Albus Dumbledore
Sep 13 2006, 12:01 AM
| | Ok, well homecomming is coming around the corner soon, and almost everyone in the school know's who i like, and that this person likes me back (we both know this) and they are like trying to hmm, how should i put this.... pressure us to go to homecoming together... and i would but there are a few problems
A) i dont dance.. never can/could//will be able to
B.) Her dad doesn't want her dating, nor seeing any guys
C) i want to live to my 16th b-day (her dad would kill any boy she goes out with)
well, they just keep saying so, who cares what her dad says go with her to homecomming, i do not know why, but they are just begging us to go to homecomming together and its getting a bit annoying. 
basicly, peer pressure sucks.. eventhough im not going to cave into it, it sucks |
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NigaiAmaiYume
Sep 13 2006, 12:07 AM
Congradulations on standing up to peer pressure, Albus. While most of that's behind me, I can remember how painful it can be. Now, being a hopeless, HOPELESS romantic, I can see why your friends would like you to go out with her and be happy. But if you're not comfortable with it, stand your ground. Personally, I suggest going to the homecoming (Stag), just for the experience. You don't have to stay there the whole time, but it's still a major event in your life, and even if you don't dance it's fun to be there with your friends. And if you and this girl just HAPPEN to get out on the dance floor and move around (Not dancing, of course... Just... Moving...) to a fast song... *giggles* Sorry, I'll force my hopeless romantics to back off. ^-^
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savge17
Sep 13 2006, 04:42 AM
Do it man, its not a date. Its a dance. If he finds out well then forget about it. Just dont see him u know. U wont kill you or hurt you. Its called child abuse.
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christynokc
Sep 13 2006, 06:18 AM
Peer pressure is a beeyatch but with your age and where youre at in school ( being middle or high school) youre lucky these kids are just trying to get you to go to a dance with a girl. Most kids are offering the pressure on sex, violence, drugs, criminal activity, and Lord only knows what else. Count yourself lucky. They could be wanting more. Just do what you feel and let them know thats where you stand. If they dont like it tell em to go fly a really big kite in a really small spot.
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Albus Dumbledore
Sep 13 2006, 06:21 AM
QUOTE(christynokc @ Sep 12 2006, 11:18 PM) 
Peer pressure is a beeyatch but with your age and where youre at in school ( being middle or high school) youre lucky these kids are just trying to get you to go to a dance with a girl. Most kids are offering the pressure on sex, violence, drugs, criminal activity, and Lord only knows what else. Count yourself lucky. They could be wanting more. Just do what you feel and let them know thats where you stand. If they dont like it tell em to go fly a really big kite in a really small spot.
lol, i have been presured to try everything but violince..... pretty sad, but i dont cave in to peer pressure >_<
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red_dragon_here
Sep 13 2006, 05:05 PM
It is difficult to cope up with peer pressure. Especially if you are somebody with a low esteem. There is one easy way to make peer pressure go away, that is to have a belief in yourself and the fact that you are an individual who has no equal in the world. This belief , if you can strongly bear in your mine, will help you overcome any sort of pressure. The second thing to remember is that whatever your peers do, they cannot be you.
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Albus Dumbledore
Sep 14 2006, 02:36 AM
QUOTE(red_dragon_here @ Sep 13 2006, 10:05 AM)
It is difficult to cope up with peer pressure. Especially if you are somebody with a low esteem. There is one easy way to make peer pressure go away, that is to have a belief in yourself and the fact that you are an individual who has no equal in the world. This belief , if you can strongly bear in your mine, will help you overcome any sort of pressure. The second thing to remember is that whatever your peers do, they cannot be you.
question.... did you read the post? if you did not very well... i said that i wouldn't cave into it.... its not difficult to cope with peer pressure, you just say no and if they dont like your answer tough 
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jlhaslip
Sep 14 2006, 02:46 AM
Ata boy, AD, give 'em hell.
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AnGeL KiSS
Sep 14 2006, 11:58 PM
If you want to go to the dance with her then go ask her, if not then don't. Lol, don't listen to them do what you feel
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Danny
Sep 15 2006, 01:38 AM
I woundn't do it plainly because i don't like that sort of attention or w/e i dont like to dance either, and reallly i don't really pay attention to home comming queen/king thing.. but.. its really your desicion. So.. I wouldn't do it  ...
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Albus Dumbledore
Sep 27 2006, 05:47 AM
lol, i think that even if we were to get together behind her dads back, we wouldn't tell anyone at school mainly because she has some snitch friends  lol but even if it is a dance... A) i dont dance B_ i dont know how to dance C) i dont dance lol
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JasperIk
Sep 27 2006, 05:42 AM
Why don't both of you just go to the dance, on your own not together? If you end up dancing, thats great, but because you go seperate if you both don't dance together, it wont be the end of the world. Its really the only advice i have for the situation, sorry. As for peer pressure just ignore them, because in my experience, when people work so hard to put two people together, theres something more than just wanting to see the two to be together, theres some evil plot going on in their heads.
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Albus Dumbledore
Sep 27 2006, 05:31 AM
QUOTE It really doesn't sound much like peer pressure if a girl's involved, honestly. There's alot of deeper things, including how many of them were basically trying to pair you both together. Either way, it's not that important. Do it if you want to, don't do it if you don't want to. If it's up until your 16th birthday, not much you do at that stage socially will count in the long run. Not unless if you knock a person up, but that's another story. Either here or there, just go for it if you like her. Live while you're still alive. Life's not that long. i dont want to argue, i just want to do this for the posting, but peer pressure is when obviouisly your peers pressure you to do somthing, or try somthing, and in this case a group of my peers are pressuring me to go out with a girl that i like and who likes me back. so anywho and you have mydol? hehe jk
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Kioku
Sep 26 2006, 02:49 AM
Did you read my post? Honestly. Peer pressure isn't that big of a deal to put on a production about. That's what I said. I didn't say you caved into it, did I? Alright. Just checking you're actually seeing the same post I am. It was "hate", not "have". It could've been a typographical error, so I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. Either way, I'll now have to say while we're on the topic of peer pressure since nobody knows better. Back on the mark, it's far too often that I see people caving into peer pressure. No, this isn't your stereotypical after school special. They cave into what their friends want ALOT. I've seen people switch sports teams, hobbies, and music genres and that's only for starters. I really don't get why it's this giant undefeatable social force for many. Your friends like a different genre of music. So what? Just to prevent people from spurting into their time of the month, I'll comment on the first post in here. ( I don't have enough mydol to hand out. ) It really doesn't sound much like peer pressure if a girl's involved, honestly. There's alot of deeper things, including how many of them were basically trying to pair you both together. Either way, it's not that important. Do it if you want to, don't do it if you don't want to. If it's up until your 16th birthday, not much you do at that stage socially will count in the long run. Not unless if you knock a person up, but that's another story. Either here or there, just go for it if you like her. Live while you're still alive. Life's not that long.
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Albus Dumbledore
Sep 18 2006, 10:27 PM
QUOTE I have to say that, well, in reality, you dont really need to say that.. because if you read the post and bout 4 other posts i made in here, ive said it doesn't bother me, and i dont cave into it... im not that popular at school and i could care less, not my fault i like rock and hang out with the rockers where no one else goes
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