haxored
Feb 14 2007, 08:24 AM
I would like to share my greatest love story ever. I met my girlfriend on the internet 6 years ago, that was 30th of August 2002. Most people in my city are indulged in this so called, IRC chats (since YM wasn't so famous back then). Me and my friends own a channel in a certain IRC server and that's where our lives are everyday, every free time. One morning (after a whole night of partying) before going to sleep and still sober, I visited our channel to have a bit of chat. My ex-girlfriend was there, we greeted each other " mahal, kumusta na? (Love, how are you?)" (the way we greet each other when we're still lovers). We havent seen each other for so long since she and her family migrated to US few months ago. Then one chatter PM'd me asking, " If I were your girlfriend, what would you call me?" and I replied, " I'll call you Baby". We became cyber lovers on that very moment (around 5 mins of talking). Since then we communicate thru chat, txt and call. After a month, we met personally, we kissed and hugged each other like we've seen each other before. We never knew how each of us looked, but maybe we felt true love so it didn't matter anymore. We we're students that time (2nd year in college), and we are 200miles apart. We've had alot of hardwork to make the relationship work. Alot of misunderstandings, quarrels and lapses. But we believed in each other, fought for our love and prayed for God's guidance. Today my girlfriend is already a Computer Engineer and I am a businessman and an IT professional. We still love each other, and we're currently building our own house. We planned to marry next year, hoping to have 4 kids and I hope everything will go as we have dreamed of. So who said long distance relationships don't work? Who said that cyber relationships falter? It really depends upon the people involved, if you work out on love, then maybe you'll find true love no matter the distance no matter the barrier.
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master_bacarra
Feb 14 2007, 03:36 PM
good for you! it's really surprising that there are long distance relationships that do end up, as the cliche goes, "happily ever after" (that is before the marriage, not after--you know, like how telenovelas usually end up  and no, i'm not a telenovela freak  ). usually when people say "long distance relationship", it is usually "doomed long before it has even started". the physical distance disconnects the emotions attached between the lovers. thank goodness for technology which helps us to get reconnected with our loved ones that has been separated for some time. not so long ago, people have to wait for a long time before they're able to get their reply via snail mail. telephones give the "presence" factor, but at the expense of your pocket money. when email was discovered, it became a huge milestone for communication. in just a click of a button, you'll be able to send your mail and expect a reply within minutes. your story says it all: constant communication helps a relationship bloom despite the geographical separation. as most people say "to keep the love burning". personally i don't know how that feels, but this isn't about me, so whatever, right? congratulations to you and your other half.
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Avalon
Feb 14 2007, 10:50 PM
Congratulations you seem to have beaten the odds! I too used to frequent the IRC chat rooms and saw many cyber relationships grow and the ultimately fail.  In your case, not only was it a cyber relationship but you also had the additional hurdle of distance to overcome. I wish you and your partner well and hope you have a long and happy future together. 
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zyzzyvette
Feb 18 2007, 12:51 AM
We (my "eboyfriend" and I) are right around the 1 year mark right now... not as impressive I know but the distance is quite a bit (~7500km) so we haven't yet had the opportunity to even meet. Good luck to the both of you. 
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tuddy
Feb 19 2007, 03:32 AM
And how old are you both? Country? and do you both have non-e boyfriends girlfriends??? Could be a very interesting sitiaution come time to meet. I say stick to your local area, and provide yourself with a real test, if they wait until they get to come see you, then you know it's only a good thing. I certainly wouldn't be saying no to someone who lives locally for someone over 5,000ks away.
