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How do you impress a guy who knows you like him? How To Impress A Guy Ok so this guy from the school across from mine knows I like him. I know this because my so-called friend thought it would be funny if she told him. He told her to get me to see him. I had no idea what was going on until I saw him in the place I usually hang out. So he said he might be able to come hang out on sunday. But he had church. He said he would "try". Me and my friend went to go see him ...
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How To Impress A Guy - tips for impressing a guy

somertonlord
If you have met a guy you really like, you've come to the right place

Here are five tips on how to impress a guy

1.Don't throw yourself at the guy, just say hi and engage in conversation.
2.Don't be nervous just talk to the guy like you already know him.
3.Tell the guy a bit about yourself.
4.find out a bit about what he likes and talk about it for a bit.
5.when you have finished talking just say bye/see you later or if you are a slang kid say ''safe''.

Never give him your phone number unless he asks for it or you know him well enough to know he wants it and don't chat to him every minute or so because boys need their space. cool.gif

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t3jem
I'd just like to add a few tips

If you do call the guy, don't talk for hours on end if he doesn't talk much, I honestly get very bored with it and a 20 minute conversation is waay too long for me; however, talking in person is great.

Have fun when your around him, you don't want to be in a relationship that isn't fun.

Respect his space, let him have time to do the stuff he needs to do

As a guy, I must say the biggest turnoff is a clingy and controlling girlfriend, I need my space and I need to be able to do what I need to do without the 20 questions.

And the #1 rule is trust the guy unless he gives you a reason not to trust him

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Thingcubed
Well, from personal experience as a guy, I respect a woman who is more independent. My best relationships have been with people like that, and my worst relationships are with people who say things like "I'll do anything for you." If you truly love someone, the anything phrase is alright sometimes, but definitely not if it's a highschool relationship that's been going for less than a month (which happened to me).

Also... I'm not sure about that "safe" thing. It's a bit... dated. I don't think I've heard anyone use it recently.

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somertonlord
QUOTE(Thingcubed @ Feb 15 2008, 10:27 PM) *
Well, from personal experience as a guy, I respect a woman who is more independent. My best relationships have been with people like that, and my worst relationships are with people who say things like "I'll do anything for you." If you truly love someone, the anything phrase is alright sometimes, but definitely not if it's a highschool relationship that's been going for less than a month (which happened to me).

Also... I'm not sure about that "safe" thing. It's a bit... dated. I don't think I've heard anyone use it recently.
''Everybody in my school says it. cool.gif

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etycto
QUOTE(somertonlord @ Feb 15 2008, 08:54 AM) *
If you have met a guy you really like, you've come to the right place

Here are five tips on how to impress a guy

1.Don't throw yourself at the guy, just say hi and engage in conversation.
2.Don't be nervous just talk to the guy like you already know him.
3.Tell the guy a bit about yourself.
4.find out a bit about what he likes and talk about it for a bit.
5.when you have finished talking just say bye/see you later or if you are a slang kid say ''safe''.

Never give him your phone number unless he asks for it or you know him well enough to know he wants it and don't chat to him every minute or so because boys need their space. cool.gif

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1.agree if you do throw yourself at us we'll think your a horlet and i personaly would keep away.
2.i never realy notice nervousness unless the person stutterts alot and or reapeat something abunch of time if you think you would get nerveous when trying to impress a guy just reherst what your going to say but make sure it sounds natural (but most guy would feel arogent if they felt that a girl was nervous to talk to them)
3.you have to tell them about yourself but nerver let that be the begining of the making it seem like you guys like exactly the same things most guys including myself finds that kinda of creepy(you know to date yourself)
5.saying good bye should not happen untill you have to leave or they have to but make sure it's not beacause of a strange auckword silence.

yah dont give your phone number unless he asks for it beacause he wants to keep in touch

 

 

 


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If yo really want to impress us, try to be bubbly. Act like you enjoy being around us. If we are on the phone and don't talk or respond very much wrap up what you have to say. When you ramble on and on it is a serious turn off.If you are playing a sport with us don't try to let us win all the time. If we are hanging with our guy friends, DO NOT pull us away unless it is important. That turns off us and our friends. Mostly just be your self.

