Becca

Oct 20 2005, 07:34 PM

QUOTE(ciroxyz @ Oct 19 2005, 11:08 PM)

And you are still asking yourself what to do?? UNBELIVABLE!!
I'd say, kick her arse man! Ok, dont go that far, but tell her to f**** of, politely

Why are you being such a wuss?

hey! don't call people a wuss..you don't even know him!!!

I think people are right thought. WTF why in the world are you questioning yourself if you want to go on another date.. Tell her you do, and don't turn up yourself..so if she atually DOES go..she'll know what it'll feel like.if she doesn't go - you've saved yourself a journey and a lot of time to go out with your mates to the pub or something.

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nehemiah

Oct 23 2005, 10:12 AM

Waht I suggest is to keep trying on your Ex girl friend. any problems with her? Is she single? Then go with her because that is ethical way I suppose

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lawmatchmaker

Jul 27 2006, 06:00 PM

QUOTE(Tonny @ Oct 19 2005, 03:14 PM)

My ex girlfriend gave my number to one of her friend. I called her on date. And she said :yes.But ther is a problem, she didnt showed up.But thats not only time. She screwed me for a five times. Finaly she want to go on date but i dont know should i go or not. I dont want to be a dork!

What should i do?
Should i go or not?

Please help me!
thanks

I think that for anyone to stand you up five times in a row, their intention is preety clear, they are serious about you or maybe they don't treat you seriously. I mean its really common sense, if you put yourself in her shoes, not turning up 5 times in a row for a date, does it really shjow that you are interested in someone. I think you should look for a girl who shows more interest in you and be fair to yourself. I'm sure you'll be better off without this girl.

 

 

 

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