LocalSeer
Aug 4 2006, 10:58 PM
| | A close friend of mine is very liberal and she sleeps with a different guy every week and continously sleeps with a few of them steadily. She's also very open about it and let's her friends know. This dosen't bother me much because shes a normal person otherwise and is great to talk to. But alot of people we know especially other girls call her a slut behind her back and constantly make fun of her. Is it really that bad to be open about sexuality, are social laws so unforgiving. I just want to know what some of you would think of her, and be realistic, like you know some of the guys who've she slept with and if you would act any different. |
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Chatz
Aug 4 2006, 11:33 PM
I wouldn't use the term "slut" for her, I would use B****.Why would she want to sleep with more than one guy? with all my nowloge of a shrink I can tell you she's bored with her life.One guy would be enough.If she wants more than that then maybe she should change carrers.She should stop this before It get's out of hand. Let's say she get's preguant,With all the guy's she's been sleeping with It makes It hard to know who's the kids father.  I surely would never wana get married to her.I'm sure every guy wouldn't wana love and strart a family with her knowing she sleeps or slept with many guys. All in all I think she should sit down and consontrate on getting a life because like I said before,If she wants to sleep around with guys then the best to do is go to the streets. 
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jlhaslip
Aug 5 2006, 02:07 AM
In my humble opinion, she is asking for trouble of the pregnancy or STD variety, never mind the consequences of the attitudes which the other friends are calling her names, etc. Hopefully she finds a way out of the current situation. As they say in the movies: " She has issues."
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arnz
Aug 5 2006, 02:12 AM
IMO, its okay to flirt with many if she's single. But to sleep with a different person could be asking for trouble (regardless if what gender you are). As many others said, consider the effects of sex related diseases such as STD, AIDs, and so forth. Pregnancy is also another issue in the females case.
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master_bacarra
Aug 5 2006, 02:54 AM
QUOTE(LocalSeer @ Aug 5 2006, 06:58 AM) 
Is it really that bad to be open about sexuality, are social laws so unforgiving.
well, society wants us to think that way. i guess the reason why she's open about it is because she feels that she is free by doing that. we have no control over that, and we cannot force her to stop doing what she feels could make her feel at her best. but like the previous post, it's not good health wise. it gets to the point that what she's doing wouldn't be good for her and her health. try guiding her and giving her some advice. nevermind the people who are teasing her. they are the ones who what i call "evil", those that step on people even at their lows. it's good that she has a friend that is concerned. help her out.
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uyiosa
Aug 5 2006, 11:51 PM
i have the same problem ok my freind sleep with men everday so i talk talk her ,i said it not health to have sex ever time so you should stop you might have hiv and cannot have sex no more .After few day she stop so you should talk to her ok or make sure she health.
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Justin
Aug 6 2006, 01:46 AM
If she's the legal age to consent, it's entirely her own business if she wants to sleep around. She's more than likely aware of these people making fun of her, and apparently it must not bother her too much. If it's a sexual addiction that you think could get out of hand, sit her down and talk with her. There are many serious side-effects that could result from this particular life-style, including social, physical, and mental problems. I personally, do not approve of sleeping around, but it's her own life she's messing up. Just be sure she knows the results.
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no9t9
Aug 6 2006, 02:30 AM
You people are all wrong. Whe isn't doing it because she wants to be "free", or because this person is "bored with their life". This is a classic example of a girl with low self esteem issues. She has to sleep around to proove to others and herself that she is attractive and can get guys to notice her. All though what she is doing is getting attention from the guys, it does not mean it is healthy attention. It's like when a child tries to get the attention of the parents by acting out and doing bad things. The child does the bad things to get attention even if it is negative attention. In fact, this could also be one reason why she is sleeping aorund. It could be that something is wrong in the home and she is not feeling needed or loved. So she looks for that elsewhere. In other words, she looks for the missing elements in her life by attracting guys who provide "temporary" or "fake" love. These type of people cannot change unless they fix the root cause of their problem. It is probably a complex issue and should be dealt with in more detail and with more effort than can be had over the internet. One quesetion though, is she hot and where can i get some? LOL
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JasperIk
Aug 6 2006, 02:43 AM
It doesnt matter how many guys/girls you sleep with, once you make that leap to sex you create risks whether its your first, fifth, 10th, or 100th time having sex. So for everyone saying, you shouldn't sleep around you will get an STD, chances are...the STD anyone recieves will be one from the first person they sleep with, or a few after. Sure if you sleep around more, the risk is greater, but the risk is ALWAYS there. I've personally been givin such a hard time for the lifestyle of sleeping around, which i hardly do now. But its like i will say something, and someone, will some how in their mind connect it with me sleeping around, and tell me "well you slept around". And it kind of sucks, because i know i did, and i know i cheated but its all in my PAST, and i regret some of the choices i made, but they have been made, and now i have to choose to just stay forward in my life. I don't look down upon anyone who sleeps around. I wish they wouldn't only for their safety but other than that, its their life and as long as they are trying to be as safe as possible let them do whatever makes them fulfilled.