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sonesay
QUOTE(somertonlord @ Feb 16 2008, 12:54 AM) *
If you have met a guy you really like, you've come to the right place

Here are five tips on how to impress a guy

1.Don't throw yourself at the guy, just say hi and engage in conversation.
2.Don't be nervous just talk to the guy like you already know him.
3.Tell the guy a bit about yourself.
4.find out a bit about what he likes and talk about it for a bit.
5.when you have finished talking just say bye/see you later or if you are a slang kid say ''safe''.

Never give him your phone number unless he asks for it or you know him well enough to know he wants it and don't chat to him every minute or so because boys need their space. cool.gif



I have to disagree with number 1. I know for a fact if a girl throws herself on me I cannot resist. Guys are weak to their sexual urges so if you are super hot it will be a lot easier to get guys. Dress to impress. If you are wearing cloths that make you look unsexy then you lower your chances of guys noticing you. Most times guys will be shy just like you probably are so just make the first move, Saying Hi can be enough to get the ball rolling. You will never know if you don't take a chance right? Keep the conversation simple, threes been many times where I've gotten hints from girls but I'm too slow to follow lol, After they are gone I finally click but its too late. If your interested make sure he knows.

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Imm a femallee.
Of course. =]

And I use to never get any guy in my bed. Than I relizedd. What am I doing wrong? I make my self looking goood. I'm bubbly. Not too clingy. Smiles.. Flirts.. D size boobs. With a slim body and bubble butt haha but I never had my breats out for guys to see or anything. So instead they always go for the girls with their nipple nearly showing and a dress so wen they bend over yuu can see their undies. I don't want to lower my slef down. But is that the only way?

Please help.

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(G)Kari

I've been talking to a guy recently but I've known him since last year. He asked for my phone number a couple of days ago but I don't know if he's interested. How can I tell? Also, when I get really nervous, I start texting on my phone. I know it's rude but I can't help it. Do guys get annoyed of girls texting when they're trying to have a conversation with them?

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Iv;e known this boy in my year for like a year now and when I was new to the school we didnt talk cos he was a duuuude to cool for me all that sort of stuff. We go wakebaording together and things and at the end of last year we spoke about going out but never did. At the start of this grade we got really close... walking places together... Webcam... Waiting at eachothers locker its just amazing (: we spoke about dating and he thought I liked his best friend so was a bit confussed but when I told him I didnt like his bestfriend he was like Oh thats cool, lets just think about it then ;) He asked me to the cinema but his rents wouldnt let him. I'm on holiday just now and people at school says he misses me but I'm not sure. He facebooks me everday and things. But there is this other girl who likes him and he facebooks her alot too.

What should I do next ? please help x

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How do you impress a guy who knows you like him?
How To Impress A Guy

Ok so this guy from the school across from mine knows I like him. I know this because my so-called friend thought it would be funny if she told him. He told her to get me to see him. I had no idea what was going on until I saw him in the place I usually hang out. So he said he might be able to come hang out on sunday. But he had church. He said he would "try". Me and my friend went to go see him before we left to confirm if he was going to come or not. He said he was real sorry and stuff but tbh it didnt seem genuine at all. He was with his friends and they started laughing when we were walking back to the car. I was real guttered and spent the night crying about it (pathetic I know). He still knows I like him no matter what I say to his friends to make him forget about it. The sad thing is I kinda still like him. Me and a few friends went to a concert thing and he was singing in his band. He pointed at me in one of the songs (I'm yours). It made me forget about everything. I really don't like liking him but I cant help it. I'm good friends with one of his mates and I'm starting to befriend his mates (Not really). I don't know what to do. Please help? Hes kind of scared of me and he hides alot. The other day I over heard him say to a girl "I need to put my arm around you for a minute" then he walked past me.

Should I a) Forget about him/ find some1 else or b) Keep trying?


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iGuest

Play hard to get. If he texts you, don't text him back immediately.

