived together for about 9 months. He really wanted to buy a house so the two of us went house shopping and he closes on the house friday. I will not be on the deed as of right now because I choose not to be unless we were to get married first but I will be moving into the house with him. I really thought that this was something I wanted but I am having second thoughts. It gets more complicated. Before I started dating my current boyfriend I dated my high school sweetheart for 9 years. We had a house together and planned to get married. He wasn't the perfect boyfriend though. He liked to party and was not ready to grow up so we sold the house and I moved out on my own. Even though we were broke up we still would see eachother off and on. He has told me numerous times that he misses me and wants me back.. He has grown up and wants us to get married and promises things would be right this time. I miss him a lot. We always had a lot of fun together and in my relationship I'm in now I feel bored sometimes because we don't do as much as my ex and I used to. Plus all my friends are my ex and I mutual friends and I don't feel comfortable bringing my new boyfriend around all them so it is very hard. My family also does not like my ex but loves my new boyfriend. I'm not for sure what to do. I'm moving into a house in four days with my current boyfriend but cant seem to get my ex out of my head. I don't want to hurt either one of them but I care for them both, I need some advice.
So as you may or may not know from a post about a month ago I have been seeing an older guy on a
regular but casual basis. We have started having an intimate sexual relationship only recently and I
really enjoy spending time with him. It's coming up to a month from us first hooking up and
although I'm happy as things are I don't really know where we, as a couple together, stand.
When I have mentioned "us" or "making things official" he brushes it off with a joke. To be
perfectly honest this didn't bother me when it was only two weeks or so but as I say i....
So there's this girl at work, we'll call her Shaniqua. I work relatively close to Shaniqua
several days a week. We've become pretty good friends and hang out once in a while. We text/chat
all the time, etc. The problem is Shaniqua is drop dead gorgeous. I mean like a perfect 10 model.
I'm not a bad looking guy by any means, but I'm not Patrick Dempsey either. She's
constantly getting hit on/asked out by other guys from school (university) and work and she always
turns them down straight away (granted they're usually annoying or prodding too mu....
haha, im not really clear on weather you ask for advice on this forum or post advice, so im just
going to ask for advice. anywho. there is this guy ive known for two years now, but we never really
talked until 5 months ago, before i transfered schools & we got really close. at first i was
really excited because & it was just great, he seemed to like me to, but as the day came closer
for me to move, he seemed to be avoiding me & i was so comfused by this... & when i left he didnt
even say goodbye to me.. idk it made me feel unwanted? heres the dilemma: we started....
I live in a town where girls generally make a first impression on people based on what they wear;
not what they look like, not their personality, etc. I know all girls aren't like this, but
sometimes I think that it's just me that can't express who I really am to the opposite
gender. I've had friends who are girls before, but that was in elementary school and early
middle school, and now I'm in high school where things are a bit more serious. I general tend to
hang out with my friends in an area separate from where most of the people are, and our enti....
When a person says "A relationship needs honesty to work" most people brush it off as something they
know already- but how many people actually listen? If you and your partner are completely honest
with each other, there are millions of problems that can be averted. The hardest part is trust.
Step one of being honest with someone is trusting them enough to be honest with them. "Love is
living without doubt or fear" is one of the greatest lines I've ever heard for this sort of
thing, and it's true. You have to know the person you are dating enough to trust them....
Hey, I need a bit of advice/help.... Im dating this girl.. but we barely ever see eachother, Last
time i seen her was about 2 and a half weeks ago. She lives on the other side of town, obviously
goes to a different school than me, and weve only hung out one time in 3 weeks of dating. Im
supposed to hang out with her this weekend, with people... But im not sure. This is were it really
gets stupid.. Ive only known this girl for a month. And a week after knowing her i asked her out.
Love at first sight kinda thing? /tongue.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":P" bo....
For all of you who have read my topics i deeply thank you..... and i need your advice once more. Im
sure you are getting annoyed with all the topics im posting but im really confused and emotional
right now....I have no clue what to do! Here is total and complete story sumed up from the
begining. There is a kid in my school named Anthony, he is a soccer player and doesn't have
many(if any) freinds because of his last girl friend who was basicly "the school slut" (no offense
intended to her), but he is just as bad, he will go to incredible lengths for sex. When i att....
If you didnt read my first topic and are intrested in getting the FULL story here is a link to it
:http://www.trap17.com/forums/advice-girl-problems-t51902.html Thank you for leaving feedback to
help me or taking the time to read. /biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":D"
border="0" alt="biggrin.gif" /> Well if you read my other topic you'll know what is going on.
