HoRuS

Apr 27 2005, 02:16 PM

Well I didn't have an internet realtion myself but my ex-gf hadwhile we were "involved"... Wich ruined the relationship we had... If it only would contain me and her it was no problem but she even didnt care anymore of our little son... So my experience on that is kinda sh*tty, but I've met some great people myself on the internet but to get "involved" with them? Hmmm I'll spend the night over it

My 2 cents, Peace

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Sprnknwn

Apr 27 2005, 07:54 PM

Awww... Michael Jackson. Now, even if I wanted to have a date by Internet, I donīt think Iīll be able to get out that idea of my head.

No, I donīt like internet relationships... true relationships are full of doubts and fears... I donīt need more mistery about it. Itīs not that a girl could be a boy... itīs, I donīt know, if you meet someone in Internet and try to keep a relationship, how the hell can you be sure that she is not doing the same with more people. Well, that things happen in real life, but itīs even more complicated that way.

Simply I donīt like it. Maybe just for fun but anyway... you donīt know when you are playing with the other oneīs feelings.

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Velveteen

Apr 27 2005, 08:12 PM

I love it.

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HoRuS

Apr 28 2005, 06:23 AM

QUOTE(mbd5882 @ Apr 27 2005, 06:36 PM)

Theres no point,
People can just lie,
Because a sexy 18 y girl could really be MICHEAL JACKSON!
I know, thats sick. But the concept is true.
Just meet people face 2 face and really get 2 know eachother.
Dont end up like HoRuS...JOKE,LOL.
Thanks.

Rofl... well I hope for her it isn't MJ, or maybe I do hope that
Once knew a guy as well, he had an gf trough internet, I think she was like 16 or something, untill he found out it was an FBI agent and rounded up in court LOL...
Intrnet is full of surprises... Buy it now for $40,-

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Johnny

Apr 29 2005, 02:54 AM

Alrighty guys, it's time for one of my slick oh-so-inelligent replies to life situations. And hear me out. I'm not typing all this for nothing.

When I was younger, I tried internet relationships. I "went out" with one girl, named Jessie, internetly known as foxfire. Anyways, we met on a Pokemon Yahoo group, (yes, that's right ladies and gents, Johnny was a dork, can you believe it?) Anyways, we met there, and we also hung out in this game called Graal (http://www.graalonline.com) which is now totally lame. So we started chatting, doing the whole childish "I love you" "I love you too" "I love you more" game and basically all we did was talk about how cool Graal and Pokemon were, and how nice it was to do so with each other.
Anyways, so a couple months go by, and eventually, she told me we had to "break up". So that happened, and we pretty much never talked again.

Then my next 'net "girlfriend" was a girl named Scarlett. Oh dear Scarlett. (We're still friends btw) We met in Graal again, and Scarlett was a little different. She actually was my friend for a LONG time (4 years, maybe?) until we "got together" and basically, the ending remained the same, except that we recently got back in touch, and we've been chatting about how dumb we were, and we plan to go to an anime convention together this year, because I happened to move near where she lives.

Next story, is my last girlfriend, who was actually my girlfriend in real life, we got together a couple years ago, just after I moved from New York to Houston. Everything was great (oh, btw, yes, real life relationships are SOOOO much better, and not just because of sex, kissing, whatever. I'll get to that later) anyways, everything was great until I had to move here. Then things got weird, and she basically told me she still wanted to be together long-distance until I came back (I'm planning to move back in a year or two), and so basically, it turned into a 'net relationship. We talked and such about when I'm visiting and all that good stuff for a month or two, until she broke it off, and said she thinks I'd be better off with someone close (which, I think, is a total lie, and she just didn't want to tell me that I was a total loser, which I was.) and so yeah, that ended.

Basically, what I'm trying to say, is that internet relationships don't work, regardless of if you're going to or have met the person in real life. They simply don't work. It may -seem- like there's love, but there really isn't. You just want someone to talk to, someone to say they love you. A real relationship is totally different. You can literally feel one another's love, and express it in ways that actually show that feeling, even without kissing, hugging, or having sex. Just being with that person physically makes all the difference, and I'm not joking. I can just be out bowling or something with friends, and still be giving and recieving more love than I ever would on the 'net.

And about cyber sex. Cyber sex is nothing. It's "ooh" "ahh". Nothing. Sex is nothing until you can actually feel the other person's love, which you can never get through the internet.


That's my story(s), and I'm sticking to it. Take my advice. I've gone through this more times than just those three, and it always results the same. There is no real love through the 'net.

(I better get some frickin sweet credits for this...)

EDIT -- Oh, but there is an exception. If you KNOW, I mean KNOW, that the person is right, you might have a chance. But you still can't date solely on the 'net.

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brandice

Apr 29 2005, 12:42 AM

Here's another warning about hooking up with someone you find on the internet. If things go bad, they can go bad for a lot of people.

I know of this couple who met on the internet, their relationship was very public. the guy shipped this girl over and they got married. It turns out, the guy was nuts, and the girl went back to her home country without an explanation.

Since then, the guy has been hacking forums and pretty much stalking anyone on the internet that he thinks may have had any contact with this girl. He's even following my actions, I think because he thinks I know somebody who might have talked to her!

You never know how crazy people really are sometimes.

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Nani Cheri

Apr 28 2005, 09:34 PM

Well, I never had a real relationship on the internet with all the mails and stuff, but I did dated someone from the internet! He lived in another city, but we had a relationship for 2 months so: IT DOESN'T WORK AT ALL!!
It's true, you get to know eachother first, from the inside, and not from the outside. Thats one thing thats good about it, the disadvantage of it: there isn't a first love flash like you have when you sit in the lunchroom and HE walks in. The eye contact has not been taken place, which I find very Important...

So, no! No more relationships with boys I met from the Internet for ME...

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thebluekirby

Apr 28 2005, 09:26 PM

I think it's kinda stupid to find a bf/gf on the internet. It's better to get with someone who you already know and admire. It does't have to be someone with good looks basically. You can't trust people on the internet, especially because you don't know they're background life. Like I said, find someone you already know

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