Girls are humans too. And everyone loves a person who's fun to be around. Hence you have some people who are "popular" and others who arent so popular. How do you become popular? It's not that hard really. Make up some extroardinarily ridiculous stories or make some ridiculous statements and say/tell them while keeping an absolutely straight face. You have no idea how entertaining that is. It shows that you have a sense of humor. It shows your confidence in yourself to say those statements WITHOUT CARING WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. It shows that you are NOT someone who is depressive-suicidal and generally a drag to be with.

Of course, this isnt the only way. But like everyone here said, be yourself. What this means is that you shouldnt care what people think! It does mean that you still have to shower and floss. But it also means that you should express urself in the same way as if you were with your best friend who doesnt care what you say. Treat her like someone who is your bestfriend and she'll feel the vibe.

People treat each other based on how they are treated. If someone greeted you very coldly, you'd start talking to the person in a not so friendly way too, right? But what if that same stranger walked up to you with a big smile, shook you hand vigorously and introduced himself while making small talk and genereally looking friendly? Of course you would respond warmly too.

So summary? Treat her like ur best friend who u arent trying to hit on (like every other creep.... err, i mean guy). And do it with complete confidence coz... she's ur friend right? Not someone that you have to impress. It works for me all the time. I dont have 7 girlfriends though. My 5 already take up too much time (but not money. I'll tell u about this next time.).

Hope this helps.

 

 

 

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Wait do you have five girlfriends at once?

I agree though. Be yourself, don't act nervous, be confident.

Funny, charming, always works. Act normal. No need to go on for paragraphs... lol unless you're hoping to get an obscene amount of hosting credits.

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I think that if you have to impress someone to get their attention, then forget about it entirely.

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Heyya pmh. Yeah, I do have 5 girlfriends. And yeah, I generally hate to type a lot, but for dating advice, i've found that people need extremely specific advice if not they'll be left wondering where to start.

How to have 5 girlfriends? Be upfront and honest. Make sure that they know they're not the only one. If you do it the right way, they wont mind. Or rather, they'll accept it. So don't try it if you dont know how, kay?

Pmh is right. Be confident, be yourself. And above all, be confident about being yourself, even if that "self" likes to collect action figures. It doesnt matter at all, as long as you enjoy it and arent afraid to show that you enjoy it. Now THAT's confidence.

Dark_drgn also has it right. If you're trying to impress her, you will DEFINITELY screw up. Well, maybe not 100%, but there's a 95% chance that you'll screw up and that's not very good is it? Don't impress her, just have fun. She'll have fun too.

G'luck.

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Ok, being yourself means dont change to get her to like you. Frankly, if all you had to do was be yourself to get a girl to like you, then all girls would like all guys. You have to stand out in her mind in some way, and you just have to be confident and independent. You can be kind, but not too kind. And you can enjoy seeing her, but dont work hard to get a chance to see her, just take things as they come with her. Let her see you would be great for her but you dont need her, let her come to you.

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Be honest is definitely the biggest tip. If you like her, tell her. If you want to ask her out, ask her out. If you don't like the way the relationship currently is, tell her.

I've found honesty and openness is really the only way to make any progress and get things done.

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These are all good tips that need to be followed if you want to impress a girl, also do cheat on a girl once you find one, she will tell her friends and then you will have no change of getting a girlfirend

 

 

 

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my life is sooo sad i can not get a GF nobody like me its so depressing now im so upser my hygene is great i bath evey day wash my hair and stuff change my pants/boxers brush my teeth and still nobody like me

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You just make someone like you ina day, if you have friends, thats a good place to start?, just be yourself and as the wsaying goes, You get out what you put in!

If you sit around allo day, don't mingle with people, your not going to meet many people, and less that actually like you, go to parties, meet someone, and go shopping with them, You find out the most interesting stuff, trust me! - If you go shopping with a chick, you usually know there bra size, before you get your hand on thiers!

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Girls really apreciate a gentalman, its very true.

I learned this a while back when i took a couple of girls to the gym with me, one of them wanted to play around with the bench press so I adjusted the weights for her, and went off to another machine, and overheard her telling her mate how much of a sweet gentalman I am! I wasn't even trying to impress her which just goes to show that being yourself should work aswell.

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