QUOTE(anwiii @ Nov 7 2007, 11:22 PM)
sometimes it's not just about us trying to help ourselves out in just the things we care about. sometimes it's about helping others succeed in the things THEY care about. one thing i learned in life is that it goes in cycles. at least i have noticed this in MY life. knowing this, i've also recognized that what goes around comes around. there will come a day when you nee help in something you care about and nobody is going to be there for ya.
on the other hand, i have met 3 different types of people in this world personally. ones that terible things always happen to them for some unknown reason, ones that only good things happen to them for some uncanny reason, and the ones that are in the middle and go back and forth(like me). you may be in that catagory that you will just go through life where everything just goes your way for some reason.
i've seen some weird crap in this world and can't explain the why's. i would just start caring a little more about others. you might not care right now if they take an interest in what YOU care about right now, but maybe one day you will and nobody will be there as i still believe what goes around comes around. it's easy to milk the good stuff for all it's worth, but is it worth it in the long run?
only you can answer that
oh. i had to add on to this post so i am editing it. here's a deeper thought for ya bud....
maybe you are helping without even realizing it. maybe by you not helping, it's forcing others to try harder and succeed in their full potential. it's weird how things work out sometimes and the hidden meanings by the results we see. maybe if you helped, others would think they didn't have to try as hard, but because you don't care wether you win or lose, it would have been the same as you not trying at all and hurting the group even more.
anyway, i had to add that deep confusing thought haha ok maybe i'm as crazy as you are....
Awww.... Thanks so much. I like what you said, and looks to me that most of that I really knew about it but like you said I just didn't care about it. Sometimes there's bad things happenning to me and I know exactly who did it and all. I always say that they'll pay for what they did, but then I never do it because of the cycle of life which you pretty much explain it all already. What goes aroud come around. No I never did it. But the thing that is weird is that sometime you don't do it then after a few days it happen again but this time it's someone different. Even though you didn't do it it still coming around too.
As for the 3 types of people... would you say that I'm the one who always have good things happening to me? That's maybe because of what I just wrote. But really, after that good things that happen to me. I always have financial problems.
About the last thing you added. I know that it works at time. I meant, I did that kind of stuff on my cousins just didn't really care giving it all, or winning or losing that they did every they could just to win and in the end they did win or at least get really close to win.
Life sure is strange, but I really think that's the beauty of life. If all those things happens then they were meant to happen. And if you don't try to enjoy it, then you never going to be able to enjoy life... isn't it?
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