This pertains to my second problem. My friends(alec, rob, steve, and the girl who is my friend that
i think likes me) and I were hanging out to day and we decided to go to the mall to eat....
Heres the story, My 2 best friend's(part of a set of triplets) cousin came to live with them for
a month. During the course of the month I fell in love with their cousin. She then went back to
europe and now I'm heart broken. She may come back next summer but there is no garentee. I still
talk to her on myspace and on an istant messenger. My biggest concern about her coming back was
money so i took it apon myself to start saving money, i have about 1/4 of what it would cost for a
round trip flight. Problem #1 would be if i do raise the money, how would i get it t....
Hi Everyone, I'm new here and need a bit of advice. Basically, I've been on a work
placement for the past year and finished this Friday. Two new placement students started a couple
of months ago. I really like one of them. We get on really well but I've never really let her
know that I like her as more than a friend. Last night we all went out for my leaving do and I was
planning to ask her out for a drink then. I didn't want to do it before as it could have got
awkward. I was talking to her a lot but I got shy and didn't end up asking (yes st....
Im 20 years old,I used to talk to this guy on internet when I was in 9th grade like jus friends n
then after 3 years we fell in love with each other but I had to travel to another country for
starting a college there and couldn’t meet before leavin cause he was outta town for his sisters
marriage. Its really complicated , we’ve been in this relationship for two years now.we are normal
bf gfs over fone but we’ve never met. Now im back for summer n obviously he really wanna meet me n
I’m little nervous to meet him for the first time. Hehe. Not much of an issue I know ....
I have a Real Bad story but the problem is that Im Shy... and i really dont know what to do... I
dont even know from where i can start.. but here i go 1-)Im just 16 Years old now... and im really
shy... i hope that never doesnt exist but.. i like someone from my class she sitted 3 chairs front
of me... (Sitted because im on Summer Vacations now) But i really wanted to be with her i am in love
with her, sometimes... i talk to her and i dont know what to say to her im always get nervous
because im Shy... anyways i think she doesnt like me idk y... For Valentine's ....
Hello! I've been in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. The
last year was spent being 1 1/2 hours away from him due to college. Is anyone else in a similar
situation? If so, I'd like to talk with you about it! Ranting helps, lol, but I also wanted to
know if you have any tips for how to improve the relationship even when it is long distance. I find
that we fight a lot more now that we are long distance. In fact, we never used to have SERIOUS
fights because, in person, we could always hold each other and we could see each ot....
heya,i really need advice with this one,alright......i'm single and ther's tons of girls
that likes me,but theres this one special girl that i like ,but she is in a ralationship /sad.gif"
style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":(" border="0" alt="sad.gif" /> ,but i really like her ,i stay
afta skool wit her and talk to her on my cell phone alot,we have almost everything in common,but i
just dun no wat to do!!!!! I dont want to interfere with her relationship!!!....
Hey guys, I am new here but I didn't just sign up for this so I'll try to stick around. I am
13, never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I really like a girl (because of a school trip) , and I
want to ask her out and get to know her better. So can I hear your helpful words of advice. On
Friday, I admitted to a friend, I liked a girl. He gave me advice and tried to work something
out...this led it to one of her friends. So I admitted to her friend that I liked her. I can't
explain this too much, the whole MSN Conversation explains it the most. I am willing t....
I like this girl at my school, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out. I'm 18 and
she's 16 and i'm like 3 times her size cuz she's small and i'm kinda big so it would
be kind of weird. I think she likes me but I'm not sure yet. We don't really talk much
outside of school but she talks to me everyday in the hallway and sometimes makes an effort to yell
across the school parking lot to say high to me. I'm just wondering how I should go about maybe
asking her out or if I should or not... she was in my German 2 class last semester an....
Ok... i have a story to tell ladies and gents... of what happened to me at work today: I am filling
up the drink machine with ice in the back wait station so the girls have ice... well as im walking
away, cindy, one of the waitress', tells me " 61 wants you... the girl, not the guy....". So
me, being the type of person i am, ignore it and try to avoid the situation all together. Well,
while me and cindy are cleaning tables in the banquet room (a room off to the side of the main
dinning room, no one was in there at the time), she says "she wants your number. Just g....
Well yeah, I feel a little weird asking help here... But I've read other topics and maybe you
can help me with an advice or two. Well my problem is ... a girl. I mean, she's not the
problem - I am. I like her for like 2 years now. And I know stuff about her ex b-friends etc. We are
good friends and yea, she knows I like her but I'm kinda afraid and don't really know how to
show her that...you know. I mean, I've been with two girls since I like her but...I just broke
up with them because I didn't really have any feelings against them. I even cat....
