Juanmi
Aug 8 2007, 03:27 PM
shadowx
Aug 8 2007, 11:31 PM
My first piece of advice is this, read this topic http://www.trap17.com/forums/regretted-t50191.html and think how you would feel if that was the case with you. Now assuming youve read that topic just think how that would feel, it happened to me, they didnt get married but it was a serious relationship and now i will never be with the girl of my dreams because i was shy. Trust me you dont want that to happen! youve told her how you feel, thats a brilliant first step, many people cant even do that so feel proud of yourself. The next step is t ask her how she feels or ask her on a date or something. You could get her friends to find out how she feels about you but i think that it sounds better coming from you. If you have to write it down in a sort of letter thats fine, just tell her that you like/love her and that you would like to get together and you want to know how she feels about you. if she tells you she doesnt like you in that way then try to be her friend, thats what i said and she turned out to be the best friend i could want. if t turns out she does like you in that way then ask her on a date, if she likes you then shes unlikely to say no. If she does say no then ask her another time, just say something like "Did you fancy seeing FILMNAME at the weekend? Could be a laugh" nice and casual and take it from there. Dont do nothing because you will regret it everyday of your life! Atleast if you try and it doesnt work out how you want you can say that you did your best.
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You have to get used to being around with her and talking with her, it's much easier if she's something like a friend rather than almost a stranger. This will allow you to get over the shyness and things should be much easier from that point on.
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eviljoints
Aug 9 2007, 12:43 AM
glad to hear you have found the girl of your dreams my friend doesnt happen to us all, you really dont need to be shy (sounds a dumn thing to say), you just have to think of her a another friend when talking to her, made it easyer for me someone said imagine the girl naked not a wise idea. just be yourself around her talk to her like you would anyone else, shadow is right you have to talk to her and asking her on a date is a good idea to the movies is brilliant as you can go as friends or a couple but maybe you should say you love her just yet if see how she feels about you but make a go for it
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Juanmi
Aug 9 2007, 01:34 AM
Its true everything you guys says i should talk to her... at least she knows what i feel for her... But really i wasnt shy all my life... when did my shyness started? When i got my first "No" and it wasnt a a Real "No" Because that girl told me that we are still friends we need to know more each other mayb if we continue we can hit up with something but... 2 months later she was whit my friend... and i feel so bad about it  but dam is just that know it was like my life of pimp with girls never existed cause i dont know what to tell them... and thats the focus of all my problem what can i tell her... what should i say to her... just for starting cause if i can start easily the date will be a cake... i just need to start... thats it and i need to know how.. and telling her what.. Thx people for the advices...  
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Kadak10
Aug 9 2007, 05:16 AM
Well, you have to do something, and you do have to get to know her, and what she likes. I know this may sound harsh, but some girls dont want someone that will bend to their every need, and they want someone who will be able to rely on for solid advice, and for someone who can really listen. I thought that I was madly in love with someone that I knew once too, but as it ended up, neither of us was a leader, and dates turned into us running around trying to find something that the other wanted to do. Naturally, this lead nowhere. I hope that you find that you two were meant for eachother, but even without that, people are still compatible, and its all about the ability to look over the others flaws. But once again, you must be somewhat outgoing if you want to keep an even relationship with her. Sorry if that doesnt really make much sense with the flow. It is just from experience, and a broken heart.
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heavensounds
Aug 9 2007, 07:12 AM
Well I think that noone here on this forum is able to help you with your problems! It is about decision and not about advices and all that stuff...If you listen to these advices you'll only learn the way other guys do it with THEIR women but that most certainly does not mean that the women or girl you are after is going to react in the same way or that she is looking for the same thing in guys. You have to be strong, have curage and most importantly WAIT! If you are 16 you are most certainly very young and at that age you only begin to realize yourself and your body. Do not rush into things..just let it happen naturally and when you are comfortable enough, then go to the women... best whishes
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Juanmi
Aug 9 2007, 01:06 PM
QUOTE(heavensounds @ Aug 9 2007, 03:12 AM)  Well I think that noone here on this forum is able to help you with your problems! It is about decision and not about advices and all that stuff...If you listen to these advices you'll only learn the way other guys do it with THEIR women but that most certainly does not mean that the women or girl you are after is going to react in the same way or that she is looking for the same thing in guys. You have to be strong, have curage and most importantly WAIT! If you are 16 you are most certainly very young and at that age you only begin to realize yourself and your body. Do not rush into things..just let it happen naturally and when you are comfortable enough, then go to the women...
best whishes Maybe it can be true... they are just telling me what they did to their Womens... but at least that gimme an idea that what can i do... Im on Summer Vacations right now. im waiting to start school Aug 22 and from there is where im taking my second change... if i see her that day.. what should i say to her?? should i say this? Hey(her name) How was ur summer... what did you do on summer? Well we talk later.. i hope we are in same class again... Should I? say that................. But you guys are telling me what can i do... and what i need is what can i tell to her...
