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It happens! How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? Once I have met a really beatiful girl, we became reall good friends, We ended up in a relationship for 2 weeks then I called up to break it cuz it felt much more better being friends so it was cool. The worst part is,, After 2 years her sister started making moves on me, I was surprised I didnt have any feeling towards her but ... read more.
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I have a close, personal friend in the same boat - except he's been in a relationship for 5 years and is only now finding out what his girlfriend is REALLY like! Five years, man, and he's finding out she's text messaging other guys FROM THE BATHROOM and meeting them for dinner and drinks while he's away on business trips etc etc. Total horror show. From the sounds of it, the relationship already ended for her awhile ago. This is a very common occurance for women - they mentally break up with their man months before they physically do. You're seeing the phenomenon right before your eyes. Please don't set yourself up to be any more hurt than you already are. It sounds like you should be able to make a pretty clean break without anyone having super bad feelings....so send her a message stating you're not receiving the same level of affection you're giving and this isn't going to work out for you in the long run...then thank her for the opportunity to meet and get to know her and MOVE ON! Be nice, though...seriously. A guy that breaks up well is a guy other girls find really attractive for some reason. You might wind up scooping her best friend! HA HA HA HA HA HA HA! Good luck kiddo.
You definitely need to talk with her. If you still like her, don't give up yet. She might just be very busy and doesn't have time to talk. It might be better to talk to her personal rather than over a phone, so she can't hang up or anything. If you are lucky, she will tell you the truth. If you are really worried about what's going on, than the best thing is probably to dump her. There's no need to load a bunch of stress on yourself over something like this. Sometimes it's best to just let these things go rather than thinking about them continuously. You might just want to take a break from girlfriends for awhile, let yourself focus on what with wrong with your last one and what might be going wrong with this one. You might need to change the type of people you are looking for, because it's seems like you are very unhappy with your decisions. Mainly, it's up to you what you are going to do about this. Good luck with this and I wish you the best.
She didnt even invite you to her party? Damn thats going alittle too far. However, it could have been an all girl slumber party thingo too. If it wasn't, find out what happened at the party, usually if she is breaking up with you in a cruel way, she would ahve been all over the guys at her party.
I say also to throw the phone away, and start talking seriously with her face to face to do a number of things, gage her bodysigns weather she is actually listening, you could look at her eyes when she talks and guage wether she is lying. Its just soo much better.
Do not come to any conclusions yet, give her the benefit of the doubt ... give her space and hear her out if and when you meet but meanwhile give her space cos it si apparent she wants that now.
Topic is nearly one year old!!
 Maybe we should see if we can find out what happened, but i'm not holding my breathe so lets leave the topic to die gracefully.
is this girl using me?
How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? I give you some details about the story.I and this girl worked together for some time and she used to call and msgs etc.Intially I was not interested,but later on started replying..She used to do a kind of mild flirting.I started haiving feelings for her.However,she told me once that she had got a boyfriend. Her boyfriend knew of our intimate friendship.He is staying in another city and asked her not to continue talking with me.He had got number of news regarding our alleged affairs through common friends and he asked her not to talk to me anymore.She lied to him that she is not in talking terms with me. We are still in continuous talking terms.In fact,we meet and every second day talk on phone..However,my one sided affair only hurt me.Since she talks to me as an when she requires to.She shares everything with me at least her dealings with her bf... I decided to quit gradually.And stopped calling her.There was another reason behind this..I think she takes for granted and sometimes talks very rudely.I stood by her in her difficult times as she also admitted.If I call,she would ask me to call after 5 mins and then her phn is busy for hr. After 2 yrs frustration,I decided to part my way..I gave less call...To my suprize ,she called me and asked why I stopped calling.I told her I was not sure if she needed me.Since it was evident from her behaviour that she took me for granted... Now I have a few questions" A.My heart says she is using me because she sometimes flirt with other guys also. B.If I call her regularly,she would either put me on hold or do anything which clearly means she is avoiding me. C.Why does she go after me when I stop calling her and then she talks nicely and every sort of good things to me. D.She also ask for any suggestion.Is she emotionally dependent on me? E.She knows I had feelings for her.Why did she lie to her bf? Thanks waiting for your reply -reply by jack
is this girl using me?
