Yeah I would have agree with this. Most people get "bored" of their partner especially after being them for so long. Some people really like to seak out change and have things new everyday. After six years that may finally just take too much of a toll on them and they call it off. This if course, as you said, excludes cheating and backstabbing. The search for change makes people feel alive I suppose. Not many other ways to put it.

Another reason is they just finally realize that they aren't the best match for each other. Maybe some things over time happened, some small things that never really ment much till that final day. I don't know how many instances this really happens because for the most part you know if you aren't a match within at least a year.

Well that's my insite !
-Jester

 

 

 

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Just my opinion, but...

I don't agree with the upper posters, who say that "true love never dies". She does!
Love can exsist in the couple by itself only a year а two years. And it is not love indeed, but falling in love.
It is very sweet process, that’s why we prefer to call it love. After a year our passions calm and many relationships end.

True love is something that both people must be building all the time. This is a hard workout, which has little common with
the beginning of the relationship. The reason why a couple breaks after 6 years, usually is that only one, he or she, was trying
to build this relations and the other was just "drifting". So the one who worked just becomes tired (mentally of course) and
realizes that he does not need such relations. And that’s it.

Of course, there many other possible reasons, but what i have seen or heard of (or taken part in:)) is this.

Best wishes to Author and all forumers in finding an ideal partner!

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It isn't true love then. You have to get around what the meaning between love and true love is. Love isn't something that happens, but may not last forever, it has a concept of lust involved as well. True love, has a way of re-creating that spark of love over and over and never losing that love, just because you break up with someone doesn't mean that love is gone either.

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Lack of Communication within each other.

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