Don't be too easily won over.If he talks about dating be flirty and fun, maybe "And what makes you think I'd want to date you?! :)" It'll give you the upperhand above the other girl who is probably throwing herself at him. Guys always love the chase and want what they can't have. Keep that boy on his toes.


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iGuest
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How To Impress A Guy

As a lot of points have already been discussed.. I 'll just add a few points to help you to be with the guy you like ( 'cause I feel , a guy continues to see you only if he finds you impressive)

1. Firstly, try to be attentive to whatever he talks about. ( iff you cant , just pretend to be.!).

2. Its not always girls, even the guys like to be complemented on their dates.( so, if possible, try to complement your man on whatever you like about him).

3. Be the one who you are, because finally a guy would like to experience an original 'YOU'.

4. Look pretty. But don't ever wear the complete make-up box.

5. I don't belive that a guy always expects you to talk on his topics of interest. We are sensible enough to understand your circle of interests !

6. Talk SOFT , SMILE.

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Ousk
Come on guyz are easy to impress. Just leans something about sports and computers and you're almost done. smile.gif Also don't talk to much just say things that are funny don't talk about fashion or don't tell a 15 minute story about your adventure when you acquired your last pair of shoes. Offer to pay your side on a date, and jump on the guy. We just love that. smile.gif) It depends on the age and other factors but usually guys have a lot of work at picking up girls so it's a nice change when the girls jumps us. The trick here is how you do it if you just jump him and have sex on the firs date or even second and if you don't talk before and you connect then you'll get no respect and be treated like a b****. So what you have to do is talk with him and make him see that you have lots in common, also say cool things like a story from a party that you've been to and something funny happened. After the talk you can't jump him with a kiss or something and then he will think that you are open minded and wow you can't find to many girls like that in our days. Hope it makes sense. smile.gif

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curtis07
QUOTE (FeedBacker @ Mar 25 2008, 07:19 PM) *
If you are playing a sport with us don't try to let us win all the time.


Agreed! Hey, if you're better at a sport, show it! That's the perfect way to be able to spend more time together--because the guy will almost always be competitive enough to keep trying.


QUOTE (sonesay @ Mar 26 2008, 02:43 AM) *
I have to disagree with number 1. I know for a fact if a girl throws herself on me I cannot resist. Guys are weak to their sexual urges so if you are super hot it will be a lot easier to get guys. Dress to impress. If you are wearing cloths that make you look unsexy then you lower your chances of guys noticing you. Most times guys will be shy just like you probably are so just make the first move, Saying Hi can be enough to get the ball rolling. You will never know if you don't take a chance right? Keep the conversation simple, threes been many times where I've gotten hints from girls but I'm too slow to follow lol, After they are gone I finally click but its too late. If your interested make sure he knows.


Seriously, guys are only as weak as they lead themselves to believe. However, guys generally do have strong urges, as "sonesay" pointed out. And while I think you shouldn't dress in disgusting apparel, I also think that dressing modestly is a good idea. I think guys respect girls that respect themselves. You may not draw as much attention as the partly-dressed crowd, but you'll be attracting the "stronger" guys.


QUOTE (FeedBacker @ Jun 4 2008, 08:09 PM) *
Imm a femallee.
Of course. =]

And I use to never get any guy in my bed. Than I relizedd. What am I doing wrong? I make my self looking goood. I'm bubbly. Not too clingy. Smiles.. Flirts.. D size boobs. With a slim body and bubble butt haha but I never had my breats out for guys to see or anything. So instead they always go for the girls with their nipple nearly showing and a dress so wen they bend over yuu can see their undies. I don't want to lower my slef down. But is that the only way?

Please help.

-reply by Jennifer


If all you want is sex, I guess that's the easiest way. You'll get sex, but no respect, and no guy is going to really care about anything but your body if that's all you advertise. If you dress modestly and only advertise your character, your likes, your dislikes, etc., any guy that shows interest in you is probably more genuine.

I would say that any guy like the ones you described are probably not worth trying to get.

And I'm a guy, in case you don't see my avatar.

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