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Goth_Punk
Aug 6 2006, 04:54 AM
People that can do that and still live with themselves are amazing! i mean damn, it's just wrong going around sleeping with every second person that you see! i'll never undrestand what must go through those pepoles minds for them to do it! Just think about it, they are discgracing themselves, their friends and their family by doing it! Sure it's fun to sleep with lots of different people but still, just find yourself ONE partner and stay with that! Don't sleep with every Tom, *BLEEP* and Harry around!!!
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kobra500
Apr 21 2008, 04:31 PM
I sleep with someone who isnt my partner, the difference is that it's only 1 person everytime we've been friends for years... Anyway i don'tmind it as long as they're no reprocussions and they dont blag about it!!! QUOTE i personaly beleive in the christian way of waiting till you get maried - not everyone plans on or will get married and i'm one of those people. I would happil spend the rest of my life with a person without being married, tbh my funerals more important to me though hopefully it wont happen for a long while. Marriage is just a bit of paper and then they're reprocussions when it comes to divorce etc! btw im not saying your wrong, your not wrong thats just my opinion of marriage
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adrianator
Apr 21 2008, 09:39 AM
Don't listen to anyone that tells you she's a slut or a *BLEEP* or any of those other nasty words. Honestly though, the STD and pregnancy thing is always a threat. Swinging is a common thing amongst those who simply enjoy the act of sex. Just like men, women love sex, only some are too prude. Don't listen to those people who say you should settle down with one person either. They are probably stuck with someone they don't even like that much and are jealous that someone can sleep around still or stuck on a religious agenda or they're just projecting their morals, which is really their own opinion. It's possible that her 'repeat' sexual encounters with the 'same' partners were ex-boyfriends of hers or once were potential boyfriends. Who hasn't slept with an ex... again, after a break up? She could be looking for the right guy or treating all her men like a harem. What's wrong with that? Is it possible that she's not satisfied with the men she's met so far and her repeat booty calls are the ones that almost fit the bill for her, but she's still looking for mr. perfect? She probably looking for a good bedroom trait first, which isn't so bad. Don't listen to people who stereo-type sex and simply associate it with low self-esteem and depression. WHY? Why do I hear about depression and low self-esteem from at least one person everytime sex is brought up. Could it be that person is just projecting his/her own feelings onto the person who is getting some? Maybe the low self-esteem comes from the idiots who go around calling people names? What about them, aren't they attention getters by putting someone down? And who has the low self-esteem? Just remember, everyone can get real friends. No one needs friends that go behind your back and say things. There's no need to confront them about it either. Just simply stop talking to them. Not everyone can be friends with everyone, so just deal with it. How does that one line go... "have fun with all the wrong ones until you find the right one", you'll never see the right one if you're messing around with all the wrong ones. That's my advice if you're looking for the right one, unless its the sexual traits you desire the most, but just think, sex may go with age. Then again, I hear about old people having sex and even swinging! When she talks openly about it, she's possibly offering an invitation rather than trying to brag about it. Women talk. They talk about what they do, it's that simple. If that's what she did on the weekend, then she says so. Tell her that certain people don't need to hear it (the ones who call her names, etc). Tell her to be more decisive in who she conversates that subject with. Tell her you don't want to see her hurt by getting an STD and stay protected with condoms. If the men are just booty calls, they probably have more booty call than just her. Booty call happens. Btw, there are terms less derogatory that people can use to describe a person.
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KansukeKojima
Apr 14 2008, 09:46 PM
What do I think about it... I think.... "Holy crap! I need to stay away from that... I might catch something!" I'm just kidding  .... I think that its actually pretty wrong.. . and rather disgusting.....
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etycto
Apr 14 2008, 09:43 PM
well isnt that what a "slut" basicly is someone who sleeps around with a lot of guys. but anyways my opinion would be yah she is a little "slutty" i guess that's just the plain truth, and what did you expect from her friends that's what most friends always do talk behind peoples back. i could say if she's using protection its not that bad but that's beyond the point. i personaly beleive in the christian way of waiting till you get maried but you know people makes "mistakes" but every week or so.
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fffanatics
Apr 14 2008, 07:14 PM
Personally i am not ok with a girl sleeping with tons of guys just because i dont want to just be one of many and also because it increases their risks of getting an std and such. I dont mind if a girl sleeps with someone who they are dating or in the process of having a relationship because it definitely is different. When you sleep with someone you care about, it just is better. Plus, if you are just sleeping around to sleep around, i guess you get a short stress relief but come on, there are soooo many other ways to relieve stress other than sleep with a random person.
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