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zyzzyvette
Feb 19 2007, 04:41 AM
QUOTE(tuddy @ Feb 18 2007, 07:32 PM)  And how old are you both? Country? and do you both have non-e boyfriends girlfriends??? Could be a very interesting sitiaution come time to meet. I say stick to your local area, and provide yourself with a real test, if they wait until they get to come see you, then you know it's only a good thing. I certainly wouldn't be saying no to someone who lives locally for someone over 5,000ks away. Ah, I know it sounds absolutely nutters. We are both 17. I've had previous boyfriends, and a couple "opportunities" to leave and have an offline relationship since we've been together... believe it or not this isn't a case of a couple of kids who can't get any IRL. I'm pretty picky about who I date, not in the usual sense of "high standards" -I'm not looking for some hot rich football player- but more that there's specific set of personality traits a person has to have before I even think of them in that way. Most people don't come close, but he fits them pretty much perfectly, and he feels the same way about me (or so I'm told  ). It's absolutely horrible that we live so far apart, but them's the breaks, and I'm not the sort to jump ship and hope for the best. If we get a chance to meet, it will be because we've worked towards that goal together, not because I've given up on things. So while I totally understand your concern, its the sort of situation you don't really "get" until you're there yourself. Trust me, a year and a half ago I'd have said the same as you. EDIT: I live in west coast Canada; he is in the UK. Didn't notice that part before.
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JSPICE85
Apr 7 2007, 02:24 AM
I've met all my boyfriend online... and evethough the relationships have never been perfect I've really fallen in love with two of them and I wouldn't change a thing!
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tuddy
Apr 10 2007, 01:15 AM
Well i believe it depends on the person, most people these days party a hell of a lot at there young ages and then mature abit. If you were 13/14/15 i would question there so called 'cyber' relationship but older then 16 i think most people can make work. If you go back over topics on this subject you'll notice most in that young age range. Living in two different countries is the hardist part, mainly cause it will cause one of you great expense to see the other or in the end eventuallity who moves to whos home town to live happily ever after...
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FeedBacker
Mar 12 2008, 02:59 PM
: lol : My internet boyfriend's from the UK too and I love him with all my heart and soul. It's a terrible thing that we live so far apart - approximately 6000 miles away. I hoped that our relationship will go further and someday we will meet. We've lasted for 1 and a half years on the net. We talked about every angle of life, professions.. Ambitions.. Troubles .. Families, lots of stuffs. To me, love is not all about looks or how good one is with money. It's about what's in you and be who you want to be - yourself. I really hope that our relationship will go far. -reply by CeciLeah
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slave
Mar 18 2008, 09:18 PM
i've a realtion with girl from last 5 years. in this 5 years strange thing is that we have not yet meet to each other. but i'm sure one day we will meet. ritght now we both are fully trapped in studies and bulding our careers.
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iGuest
Nov 4 2009, 04:28 AM
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hey there people...Well , talking about cultural dif. Ive got 2 stories related to that:
April 2007: I met this guy in a chat site , I'm latinamerican , He Is from Turkey... We got into an e-romance for 5 months or so , until he decided to leave everything and come to my country and stay with me ...Even tho I didn't feel that was true love ( I ve been involved in normal face to face relationships my whole life , so it was something new for me )
Sept 2007: He sold everything to get money enough to come here and start a new life...
Unfortunately for us... Cultural difference was too much , hes muslim , I'm agnostic. I'm single mom , he was a virgin. And so on...
We broke up like 18 months ago or so and still we are best friends on earth :)
Let me tell you. Culture is way too important , if u wanna get involved in a e.Relationship with a foreigner...Ah well , learn A LOT abt his / her culture BEFORE u met up...
1 year ago I met this other guy...Hes an american guy , and , might sound funny but , I can see that our lifestyles, plans , way of living, and many MANY other things are so similar...Even tho we are a continent far away :) . My english its just enough to talk...Spoken , its same story...We try to go on video calls everyday jst to know "how was your day" and now I'm moving there in a few months,...I love him...Really I do! and so far I can see he loves me as well.. .. Most of his family already knows about me and whats he planning ( ahem...Yeah , wedding!! yay!!)
I know some of his friends might think I'm using him to get a "green card" , since I'm latin, hes american and that whole jugdamental oppinions abt this kind of relationship...I don't give a damn!! I'm an engineer and earn good enough money here , So I'm not willing to go to states for a "better life"...A better life form e will be with HIM...He has nothing but his loving heart...And I don't care ...And he cant move over here bcoz he doesnt speak spanish at alll :D...Ah! except when he says "Te Amo!!" (how cuuuute aww)
So, does love have any kind of borders? I don't think so , Is it like gambling?Well you might find stupid people , nice people , liers and cheaters and honest people...But...Doesnt that happen in REAL LIFE as well?? I know ;)
Sorry abt my english !! I do my best :)
Best luck to ya all!!