How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? I give you some details about the story.I and this girl worked together for some time and she used to call and msgs etc. Initially I was not interested,but later on started replying..She used to do a kind of mild flirting.I started having feelings for her.However,she told me once that she had got a boy friend. Her boyfriend knew of our intimate friendship.He is staying in another city and asked her not to continue talking with me.He had got number of news regarding our alleged affairs through common friends and he asked her not to talk to me anymore.She lied to him that she is not in talking terms with me. We are still in continuous talking terms.In fact,we meet and every second day talk on phone..However,my one sided affair only hurt me.Since she talks to me as an when she requires to.She shares everything with me at least her dealings with her bf... I decided to quit gradually.And stopped calling her.There was another reason behind this..I think she takes for granted and sometimes talks very rudely.I stood by her in her difficult times as she also admitted.If I call,she would ask me to call after 5 mins and then her phn is busy for hr. After 2 yrs frustration,I decided to part my way..I gave less call...To my suprize ,she called me and asked why I stopped calling.I told her I was not sure if she needed me.Since it was evident from her behavior that she took me for granted... Now I have a few questions" A.My heart says she is using me because she sometimes flirt with other guys also. B.If I call her regularly,she would either put me on hold or do anything which clearly means she is avoiding me. C.Why does she go after me when I stop calling her and then she talks nicely and every sort of good things to me. D.She also ask for any suggestion.Is she emotionally dependent on me? E.She knows I had feelings for her.Why did she lie to her bf? Thanks waiting for your reply -question by jack
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I would break up with her. I mean, she had a party with a bunch of people there and didn't invite you? thats like her saying all those people are more important to her than you are. -reply by Dillon
Well if you ask me she is a player. I believe you are wasting your time she is basically all about her self and looking for attention. My advice stay away from her. Either her daddy must have gave her too much attention when she was young.
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How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? Once I have met a really beatiful girl, we became reall good friends, We ended up in a relationship for 2 weeks then I called up to break it cuz it felt much more better being friends so it was cool. The worst part is,, After 2 years her sister started making moves on me, I was surprised I didnt have any feeling towards her but by time I did we started with an open relationship then to an official relationship. In the end we broke up after 6 months oer something very stupid. I had really strong feelings towards her even though she was 10 years younger than me. So in the end I ended it in a friendly way.. I try to stay friends with her but still deep down inside I still like her and I feel shes kinda confused and she wants to stay friends too. I'm trying to avoid her. In Weekends she calls up for a cruise .. So I take her for a cruise.. Even though I like her I still feel that she is using me and I'm ignoring it.
-reply by Pete
I like this girl and she likes me too but has a boyfriend in Guem,
How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? Ok so there this girl name jenna she has this boyfriend in Guem. I like her she and se likes me. We been talking for about 3 months. She tells me how much she loves her boyfriend and how she cant leave him. Now she is feeling lonely and depress as she told me that. So I stop talking to her cuz I don't want to be stuck in the friend trap. So like a week after I stop talking to her. She starts to flirt with me and I didnt flirt back cuz I felt wrong cuz she still had a boyfriend. My friends telling me to jus flirt back with her cuz her boyfriend in Guem. So I start to flirt with her now and now were getting sexual with it, she still has a boyfriend.
Should I jus ask her to break up with him and go with me?
Or jus wait til God makes it happens?
Or jus go with the flow?
-reply by Tatito
How do I know if this girl is playing me
How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? Well I've been intimate with this girl the last 2 months, well I guess you can call her my booty call, I work with her. I originally asked her out but she was involved, going through a break up or with a guy that just wouldn't let go. We would spend more time and essentially get to know each other more. I was there for her during some rough times and she really opened up to me. The original intentions of just being a booty call changed, she expressed feelings for me and I as well, but lately I don't know. I guess as a guy, I don't want to "give in" cause I don't want to get hurt. I've thought about making it official but, I just can't. A week ago I came to work, said good morning to her and two other people, she didn't say anything. We didn't talk for that whole day, which was pretty petty I have to admit. The next day it was the same thing, but I ran into her, asked her if we were still cool, she said that we were, but as friends only. Later that night, I left her a message stating my confusion on the way she was acting, and how she would cut me off like that. She called back and told me that she was sorry, and was embarrassed to say that she didn't talk to me that day, because the day before I was flirting with some girl at work which I think she has a history with and was angry about it. She doesn't want to get hurt. We'll we planned to spend that weekend together, but she canceled. The next weekend, same deal, but something came up. Of course I called, but she never called back that same day, but the following day apologizing. Throughout the week she would ask me what I'm doing for lunch, or where am I gonna be, showing some interest. I don't know what to do, it just bugs me that if she wanted to break it off then why doesn't she just do it. -reply by dat_dude22
Easy. Its all about the chase, my friend.
If you go fishing in some states, you catch em, and release em'. Works that way in relationships too. As sad as it is when your young, thats how it goes. As soon as you said you were willing to try and work it out, that was the confirmation that she caught you.
what do you do with anger about someones lies
How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? I had a great friend and we ended up dating for years back and forthn now we both made mistakes but one day I woke up and she was gone. Literally she packed up and moved out she would not talk to me that hurt! She left her sister to live with me. Any way it got weird that her sister said she was not supported by my ex I believed her and supported her with money and love turns out I wrote my ex and her sister filled her head with many lies! I'm so angery not only did I love them like family. They had the nerve to stop talkin to me give me advice Please -question by love
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