Mich
Mar 18 2006, 03:10 AM
| | In most cases it is not that a man doesn't want to pay child support for his children, but he resents the fact that he has to pay it to their mother. I think it is more of a control issue than a money issue. If a man pays money to the mother of his child(ren) then she has control over the way it is spent. If the father was allowed to control how the child support was used, he would probably be more willing to pay it. Most men seem to fear that the "child support" will be used as "alimony". Unfortunately, a lot of the time this is the case. |
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iGuest
Mar 1 2008, 02:36 AM
reply to non-justification
Some Men Don\'t Want To Pay Child Support
Replying to KimShe should of went for an abortion. Women fought to have the right upheld, correct ?. Why, because it was their choice. Is it then fair to say the women is irresponsible, my God, then there would 20,000 liberal feminist stampeding across the nation. My point being is, the man does not have the option to get an abortion, just a ruling and bill of child support.
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iGuest
Jun 16 2008, 01:42 AM
I think you all are messed up. It all depends on a situation. Not all men should have to pay. Maybe woman need to stop sticking there pussy in every guys face and respect there bodies! 80% of girls I know are sick who are you people to think every situation is the same. If a woman has sex with a boy its rape vise versa why do guys get all the shaft of every situation. If my man was raped and some ***** tries to get his child support for some baby that technically ain't his HE WILL NOT PAY IT! All you people need to stop being so damn biest. Just cause a woman can put on some fake tears. Woman what mens money cause there to busy getting knocked up then getting a damn job to pay for there mistakes. Woman get a backbone stop going after all these men and messing up there life's.. Use RUBBERS they make them for a reason -feedback by ashlee
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iGuest
Jun 18 2008, 05:04 AM
I agree with the last poster...The mother could have had an abortion, but she did't...She made her own bed and she should lie in it... I don't really enjoy kids, I don�t want to be around them�...I never did�..When people talk about kids I automatically tune out...I have absolutelly no interest in that conversation. Kids are messy, they scream and they require constant attention, to me they are a big liability... I DON'T hate kids, I just want nothing to do with them... Why do I say this you ask? This kind of ties into this whole topic... I will try to explain... Keep in mind I�m just being honest here and I will not try to sugar-coat it... My goal in life is to do what I want, when I want and answer to no-one and outside of work, have as little responsibility as possible... Something that isn�t fesible for most people, if they choose to have kids. I know some of you are already seing red at this point, because what I just said seems to be a taboo in this society and most people dare not question the �status quo�...You are brought-up in this society to have kids, get married, get a house with a white picket fence and an SUV so you can haul your family around...And if you don�t want that... You must be a bad person and there must be something wrong with you... Unfortunatelly I had a little accident when I was about 16 and my condom broke at a house party I was at...Next time I have seen the girl she has informed me that I�m a father now and it�s time to act like one or else...I naturally chose the "else" without hesitation...It just made me angry, because: I DIDNT WANT THIS I DIDN�T ASK FOR THIS ...And now something I DON�T WANT is being forced on me through courts??!!??!! How can you legislate someone to take care of something he didn't want to begin with????? The MOTHER is the ultimate decision maker...She could have had an abortion, but she chose not to...Now she�s stuck with her choice and I want no part of it, yet I�m being punished for it... So then there�s the saying... "it�s different when they are your own" NO IT�S NOT! I have no intentions to be a part of his life, I never did, I have no feelings towards him and I care about him about the same, as I do about the kid, who lives down the street from me...Faking it would do more harm than good, aside from being dishonest. You can�t force someone to feel certain way about someone else...Kid or adult, nor you can legislate it... Of course she has dragged me through courts to get child support, which I think is a wrong concept to begin with... In short...I have created a new taxpayer for the government. I feel, if anything, the government should pay me, since they are the ones who will get their hands into his pockets, when he gets his first job and starts paying taxes... If you give me a seed to an apple tree, how would you feel, if I made you take care of it, under a threat of litigation and financial ruin, until the tree gives apples and then I get to be the one who harvest? And for those who feel that the taxpayers should not be on the hook for this...I got news for you...I'm a non-smoker and I excercise reguralry...Yet my tax money goes towards health care for those who make poor lifestyle choices...So there now we are even... My biggest regret in life is not getting a vasectomy some 15 years ago, I could have saved myself a lots of headaches...
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iGuest
Jun 19 2008, 11:07 AM
Also there needs to be a clear distinction between a guy who wanted kids and changed his mind once presented with his offspring (I agree that he should be gone after by the law) and a guy who didn't want anything like that in the first place and, pregnency was accidental and the relationship was just casual (like in my situation)...The later shouldn't be forced to pay, since the mother had the option of fixing thre mistake through abortion, but she didn't and now she wants to take someone else down for her mistake...Because remember SHE is the ultimate decision maker
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