Love HA How Do You Get Someone To Love You? What if you love some one and do everything for them sacrifice everything for them help them love them selves and they still don't even remotely have a questioning love for you? that's my problem and now we are not talking because I'm fed up with it but I still love her and it hurts she wont even talk to me. Advice please. -reply by Nick

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Replying to Gyad
am 16 my name is justin and I really like this girl I know she likes me because she winks at me sings songs at me.But I have a cousin who went out with her but he beaterd her about and now shes that scared to do anything she daret ask me out but wen hes not looking she winks at and sings at me she smiles take the piss out of him wen hes not looking I know she likes me the way she looks at me but how do I know if she feels for me.

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Global. I don't really understand the situation you're in, to be honest. But even if one "hasn't held a relationship" doesn't mean they don't know what "love" is. So before I make my best suggestion, I want you to know that I've never actually held a relationship before, and that I want you to trust me on this, nontheless.
I want you to forget all about "how to get someone to like you" or "how you could help increase their interest in you" (which every way possible). And the truth is, you fill yourself up "full of love" that you begin to become anxious and overdo yourself. But as easy as it seems, instead of planning out ideas and strategies, neglect them and simply act like a "friend". Alot, the majority, of the people find attraction through beauty, but as we all know, beauty can be a real beast. So Friendship is always the best way to approach the people you care for (it doesn't neccessarily have to be someone you like at first sight). When you're simply friends with that person, friendship bonds tend to develop MUCH stronger feelings when you're with them. And when you become open to them, "in a friendly matter", you begin to gain insights of how you two would manage to be as a boyfriend & girlfriend.

Also, its true. That you shouldn't be selfish, but curious as to know about it (which is fine). Instead of worrying about thoughts on how you can get her/him to love you. Simply be "friendly" to them. Open the door for them, greet them, then accompany them. Once he/she's use to being around you, they'll eventually look forward into meeting you the 'next day'. Don't expect "them" to follow you, yet you follow them instead. If the person enjoys being around you, you then have the opportunity to become friends. Once that's done, your on your way to start a new relationship, "in a friendly matter."

~Meaning In Life~
"What is the meaning in life?" Can one person really point out a specific reasoning for "your own life"? If you focus more on emotions, expressions, characteristics, appearance. These are all the things linked up to each and every individual's "free will". Free will is mainly the beauty in life, otherwise we'll all be alike robots programmed to immitate human beings. Nobody can take away free will, even by strapping you down on the floor with your head tucked low. Because decisions are also a state of free will. "The free will to decide what you like or what you don't like." So the true beauty of free will is what gives us "personality".

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There is this woman, Sydney... I Love, as in die for her any day...Drown just to hold her above the water, that kind of love. Well I know I'm Young but, when I look at other girls, I don't see them as being pretty or striking. All I see is they are not Sydney. The only problem Is that she is my closest friend. The thing is that she is very flirtatious towards me, sleeping on my chest every time she stays at my house, and laughing at my stupidest jokes that no one would ever laugh at. She knows very well I like her, she is not awkward ed out, nothing at all has changed, however, she keeps bringing it up, then not wanting to talk about it. All day today I have been very down. I am nothing but myself, confident in myself when I am with her. I do basically every thing for her, cook for her, give her massages, every thing. Yet she is not into me I don't think. I am absolutley nuts about this girl... What the hell do I do?

-reply by Kyle

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You can never make someone love you.

Never change who you are. The person who was ment for you will come. They will love you for who you truly are, and that's all that matters.

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