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Kadak10
Aug 10 2007, 01:59 AM
Nope, no one can tell you what to say, because its not you. Memorizing some lines and spewing them out? thats not who you are, and the words have to come from within you
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lilemi
Aug 10 2007, 02:59 PM
Well, im a girl and i think id like it (if i put myself in the girls shoes) if you just kinda waved and smiled. Its kinda saying that you acknowledge her being there, and its sort of setting up that you could talk later. Like casually, just ask how her summer was, where she went, if she saw any family members, what classes she's in this year.... Just small talk. Flirt a little 
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iGuest
Jul 3 2008, 09:10 AM
Replying to JuanmiUmm yeah but let her talk back first lol ~hey(her name)(mayb you can give her a lil hug) *hey(your name) ~how was your summa? *oh it was great! I hung out wit ma frends and everything ~oh you look great by the way (compliment her) *oh thanks ~well I guess we will talk later *yeah dat will b nice ~I hope we hav the same classes 2gether dis yr *yeah haha dat would b nice ~talk to you later, bye *bye (your name) see you around
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iGuest
Jul 3 2008, 09:01 AM
Replying to JuanmiDnt b shy...You should just talk to her like any otha person. And if you keep running away your neva gonna kno wat she thinks bout you!or you can try like talkin to her on myspace or facebook or just on the comp first so you can say wat you gotta say wit out actually seeing her so you can loosen up a bit the next time you see her. Ofcourse your gonna b nerves but just say hey wats up and take it from there...I bet if she could tell you was nerves (which she probably can) if she likes you enough she will bring up a subject you can talk about wit her so you would feel more comfortable...Offer to take her out like on a group date and mayb sum dates wit just you two [warning you are gettin this advce from a 13 yr old...But it might work cause I got ma first boy friend kiss already!] good luck boo! -reply by eh...
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NuevoComienzo
Jun 5 2008, 01:17 AM
Hello Juanmi, my advise is as dre posted u need to think shes like a friend or your sisters friend and try to get used to being around her, oh and every time you are near her act like you are doing something that is really important and keeps you from looking at her. That way she'll notice you because if she's used to being looked at all the time by the boys and you are not doing it because you are always up to something she'll start to wonder and she'll be compelled to talk to you. Dont get me wrong and make the mistake of making her feel shes no there, Just that what you are doing is very interesting and hopefully she'll react to that. GOOD LUCK
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haberjj01
May 31 2008, 12:06 AM
I feel ya man. I'm in college now but I was just like you when I was in highschool. Oh if I only knew then what I know now about women. First off, and I know everyone says this, but you have to be yourself around her. This is totally true. If you are yourself when you talk to her it will make it easier for her to talk to you. Believe me, if your so damn nervous when you talk to her she will probably be equally nervous b/c your making her nervous. Confidence is key. You have to be confident with yourself and who you are if you are to ever get a girl like the one your talking about. Not only will this help you with the females but it will also help you with school, jobs, interviews, etc. Talk yourself up. Lie to yourself about how confident you are. Lie to other people about how confident you are. Soon enough they will think you are one cool cat, then so will you and BAM! Your all of a sudden one confident S.O.B. When she told you she just wants to focus on school that was a lie. Sorry to tell you this, but don't despair. At least she didn't tell you flat out no. Your next step now would be to be friends with her. Talk her up but don't ask her out. What you should do is ask her to go do something that is not so datish. For example, ask her if she wants to eat lunch with you and your friends. Or get your friends together (or her friends if possible) to go to a movie and ask if she wants to come with. Anything non-threatening only something friends would do (usually with a group of people). Talk to her on Myspace or Facebook. Be friends with her friends (this is a really good idea). Just remember, your only 16 and this love will probably pass. I thought I was in love with a girl in highschool till I got to college. Then when I was in college we started talking alot on myspace and she said she wanted to see me when I got home (cha ching!). But then I met this amazing girl and now we're engaged. Crazy right? You never know what is gonna happen or where/when you will find love. Hang in there guy, it'll happen for ya.
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iGuest
May 16 2008, 07:41 PM
I'm 13 years old boy and I love this 11 year old girl that has been my friend sence I was about 2 years old and she use to feel the same way about me but then I was mean to her alot after I met some new boys so now she doesn't and all I want more than anything in the world is for her to feel the same way about me again and for her to marry me when we get older but I just can't get her to see that I'm not a jerk anymore and that I love her more than anything in the world so what do I do to get her to see I've changed. -reply by corey
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