Ya well basically i need help with impressing/asking out someone, i have plety of oppurtunities in
my 4th hour class she sits behind me in my 5th hour class she sits to the right of me and in 6th
hour she sits diagonal to me so i have oppurtunities to talk to her but i dont know what to do,last
time i had a crush on someone i never built up courage to ask her out or talk to her much and i
ended up just like hating myself whenever i saw her...not like hitting myself lol jus mentally and i
ended up just hating it whenever i saw her for 2 years and i finally just let it go ....
Hi all Recently, I asked a guy out. He told me that he is in a relationship, but he woudln't
mind to just get some cofee with me. We had a cup of coffee together. we have so much in common, we
kept talkign for two hours. HE never mentioned his girl friend. He even talked about a girl that he
dated 7 years agao, but never mentioned the current one. He looks like he is interested in me, kept
asking questions about me. So what do u think? does he have girl friend really? how can i get him
interested in me? thanks suma....
/sad.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":(" border="0" alt="sad.gif" /> Ok this may be
really long but hopefully someone will take the time to read it because i really need some advice.
About 3 weeks ago i met this guy he works with my ex's aunt and sometimes i go to her work and
bring her coffee (even though i know her i dont know her well enough to get her to help me)anyways
when i go there the three of us will stand around and talk so i have never really had a conversation
with him but i am interested in him and i would like to tell him but i am so very ve....
Hi guys, I'm in a long distance relationship with a French guy living in Switzerland. And
frankly things are not going well. It is already very difficult not being able to see each other
face to face , we have to use Skype to talk to each other. And he visited me like 4 months ago than
he had to go back to Switzerland to work. Now things are bad between us, he has some financial
problems so I sent him about US &50 to help him out and he's like working non stop, he has a day
job working at a clinic and at night he does baby sitting, he speaks to me like just 5 mi....
Alright, I'm meeting my girlfriend's father this Sunday. His attitude towards me is already
very negative, according to my girlfriend. He is around 280 pounds, 6'7", and he used to box
professionally. I'm fairly intimidated by him, and I haven't met him yet. Could someone give
me some suggestions on how to act around him to reduce the hostility and show him that I'm a
good person?....
Ok theres this girl that i rally like and im not sure if she like me too. I want to find out if she
like me so i dont make a total fool of myself if i ask her out. But i really dont know how to ask
her out i mean i tottaly freeze up when im about to ask a girl out its like i think im saying it
but i cant open my moth to say it. The last time i went to ask a girl out i got rejected and made
fun of for three months. So i turned to the internet to help me. If anyone has advice please help me
out. I really like this girl /sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle'....
The cruel fact is, (this is just my personal opinion), that there is a big difference between what
we would like to be, and what we really are, as humans, as creatures, and there is a big difference
between what we would like love to be, and the things that really affect it. This might seem really
simple, but its really important, for those relations that are most important to us. Now normaly,
when you dont really love someone too much, you dont care much about the relationship, so you dont
have much issues with it... but when you fall in love too deeply, and care too m....
Girls, post your advise for us guyz and Guyz, post your advise for u girls. Me (being male) have
only this to say. Playing hard to get isn't fun. Don't through yourself at him and DO NOT
send him little note's. Being subtle is your best bet. But do not lead him on if you don't
like him. That's all I got, now it's your turn! /smile.gif' border='0'
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My ex girlfriend gave my number to one of her friend. I called her on date. And she said :yes.But
ther is a problem, she didnt showed up.But thats not only time. She screwed me for a five times.
Finaly she want to go on date but i dont know should i go or not. I dont want to be a dork! What
should i do? Should i go or not? Please help me! thanks....
Okay yesterday while coming home from the Labor Day Parade that they have here in NY every year I
saw a friend of mine that I grew up with. He and I started talking and he began to tell me once
againhow much he likes me. Now i have never taken him serious until last night. He said he likes me
and really would like to be in a relationship with me. He used to live around the corner from ym
house but he moved by himself to somewhere not to far from me. His dad though still lives around the
corner from me so I see him sometimes when he comes to visit his dad or his friends. ....
Alright I am gonna be straight to the point with this relationship advice that I need. And there
will be no holding back while I tell you the story and ask you for your adivce. Well I am gay and I
have a really good friend (who I will call John). And he wants to go out with me, but the problem is
the fact that he is going out with a female as well. She knows that he is Bi and it doesnt bother
her. She also knows that he wants to go out with me also and she is fine with it. But the problem is
that I dont know if I am really fine with it. Yes I do want to go out with Joh....
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).well,he make deep thinking and decide to love his real love who love him really.
