This been said, i just feel like detailing. Impressing a girl is WRONG. Your putting up a front your not. Thats why women say be yourself, (in other words if you seem cool, them be cool). If you want to impress a girl, invite her to YOUR world. Show her what qualities you have. If your laidback go take her to a lounge, if you like sports go hiking or biking. Do something she won't forget, but most importantly do something thats near to you and not some sillhouette of Her. As the previous poster stated. Also the previous poster wrote some important points. Good luck --

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i want to impress a girl who is now my friend,but i want to make her make wife
How To Impress A Girl.

I want to impress a girl who is now my friend,but I want to make her make wife.

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GIRL HELP
How To Impress A Girl.

Replying to Adamrossowhen you like a girl it is really important to keep good habbits. Shower often and definitely brush your teeth. Be yourself around the girl. If you really want to no what she thinks about you talk to one of your guy friends. Tell him to go up to one of the girls friends and get the scoop. Then he can come back to you and fill you in. If she likes you totally go for it. Don't be afraid. Girls are more nervous about guys than guys are about girls. That's how my boyfriend reeled me in. If you know she is flirting with you flirt back and make your move. If she dumps you or turns you down don't worry about it. There are plenty of fish in the sea and she just isn't the one. If she dumps you be sure to ask her why and try and change. Oh, and try to know her best as you can. It will make her feel more comfortable. But no one night stands guys... It ain't cool. Good Luck!

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Replying to Trap FeedBacker

Dude thats the same problem with me man I did my best ill tell you what you got to do and if you trust me tha gal will b urs just stay calm don't call her or don't talk to her just b impatient only thing you need to do is just act in front of her that you care about her by doing things etc... In 3 weeks the girl is your and I sure want a treat

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about a sweet girl
How To Impress A Girl.

Give me a phrase that is nice about her that I could tell her



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I have this "feelings" for this girl. we are both in the 8th grade. I got the seats and stuff, but I don't know if she likes me. I once told here but she didn't take to serously.I don't fell liking sayin it again because I hate it when my friends tease me.So how can I know if she likes me or not and how came I get here to like me.Please help.

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Replying to pensive-museThank you for the advice.I got girls all over me now.Great personality,hygiene,and everything else.I already got 3 girlfriends.

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Need for speed:
Get some alone time with her. Take her to the side, whatever. Be honest, clear, direct. No stumbling or stuttering. Feel what you mean and mean what you say ( and all that). Let her know that you ARE serious. The worst she can do is give you a "sorry you are na my type" or "no". Sure your pride may get hurt and that does na feel good.....however it will save you hours of time in wondering and worrying about the "should I's" or " what ifs". And your friends teasing you? Perhaps they are covering up their own feelings of insecurity in asking a gal out. It IS always easier to point a finger and laugh at someone else who is in a similar situation as your own ( though it does na make it right).

In regards to the original "?" here on impressing a gal.

I noticed a few people pointing fingers at the usage of the word "score". This could mean a NUMBER of things such as scoring her attention, a date or something more intimate. If you are looking only for the last of the mentioned then WHY bother with a gal when you can BUY services? Seedy? Yes. Very honest though. A TRUE relationship is based off of more than lustful feelings.
HOWEVER.....if score means something BEYOND lust.......
Hygiene is a must. If you have na learned the skills by now, then no time like the present to start. Even the "bad boy" image does not have stains on his shirt, dirty pants, yellow teeth or "naturally" greeeeezy hair. Ew.
Hygiene is not a problem you say? Good for you!
What about attitude?
Are you insecure and up tight? Stutter and stumble in your words? Slump, cower and have a problem with eye contact? UGH! Only gals with a needy fix him up complex ( or domineering) go for that. Is THAT what you want?
Don't get me wrong. You do na have to swagger and be a....donkey.
Guys....(general notice here)...... gals who go for the swaggering, shallow hole in the donkey ( so to speak) either don't know any better, have no self - esteem whatsoever or are deficient in braincells ( IMO). So acting like some domineering punk is NOT the answer.

The problem is that most gals ( from romantic movies to fairy tales) equivalate the bad....donkey.....with a knight in shining armor.One who will buck up and defend them. In reality donkey = jerk not knight in shining armor. Confusies much for the wide eyed females?

Anyways be yourself. If you are into anime, WWO, comic books, chess, cross country running, hiking, tofu, hockey, poetry, beating up small puppies because you are bored ( get help for that last one please maybe??), whatever.... then be honest. Don't go into a 4 hour detailed history of it....but don't hide it. Do you REALLY want to fake being somebody she might like? How long until you snap? Do you want to hear the "OMG I thought I could trust you? Why did you lie to me?How could you?!" bit? Would it be worth it to be with someone if they only liked you if you fit in their slot?What would you REALLY be getting out of it ( and if it is a physical thing then are you desperate, shallow or just too broke to pay for services?)?

A person who is not willing to listen and be open minded to things outside their own spectrum, in the end is not a person to really get intimate with. Would you rather fill that void ( feelings you have) falsely now to be let down, or would you rather know from the start whether there is truly anything to build upon?

You do na have to be a 10 on a 1-10 scale of hotness ( or bedding) to get a chick. Gals (smart ones with an esteem) want honesty, intelligence ( not necessarily rocket scientist level.....anything above "Thok want chicken" is suffice), humour, understanding and compassion. Hotness and intamacy are fringe benefits ( if said chick is only looking for hotness or special mad skillz in intimacy then WHAT do you have to build on but that? And what does SHE really have to offer otherwise??) Open a door to be nice but make it a common thing ( not just an I am impressing you thing and once you are with me you got arms so open it yourself), spontaneously let her know how you feel, be considerate ( etc etc). If these ARE NOT in your repetoire ( standard way of being) now would be a good time to look at such tools of etiquette and such. Why? Because human beings ( the smart sentient ones) take into consideration others needs ( or wants).

There is no point in being "nice" if your sole intent is to "get with and conquer". I canna tell you how many gals I know who are burned out on flowers ( as an example) for only occasions or apologies or how many guys I know who are burned out because other guys only did the flower routine to get something. The flower thing has been smashed to the ground countless times by many a smooth talking guy( and gullible or vulnerable female).

Bottom line:
Prioritize what you want in a gal.
Treat her like a human being.
Pay as much attention to her as you would like paid to you ( equality and all that).
Present yourself confidently ( even if you do na feel like it and believe it or not this also applies to the gals).
DO NA PRETEND to be something you are not. It will backfire in the end ( and not prettily I may add).
Be honest.

If she canna take what you have or accept it then she was na right for you. YOU canna CHANGE her ( gals this goes for you in the no matter how much you try...without resorting to illegal means YOU canna CHANGE him). Find someone compatible. Get to know her as you would expect a "her" to know you.

Plain and simple. It took me many years to figger all that out.

I hope this helped some ( even if it was somewhat redundant).

 

 

 

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That was helpful. Thanks dude

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What to do after getting the NO
How To Impress A Girl.

Lets say I told my feelings to a girl studying in my college. Its all fine if yes comes but If the results no, what do I do?. Stop contact with her altogether or...???

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