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just drop her, while you don't like being stalked, i'm sure its rather troublesome for her to stalk you as well. so just drop her, just hope she realises what she's doing is wrong..instead of taking it the wrong way and scratching your car or badmouth you..you get the idea...hell hath no wrath like a woman scorned..drop her, but do it nicely, be nice, and hope she understands... read more.
why don't you just drop her, somebody who calls every 10 minutes IS a stalker, and knows that. I would just drop her you know ,
You can worry about her feelings, but what about you , she doesn't worry about the fact she is stalking you, and thats just not respectful ..she can handle it
I agree... Just drop her...
She knows what she's doing, sure, she might not be trying to be a stalker or may not completely realize what it's doing... But she knows at some level that she shouldn't be calling... And if you don't drop her, it may only get worse... The problem with these cases are it's hard to get rid of them in any way other than just dropping them.
Sit down and tell her all the things that bother you about her and her actions, even though the truth might really hurt her being honest is always the best way to go....just be tactful when you talk to her ok. Is she a friend you've known for long or just a girl you just met? Are you even slightly interested in her? If not, then tell her and come clean cause if you don't put a stop to this, she might even think that you like to be called all the time and to have her on you 24/7. Goodluck!!!
Tell her youre gay, or if youre thinking of something less radica........tell her "you like someone else and you dont want to hurt her by dragging her along and dropping her at the last minute and that you want to be friends but thats all for now, who knows what the future might bring? But theres no point in wasting your life waiting for the future so maybe you should find someone else" something along those lines might work.
Atleast if she thinks/knows that youre looking after her interests it might help her move off.
Just start to talk her constantly about some new girl that interest you... really, then she will losse the interest in you and she will stop stalking
 Or say the truth, tell her that you dont like to being called over and over but you still wanna be friends... if possible.
I just got ticked off and dropped her. I told her not to call me ever then I barred her number from my phone. I moved on to a new girl
I'd say find another girl and move on!!! If she left yu then your love wasn't meant to be.
Just tell the truth to all the girls you will have in your life, if it's not a match then it's not a match. If she doesn't understand that, then she should not be dating anyone... let alone you.
You can NEVER go wrong with the TRUTH!
I agree with Jennifer, all anyone deserves is the simple truth. It may hurt there feelings, however, not as much as it would in the long run when they wake up to themselves!
On the other hand, it may be the only chick you get after you! Joking !!
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just drop her, while you don't like being stalked, i'm sure its rather troublesome for her to stalk you as well. so just drop her, just hope she realises what she's doing is wrong..instead of taking it the wrong way and scratching your car or badmouth you..you get the idea...hell hath no wrath like a woman scorned..drop her, but do it nicely, be nice, and hope she understands
QUOTE(Sweety @ Aug 25 2006, 04:29 AM)  Sit down and tell her all the things that bother you about her and her actions, even though the truth might really hurt her being honest is always the best way to go....just be tactful when you talk to her ok. i agree with this one. if she really bothers you at such a constant rate, let her come to you and talk to her. properly of course. you should shout at her for bugging you, you might hurt her feelings. tell her that what she's doing doesn't do good to both of you. obviously because she's wasting a lot of time, which she could use for more important stuff. and by bugging you, you won't be able to work or do your stuff properly. if she confesses her feelings towards you (thus the reason she kept on bugging you), tell her properly that you're already seeing someone if you're really seeing someone, or if not, tell her that you're not the right person for her, and that she'd be better off with other guys, and tell her that you won't be able to reciprocate the same amount of feelings that she gives you, and that in a relationship, a couple almost always work things out. tell her that it won't work between the two of you and she'll just get hurt in the long run. QUOTE(shadowx @ Aug 25 2006, 05:12 AM) Tell her youre gay, or if youre thinking of something less radica........ well that's not really the best way to do that. you don't have to resort to lying just to move her out of the way.
Look, this goes for almost any situation, especially if it has gone this far. Give her an earfull. You don't have to be mean, but let her know where you stand and where the line is that should not be crossed. Sounds like she crossed the line a time ago. Believe me it will ease your pain and make her a better person for the next guy.
ahahahah tell her you have a girlfriend! J/K but yeah tell her off nicely. Just be like I'm not interested and I'm sorry, its not you..It's me blah blah just be totally honest and really she's asking for her heart to get broken if she stalks like crazy.
Sometimes, like for this case...you just need to drop her. I doubt that being nice, and pushing her away slowly will get rid of her , and she may just take you pushing her away as you pushing her away because you like her. If she is seriously calling you so much, you need to put your foot down. You need to live your life, she needs to find her own.
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