I think this right here is the problem. If she doesn't end up "impressed" by you it's probably because you've got the mindset that really bugs me I see in other guys, that girls are nothing more then dehumanized sources of pleasure by which you count "score".

Johnny probably gave the best advice I heard, of being honest. Although, if you go telling her you want to "score" I don't think honesty is going to save you. Basically it sounds like you're more interested in her body then her, and that's not what love is about. If and when she realizes that, I am reasonably sure she will NOT be impressed.

Johnny is right, openness, honesty, and treating her as a person is the way to go. She has to be a friend as well as someone to be looked at romantically. If all it is for you is getting sex out of her, you don't care about her so much as the sex, and if she's a halfway intelligent girl she's going to realize that, and probably be out of there.

So many relationships fail these days because they're founded on lust, not love, and about what you can get out of it, rather then what you can do for the other person because you care about them.

 

 

 

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just be yourself man and always remember that you need a woman ion your life that will accept you how you are and not wanan change you thats a good woman

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Wow ok well first just LISTEN and ask them questions. every girl has told me im a great listener and they can talk to me about anything. Make sure not to become a friend though. What type of girl is it? Like what does she like? For example: If she likes birds, learn a little about birds and ask her questions about birds that arn't dumb questions. Something that will make her think you know a little. Remember to try to understand her, even if you don't you do. Get my drift. Be just a good guy. Or if shes a "hardcore" type be a bad *arse*. The best bet though is to find a girl that you have everything in common with and someone that you can talk to and WANT to listen. That is always the best.

I don't know haha. Describe her...

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i don't know if it works with all girls but i find important a clean guy (special attention to mouth and also try to clean your nails and maybe some moisturising so they will be soft). about the behaviour i think the guy should show some personality but withouth beeing to inflexible,i mean,don't try to pass the image you are the best and you know everything,that's bad,and also ask her for her opinion about things and when she answer pay attention,we like that. do not forget to be a gentleman,open the car door and let her go first,walk besides her in the street,if it is cold,offer your jacket, and so on...and i guess some flowers,even if you pick them in your neiboughrs gardin,they will work,what counts it's the intencion and she will love that. also try to make some complements once in a while but do not exagerate,don't do it all the time or it will sound bad.
remember,most of us don't care if guys are beatiful or not,if a guy treats us nice and if he make us feel wanted and good about ourselves we will like them. of course the guy must be clean and must care about himself also. the exterior beauty is a bonus after that. that is why you see so many good looking women with ugly man. i prefer having an ugly husband but one that cares about me and make me feel a princess than a good looking guy that thinks he's superior and that i only exist to serv him.
as you see we girls don't want much! we just want a clean guy who can make us feel good!

 

 

 

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These are all good tips that need to be followed if you want to impress a girl, also do cheat on a girl once you find one, she will tell her friends and then you will have no change of getting a girlfirend .

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Don't cheat ever... EVER. Not because she will tell her friends, but because that's *BLEEP*ed up move seriously. If you really care about the person, but you find someone else just break up with them and wait a little while then date the other one. Never cheat though.

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All you have to do is be yourself and have a cheerful personality! Be clean, and look cool (or hott for that matter). Girls' like someone who's kind and has a great personality, most don't even go by looks. =)

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If you just want to score then what's the big deal? Why do you have to be in love for every relationship? I was in a relationship and we were founded on lust, but that's what we were both looking for a the time. We were not looking for a long term relationship. So here is something i thought of haha

If you want to "score", but don't want to stay in that relationship, you should try to look for a girl that is looking for the same thing.

If you want to "score" and stay in the relationship try to wait like at least a week before doing that. This way you can start a relationship on interests and other things.

If you think your in love, you should reall y just act your self. Do not even try to think about scoring. Try to think about getting her to like you as much as possible before. Plus if your really in love, i believe from what i have found, you will think about doing "stuff" but when you kiss or hug or whatever it's just as fufilling. I for sure don't think your in love with this girl though if you just wanted to score haha. Hey, and most guys think like that and their nothing wrong with it, but if you think your in love you not haha.

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Impressing a girl? ....depends on your culture ..yes, some girls with this background like this and that, and some girls with that background like something else

Ok, here are some tips a friend of mine gave me

Sure, be yourself because if you're not going to be, you'd get tired faking it after 5 weeks But we all have our opposite sides, it's just a matter of which one to emphasize

*BLEEP* vs Gentleman
Gentleman works ! ...not unless your great in bed hehe Nonetheless, as to how much of an "*BLEEP*" you should be while being a Gentleman depends on the girl. if she's being hit on by every gentleman, you migth want to try to be a bit more youself, a bit more of an *BLEEP* hehehe ...just enough to show that your in control, and that you're different ...but no matter what path you choose, you should always be fun !

Friend vs Stranger
If you want to impress a friend, rethink first what she likes. How does she show her affection? Figure that one out Because if you want your effors to be appreciated, you'd have to speak her language is she the gift type of person? or the quality time type? or the quantity type? does she love to talk ? or does she simply want to sit down and hold hands? it doesn't matter if you shower her with gifts, if all she really wanted is someone to talk to (ok, with these types of person, it's not actualy "talk", but rather "speak"...so hone up your conversational skills).

If the girl however is a stranger, just be confident basically, most girls want a MAN ! so be one you can either try and befriend her first and apply the tips i mentioned above, or take advantage of the "mystery" thing if you show her stuffs she like, and she found only in you, then she would think that you also possess the stufs she also likes and usually finds in other guys the power of the "default mindset"

Routines:
If you intend to impress a girl for quite some time, let's say 5 weeks? ...you might want to start a small routine (and make that routine fun, or a start of something fun) like calling her up every 10pm or whatever, or picking her up always, ..stuffs like that so in case of a rejection, you increase the chance of her missing you so if you still want her, you can use that

Conclusion:
Just be a man, be fun, and be yourself! the rest of details depend on the girl ...if you think you're excerting too much effort emphasizing that other part of you, then better rethink...why do you like the girl if she's that so much different from you?

..just my 2 cents worth, based from the tips i got from my friends

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I think you do not need advices from other people...

If you love that girl or if you just like her, you should do just one simple thing, and yhat is: Find out what she likes, look deep in your heart, and it will be done by itself. Belive me!

It is the same thing like you are aproaching to a girl, just say the first thing "fall" on your mind...

Do not be shy to show your feelings, and everything is gonna be cool!

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