Mm.. yeah, there you go, guys. ^^ Although everyone is different, and those might not all be good points.. I think, if you try your best, pay attention.. and keep up with number 20, at least.. you should be just fine ^^

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Okay, so that was a girl's perspective .. here's a guy's. . you should realise most of these things apply more to a sexy, confident and beautiful girl who knows what's going on with guys rather than someone who may not be as experienced:

1.

Flirting with other girls is GOOD as long as you don't overdo it infront of the girlfriend. Of course, this depends on what type of girl (your gf) is. If she is shy and fragile, then common sense tells you not to mess with her emotions. But if she's a HB (hot babe) then by playing around infront of her, it actually makes her WORK HARDER to get and keep your attention because she cannot believe that her BF is not interested in her!!!

Quote from a good female friend of mine: "I like it when he (her bf) flirts with girls, it makes me work harder".

3.

If she spends hours and hours THINKING about it, isn't that a GOOD thing??? She is thinking about you. Come'on, it's not just in the movies that when a girl hates a guy in the beginning of the movie, by the end they are having sex like there's no tomorrow.

20.

Like most guys, I like and I think it's our duty to pay for a girl. But don't let them get away with it that easily!
What i usually do is say "let's meet up and you can invite me to lunch" . . and then when the time to pay the bill.. give a little mock anger show and say "tsk tsk tsk, you are always using me .. are you going to TREAT ME tonight???" as you pay (of course).

 

 

 

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I never really understood girls since day one. But after reading this pice of article, i think that we guys are now one step more towards understanding women better

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My God, as one who just lost a 3 years old relationship i can feel these words like a knife in my back and make me realize how much i've been doing wrong and not knowing it:( .Heh,maybe next time...
Even women could never be perfectly understood I think most of this article is perfectly and painfully right and it's like a success recepy.

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Yes, these problems have caused us men some grief for centuries.

Possibly the best advise anyone has ever given me on the topic of trying to understand the Female mindset was a friend who was a lot wiser than I am. His opinion was that we (men) should forget about trying to understand them (women) since it is impossible because of the fact that Men and Women are different.
They think differently, they are encultured differently, their expectations are different, ... the list goes on. And since I have accepted this opinion, I find that I am a better person. I have better relationships with women. Not just as lovers, but as friends as well. Simply accept the fact that we will never understand them and that they are different.

Of course, like a customer, they are always right...

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I think thats a pretty good article. Not that sad and not the super fantastic, but it has some good points. I like some of the side female insights. #3 is the truest from my experience with dealing with helping female friends through breakups. Ive done my best to be a good guy so i dont think ive ever committed any of the no-nos, except being mean to a girl that was mean to me then incurring her wrath and her incurring mine. pretty bad stuff. listen to this article about that.

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The author of the article must be such a sweetheart!! Bless her!!!!

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This is a really good article, for a guy who wants to keep his girlfriend..

And I don't remember who put in the thing about flirting when you got girlfriend but personally i think flirting is ok,as long as you make sure the other party knows you're taken. it hurts like hell when you pretend what we have between us doesn't exist.

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