What Is This? Love Or Friendship

Bad-Boy

Apr 25 2006, 11:04 AM

Hye , here i am writing about an UNKNOWN relation-ship , I don't know whats its name ? is it LOVE or frinedship.....?
Infact , for the last 2 years i am talking to a girl ... She is very sweet,nice,caring and a very ..........
infact , now i cant feel good , when she is away from me....Mean the day we never talk to each other it is very difficult for me to spend that day , but when its a time to talk ' i never knows what to speak , justu sed listen her ... i know that is not FRIENDSHIP , and NOR it is LOVE.... MIGHT It be a realtion between FRIENDSHIP and LOVE..but what is the name of that RELATIONSHIP....
please tell me , what shuold i do , because i never felt EASE with out her........:'(

xaetos

Apr 25 2006, 07:27 PM

Yeah, its called a crush.

If she's single and you think you feel something more than friendship towards her, then ask her to go to a movie with you or something, or take her out to dinner.. 'specially if you think she might feel the same way about you. The worst thing is when you never work up the courage to tell someone how you feel and then you just..never know. Do yourself a favour and don't do that :\ Tell her..

I'm rambling a bit, so I'll stop. Pink font is unnecessary

agentblade

Apr 25 2006, 08:06 PM

Start by being friends, then slowly sort out your feelings for her.. xaetos is most probably right, it's a crush.. crushes come and go. Important not to let the feelings go over your head... Let your head lead not ur heart..

AnGeL KiSS

Apr 25 2006, 10:26 PM

QUOTE(Bad-Boy @ Apr 25 2006, 11:04 AM)

i think you should talk to her more often, get her to like you and get to know her more and if things dont get along, it was meant to be...

tuddy

Apr 26 2006, 01:19 AM

QUOTE(xaetos @ Apr 26 2006, 05:27 AM)

I have to agree with xeatos on this one, but don't be fooled also, she may precieve it as a friendship and therefore that is why she is able to talk to you. The only way around this is to start talking to her and and then before it becomes a deep friendship ask her out after going to movies, dinners as xeatos said.

But the pink font is her right if its available.

good-baby

Apr 27 2006, 05:39 PM

Oh dear . I can really understand your feelings , but i am very surprised to see that why you hav'nt tell her your entire feelings . may by doing so your problem solved. why do'nt you tell her you have some speciall sort of feelings with her. And i think so you are really in love with her , and you are afraid of her , that she will leave you

but if you don't share your feelings with her you may get panic more day by day.
so my advice for you is that just say her that you LOVE her...
hope that will helped you alot.And just be confident don't get be affraid or shy.
Best of luck.
Hope to hear some good news by you.

Bad-Boy

Apr 27 2006, 05:45 PM

Thanx to all buddies , for helping me on my HIDDEN LOVE.
infact problem is that i am lillte shy , but i will gather up courage and try to let her understand for what i have for her in my Heart.
please pray for me..
thank you all .

Bad-Boy

Apr 29 2006, 02:36 PM

Hi buddies . I did it , but now I am very upset by thinking that WHAT WILL HAPPEN . Buddies as you suggest me to gatherup courage and try to clear her what I had for her my my little sweet heart . I did the same thing .
I asked her to have a dinner with me , she agreed . so we had dinner and after dinner I requested her to go in park with me. And she never refused so we went to park . We were talking about nice weather , then suddenly I asked her that “ Can I say u some thing “ she was looking arround and asked me to carry on . then I bent on my knees , held her hand and kiss it , then she very surprisedly look into my eyes . I said “ I really Love You “ . She said nothing . But I was still lokking into her blue eyes . they were shining . Then she said nothing and walked away , But after walking about 10 to 15 feets she looked back at me , me was still on my knees , she smiled and walk away .

And still that day , she swithced off her mobile , she never came online , I went to her house she never want to meet me and saying that WAIT.... ……So please tell me What will happen now . I am very confused …..Now What will happened , I am afraid not to lose her

AnGeL KiSS

Apr 29 2006, 04:06 PM

QUOTE(Bad-Boy @ Apr 29 2006, 02:36 PM)

And still that day , she swithced off her mobile , she never came online ……So please tell me What will happen now . I am very confused …..Now What will happened , I am afraid not to lose her

aww, i hope you the best luck with her!
thats soo sad! go to her house and talk to her about it..

agentblade

Apr 30 2006, 12:18 AM

QUOTE(Bad-Boy @ Apr 29 2006, 10:36 PM)

It must have been hard on you. To gather up your courage to tell her how you feel only for her to ignore you. Well honestly there's nothing you can do about it except wait. I guess maybe you rushed into things, making her feel a little uneasy about the whole thing. Or either that she's trying to sort out her feelings for you, thus the need to stay away for a while.