-reply by Alejandra
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iGuest
Oct 16 2009, 01:14 AM
Do you think my girlfriend is seeing someone else?
Long Distance Cyber Relationship
My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 years between the years there have been ups and downs.
She has decided to study in Ghana for 6 months, prior to that she was there for a 2 weeks holiday.
We use to talk over the phone twice a week for the first 2 months, she rang one day "said she can't continue with the relationship, and would like us to be friends". After that there was no communication between us for week she decide ring me this time she wanted us to start again and I agreed.
A week later she decided not to continue with the relationship. Do you think she is seeing someone else?
-question by agyman
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iGuest
Sep 20 2009, 10:39 PM
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Who can resist these men...I have been e-loving one for the last 4 months. I think my intense feelings are scaring him away. We met on line accidently and have never met in person. I think he is somehow part of this British fetish I have going on. But I know one thing for sure, I'll eventually find what I need in a man.
My reply to abigail s. Is that no love is stronger than latin love...So I have heard from extremely happy people who are in a relationship with them. And, nobody is more accepting of differences involving their women than these wonderful British men either. You are at a precarious time in your relationship and you are experiencing self doubts. Just wait it out and I am sure you will feel different soon. If you don't, then you will know your decision is the right one. Don't sacrifice your feelings like some romantic martyr; you are important too.
A word of warning...It is hard to say no to these guys.. So don't do anything you would regret..He will still love you and respect you even more. And he will wait. The fact that it has lasted this long is a good sign. You just have to decide if this is going to be enough for you for the time it takes to finish school, etc. If both of you get your degrees, then you can at the minimum get a job is what ever foreign country you decide to move to.
-reply by lovesukmentoo
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iGuest
Aug 22 2009, 12:55 AM
Congratulations to everyone here!
I just visited my e-BF for the first time in Europe. I met his entire family, saw the country and the culture... And managed to convince him to come back with me. :D Though we had much drama at times (I don't care to divulge on a public forum) related to distance, having close access to sex and our terrible lack of communication...
Anyway, we ended up spending 31 days together instead of my scheduled 14. He is coming back to visit me this winter, and I will go to him in the summer. As I have an EU citizenship and a pretty decent/stable job (I've been teaching piano since I was 15) the money and staying places/paper work that deter other people haven't really affected us.
I truly believe that love knows no boundaries. Best of luck to everyone; but be warned, long distance and e-relationships are harder to maintain than regular ones. If you love the person enough to put the effort in, you will be rewarded, TRUST me!
-reply by Tegan
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iGuest
Aug 5 2009, 04:31 PM
should i break up with my internet boyfriend?
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He is from the UK and I'm from Mexico, we met on myspeace about 2 years ago, became really good friends, actually my best friend, I talked to him about everything that came to my mind, eventually after a year I fell in love with him, something I thought shouldnt have happened, I couldnt keep it anymore, and told him...
Turned out he was in love with me too and for the first time he put his webcam and asked me out, I couldnt help myself and said yes. In august 7th we'll have been dating for 4 months, thats a little time I know. But by now we have talked about growing old together, having kids, getting married, moving to another country together...
We are really into each other.. The problem is.. I love him so much, but he is so far away, and I think its not fair for him, he could meet another girl there that can kiss him and hug him, and I just can type what I feel, which isnt the same. I also thought, my english speaking isnt really good so he would have to deal with it, and I just feel I'm not good enough for him.
Yes I have told him how I feel about it, but he says if we stop dating it would be a waste of time when we could be showing each other how much we love. And then he uses his webcam and mic, and I don't (I have panic using it, weird I know) and he says thats fine, but I feel like I should do something else.
I was thinking maybe the best would be to break up and if when we meet he still feels something for me we can start dating again... I really love him, and if it wasnt for that I would never break up with him. But I want the best for him and I don't think thats with me, its with someone that can show him how much she loves him in person... So what should I do.. Can someone give me an advise? please I really need it.
P.S. I'm 17 and he is 19, I'll turn 18 on october and he 20 on december in case you want to know
-reply by abigail s.
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