I wrote this and sent this as advice to my buddies. lol

think I no how to get a girl. you should make friends with her friends. Compliment them stuff like that. Soon when you guys are close friends ask her if the girl you like likes you. Well thats all there is to do simple as 123


if they stop and look at you if they look at you alot if they laugh at you such as if you say jokes if they act like there dying if they gargle and act like drunk crazy girls and look at you and have that look that makes you think -CUT-



when a girl likes you she seems to looks at you a lot, she may avoid you, ignore


If you've noticed that she has gradually began to get closer to you......ex: sitting w/ you at lunch, talking w/ you more, asking if you want to go do something, or hanging w/ your friends.

She may also be mean to you....make fun of you when you do something stupid or have a good come back when you've completely set yourself up for it.

Staring at you and looking away or acting like she was looking at something else when you notice.

She may begin to take an interest in things you like and when you are sitting by her and either you arm or leg "accidentally" touches hers and she doesn't move and if she does its to scoot closer to you


When you talk to the girl you like, you should be able to tell if she likes it or not. If she laughs at the things you say, even it isn't that funny, and if she pays full attention to you when you talk to her. I think letting a girl know you like her is always a good thing, because most of the time we can sense it anyway, even if we're not sure about it. If she likes you back, she'll tell you, but if not, she won't think you're weird for telling her. She'll be flattered that someone likes her. So, flirt and if she responds well, tell her.



Please remember this freinds, all girls are different, some are the shy type, some are the more active type as in acting a bit more forward, a girl that is just naturally a shy type will express her like for you by trying to ignore u, hardly speeks to u but u will notice her stare(give u glances) and u may notice her try to look away quickly so that u dont catch her , u may even catch her smile at u at times, it will seem very obvious by the way she tries to avoid u. You'll just notice. Now on the other hand a girl that is more active will tend to stand closer to u when u talk with her and stuff... she may wont to keep talking to a bit longer as in dragging the conversation i have much 2 say on this im an expert.


They may touch your stuff and say they have same stuff as u. it's really annoying though. if a girl likesu they might complain about sitting with u so u don't notice she likes u.


If you want to know if she likes you get a few people around you and ask them all who they like just so when it comes to asking the girl you like, it will seem natural that you're asking everyone. IF she stumbles for an answer or blushes or is like 'uh no-one' (giggle giggle) or looks at her friend for an answer, then you can be nearly 100% sure (not that good)


if a girl you like tries to act like she isnt interested u shud ask her bcoz she may be actin like that just to try and make it not seem as opbviouse if u think a girl likes you u shud ask her wot she thinks ov u if she doesnt answer or looks to sum1 for help u can be sure she likes u


well there a few different ways... 1. ask her friends 2. ask her in person 3. flirt and find out 4. ask a friend to ask her 5. ask her on phone or computer



the only thing i can say about knowing if a girl likes you really depends on their personality. but in general, they will ALWAYS STARE! they will SMILE AT YOU A LOT! they will TRY TO TOUCH YOU (like wow...can i feel your hair, they'r like cotton! or...gimme your arm, i wanna see how long it is etc. )and her friends would come up to you and ask you questions about her...that just shows she's been talking about you to her friends (most girls do that...tell her friends about her crush i mean). they will SUDDENLY BE IN A LOT OF PLACES YOU'RE IN coincidentally..cough cough...but make sure if it's really a coincident or not....


I know that lots of ppl have said this before but EYE CONTACT is like the biggest way that you will know if a girl likes you. But sometimes girls might not act like they like you because you might not make it obvious enough. But for the most part I would advise guys to (if you are always making eye contact with some girl ) make the first move.

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I think lots of things you have posted here is truth (from experience) but not always all girls are same and boys to.. the science people even in these 2006 years havn't realised all about girls or boys. Thats a mistery because there aint to two same people in whole world even realising we are 7 billions but still nothing same..

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nice tutorial
so at first i must get close to her friends?
sounds good

i have a good tip too i saw it at ali G. (its a british TV show)
if you dont want to wait try to :
when she is talking to you
just smile at her and dont say anithing just look in her eyes so she knows that u like her verry verry much i think most girls like this and will get embrased then u can tuch her a little bit maybe on her shoulder or her hand and then ask her why she is so beautiful or somethink like this i think she wont ever get u out of her mind

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I doubt a high maintenance girl would react in such ways. lol. First you gotta buy them prada bag and than you get close. haha.

But also from some knowledge I think that some of these are really good advice. I have some more tricks up my sleeve too. hehe. can't expose them or maybe i don't have any. oh well you'll just have to guess and find your own ways of "mating" girls.

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Ok Coming from a girl....

Not ALL girls react like that... you need to know who she is

she might seem totally OUt there and loud with her friends..

but who knows with boys she could be shy and timid

the best thing to do is just start a conversation when she is alone.

not with friends so it won't feel to weird for (or scarey)

make sure you have great breath ... or she'll think twice



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Some of those are true (at least for me), but all girls are different, and they might not react the same way. The best thing to do is to get to know the girl first. Friendship first.

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That's trur, I hate girls who are high maintence, I like a low maintence girl.

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Well, coming from another girl, I'm not sure . . . how much you can read into it. Because, well, again, depending on the person, it might be difficult to determine if there's really something going on between the two.


Because I, personally, sit next to, laugh at, poke fun of, hang out, go through people's things with nearly all my friends (guys and girls).
Even the whole eye contact thing is a bit iffy since some girls totally avoid contact with the people they like.
So, in this case, yes, it really depends on personality.
The more social a person is, the more likely they'll exhibit more social like behaviors such as touch and eye contact.
The less social a person is, rather, the more timid a person is, the more likely you'll see him/her ignoring the other or avoiding eye contact and such. This sort of behavior is probably more juvenile (very junior high/high school), but it still often happens even well into adulthood depending on how active and in tune he/she is with the opposite sex.




Haha . . . Well, coming from a girl, I think I have the right to say this.
So, here's an advice: avoid girls like these.

"High maintenance" girls are only in it for the money. They'll often use you and throw you away.
That's just how manipulative girls can be. ;D
(Alright, I know I'm generalizing, but still . . . Best to avoid them. I've seen and met girls like these and, usually, they're personalities are really horrible.)

 

 

 

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dude, you know what you should do? follow MY advice

act yourself and when you are ready

tell her that you like her and you want to go out

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Let's show this in a psychoanalytical point of view.

So somebody likes you...or rather, their unconscious mind likes you, and has desires for you, communicated to the conscious mind as emotion through a censor called the foreconscious.
Now, what would they do if they liked you? They'd do something irrational at first - something which supports the unconscious mind's desire, most likely, if they haven't talked at all with you. The irrationality either translates into hatred, or conscious action. If the person is introverted, they will not approach you, and will instead, do something more through the conscious thought process and work in a shy manner towards it. If the person is extroverted, they will be more aggressive in their manners. If you wish to do something, you must be agressive in either situation if you want something to do with that person. If you dislike that person, you can stop the unconscious desire by making the unconscious dislike you. The only way you may do this is by acting contrary to your own unconscious mind, or not depending on your conditon.

In English: Unkowningly they like you, and it is conveyed by emotion. How they react is going to be different depending on if they're shy or not, and you can stop or promote that unkowing liking. How, I do not know - I'm more of a group person when it comes to people.

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