I know the anxiety you must be feeling now, you really want her by your side. But you need to be patient and give her time to decide for herself. You must be gracious enough to accept that she may not like you. No point forcing her to love you, because then her love will not be genuine.

If things don't work out, I really do hope you two will remain as friends. Kinda sad to see a friendship broken up because of something like this.

On your side, don't worry about looking for girlfriends, a suitable one will come along one day.

Hope it helps you some whats

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iGuest

Aug 17 2008, 07:09 AM

it is love
What Is This? Love Or Friendship

It is love , I think you should forward with it . Ask her out for movies ,dinner last but not the least respect her make her feel like the most beautiful girl on earth .I think you should give yout feeling a chance , put some hints towards her that you are interested in her and then see her reactions .By doing this you can judge what she feels about you . Dude you are in love I m sure its love . Don't let it go ...

-reply by sundeep

AnGeL KiSS

May 20 2006, 06:12 PM

Lol well if she has been trying to avoid you, I'm pretty sure she's trying to give you a sign she doesn't really like you. (sorry if it sounds harsh.) But if she's been away or busy, I think she wants to be with you but is not available at the moment to be with you. Give it some time, you'll figure it out.

Justin S.

May 20 2006, 05:11 PM

Yea I agree it is called a crush lol!

good-baby

May 20 2006, 04:59 PM

QUOTE(Bad-Boy @ May 20 2006, 04:17 PM)

Hi to my all trap17 members . I have been inactive from the great trap17 forum for almost 2 weeks.
These two weeks were very crucial for me because I was trying to purpose my love as my trap17 buddies suggested me. So I will not tell you the result of my puposal . I am just goin to share each and every small incident and the difficulty I faced ……
Just starting from my last post … One of my buddy “good-baby” suggested me to just ask her to meet and just kiss her , but not her hands he asked me to French kiss her… when I read this I came much angry at that suggestion .Then I think much abouit it but cant decide what to do …..Then I just decided that I must try this to find quick results…. Then I mailed her to meet me in a restaurant to have a dinner with me … She never reply to that mail ….. then I text her to have a dinner with me , she agreed …. I was very much happy but much confused by thinking that what would I do…..?
That night I wait for her just wait for her , she never came…… Then called her , her cell was off , I went to her home , but she never wana to meet me…. She again asked me just to wait….But I can’t wait for any more……
Then I mailed her many times but I hav’nt receive any reply……
Now I was in believe that she don’t love me …. So I was very much didhesrted snd depressed …..
Thst night I received a text message from her …. But it was just a blank message….
But it was enough for me because it was a clue that now her cell is ON !
I just call her , she pick my call after a try of atlest 2 hours…. I asked her to meet me in our college garden…..She just says “ I will Try “ …… that night I never sleep about a single moment ! Next day I Bunk my all lectures and just thinks that what will I do……… Then I decided that I will never kiss her … just ask her about her decision…….
By chance there a function in the college so no body was in the garden………… I was sitting there and just waiting for her……
Then suddenly I feel some one coming towards me …. But I never looked that who was it ? My head was down ….
Then I heared “ Yes ! speak up ! I am just here for you ! “ When I realized who was she ….. There was new shine in my eyes ….. I just stand up and looked at her …. Oh My God ! She was looking soo much hot …. Wearing dashing read shirt and black jeans…… her hear was blowing at her face …… Then I don’t know what happened to me and from where I get the courage…I just put my one hand and her back and my other hand in her soft hair……Then I can’t believe that what happened and what I did….. But I just knows that it was a very HOT and really HOT stuff….. She just resist for a while but then she never resist but also put her hands at my face….I really don’t know what happened and how its happened I just know that I was wishing to stop that time for ever but that time escaped from my hand quickly…….
Then she try to pushed me away and wana to run … I just hold her wirst and say That was Love that resides in me………
She just say may be the same thing I have for you in my heart…….
So I am really thank full to you my buddies …
Really thanx to you all ! A real thanx straight from my heart to all the buddies who helped me !

Hye Thank God buddy you reply to this post .
"Bad-Boy" I was very much intrested to see the results , but i think so that you have been reamined inactive from post for about a week .But buddy , now i can understand why you remained inactive. But now i read your post and buddy believe me how much i happy to see the HOT results of your love story.
and i was also wondering that from where you get so much courage and confidence to held her in your hand and go for a sweet....
But there is only one thing where i disagreed you , where you write that you became DISHEARTED... buddy why you became dishearted....taht is not good..
but how ever now leave it and enjoy your LOVE STORY...
a reall good wishes from me for you and your partener...
greets

Bad-Boy

May 20 2006, 04:17 PM