Okay. For you to understand my feeling, you'll read a LLOONNGG story.
On the night of March 18th, I dumped my girl friend. The next day, many of my "friends" walked up to me and said something along the lines of: "I hate you now. [INSERT MY REAL NAME], you're an idiot for breaking up with [INSERT MY EX'S NAME]!!!"

I went from most of the kids in my class being my friend, to most of them hating me and wishing I could burn for eternity. What makes matters worse, is the fact that [MY EX'S NAME] has broke up with me 2 or 3 times before the 18th. I respected the fact she wanted to break up. I didn't spread rumors, I didn't assume anything, nor did I try to turn all of her friends against her. Everyone was fine with her when she broke up with me, but when I break up with her ONCE everyone hates me. Usually, I never cuss, but one kid kept coming up to me saying "Why'd you break up with her? She told me you didn't know why." Eventually, I broke down and cussed him out. This "cuss out session" made me feel even worse about myself.

At the time, I just told everyone the relationship felt fake, which it did, but I didn't tell them everything. The real reason I broke up with her was because one of my best friends kept flirting with her. She returned he favor to him. He would talk to her so I couldn't, sit near her so I couldn't, he'd give her google eyes and she'd stare right back at him with google eyes! They both made the relationship feel fake.

What I'm about to tell you takes the story to a WHOLE new ball park. Not even two days after I break up with her, she's going out with my "best friend"!!!!!!!!!

Sorry if the above sounded like a pitty party, but I had to vent the steam out of my life somehow. Thanks for reading and please post advice.

 

 

 

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Newsflash: anyone who hates you because of anything she said or did was never a real friend, especially your so called 'best friend', and her? she's a hoodrat not a 'girlfriend', you can obviously do much better.

Take it as a blessing in disguise. And don't feel bad about having been played, they will all get back what they have dished out to you.

So, take comfort in the fact that the fake relationship is over and all the fake people in your life are leaving with it:) Now you have room for REAL friends and a girlfriend capable of loving you properly:)

And finally: Hold your head high and elevate, do not allow these people to keep you feeling low and drag you down to their scumbag level!

You're in my blessings and prayers
Blessed Be

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Yeah don't blame yourself blame your "friend" and ex just becuase neither of them were being faithful for you, and odd's are that hte people who asked you why you two broke she was telling them some BS story. Of course I am surprise you didn't take it out on those two just because of what they did and what not. Of course you popping like that is understandable after being hounded on why you broke up and stuff like that, but take note though there are other fish in the sea.

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Thank you so much you two for the support. I really needed it. Thank you!

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