Wow, bullying still happens? Well maybe it's because I was raised on the west coast then..

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Go wit tha wedgie,
Its the best idea,
Dont listen to anyone except me.
They dont know what there sayin and r all against you.

Personally jus tel him ho u feel and u dont like him.
Or u could do 2 him what the bully did in tha first place.


He could control ure life & u could end up as ure avatar.
LOL.




Thanks.LOL

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uh....
How To Avoid A Person?

Have you tried the change the way you look strategy? I'm sure that you can do it, if you try. I did this once by changing the way I looked, & the person never knew it was me cause they didn't know me very well. Just try to change your outward appearance & they should leave you alone, change your hair color or what not. This kid should leave you alone thinking that your some one new =P

Or just grow up & become their friend, duh. XD

-queenie

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Y DO you want 2 avoid him hes just a person like you and me,he probably doesnt have any friends so just b a good friend and make him feel better!

-Lauren

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Just tell him the truth. Tell him that you don't want to be friends with someone you can't trust and cite the rock throwing incident since I think that really does bother you. He might ask for a second chance, but tell him he has blown it.

Don't be a bully. Don't give him a wedgie. Else, you'll just drive the kid towards suicide or a mental breakdown. Yes I'm exaggerating, but it only takes one straw to break the camel's back, as they say.

Or else you could find someone like him, another underdog. Introduce them. Let them be friends. If he has someone else to hang out with, he should leave you alone.

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that sounds really annoying. He's sticking with you because he thinks you accept him cos' you're not like the other people who bully him and ostracise him. It's sad that he's a tattletale, otherwise if I were you i'd attempt to look over his faults because i know it's terrible when one is friendless, helpless and lonely.

Why don't you try talking to him, telling him about whichever behavior of his that you (and probably everyone else) dislike, including the tattletale bit and asking him to change? Maybe he'll cry, but make him realize that it's for his own good. If he becomes a more pleasant person, more people will like him, and maybe you will even grow to like him too.

If you really can't stand him, well, i second brandice's suggestion. Tell him you are busy whenever he tries to get you to hang out with him and then run off. Eventually he will realize that you are ignoring him and he will feel hurt and go away. Yes, unfortunately, you can't have your cake and eat it. You will be rid of him, but he will be hurt even if you don't want him to be.

 

 

 

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how to make her leave me alone!!!!!!
How To Avoid A Person?

Hey guys I need help. Well, our family moved, and we started visiting this church. And this girl ignored me then one day came up and started being really nice to me. We became friends.

Then she started getting extremely annoying and she is now a drama queen. Well she's always been a drama queen but she will NOT leave me alone and if I say ONE THING wrong -even if its nto mean at all- she gets all "upset" and ignores me for a while, and blabs her mouth off to her mom and she is SOOOOO INCREDIBLY ANNOYING! my mom sez we won't invite her over until she shapes up. And she lies her stupid head off to get her way! HELP HELP HELP!

-reply by rachel

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this annoying person is stalking me. ??
How To Avoid A Person?

I have people like that... Yea its hard. I sometimes HATE being nice because then I always am a magnet for freaks. Some of them turn out to be cool but some of them...

Yea. Well there's this girl and she's really nice I guess but the more I hang around her, the more I realize we have nearly nothing in common. I like reading drawing photography the cure the beatles the teddybears twilight, stuff like that I guess you can say I'm a really artsy person
She likes...Well...Hannah montanna hilary duff pirates of the carribean and she thinks that bunnies and babies are cute ( well most people do but she talks about it alot) shes also kindof conservative in a weird way
And then she bosses me around and invites herself over gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I think we can still be friends but I just need to GET AWAY for a little, shes in a few of my classes so I'm not really sure how to do this. Help.

-reply by Sandra

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1 - Wear a paper bag at all times that you suspect he might even be in the same zip code as you.
2 - Use ninja techniques, peer around corners, walk on tiptoe, etc.
3 - Either bug him with a location tracking device or use a complex network of friends with radio/cellphone contact so that you can know where he is at all times and thus be far, far away.
4 - If somehow he does manage to notice you, quickly use diversionary tactics like setting off sprinklers, shouting out "fire!", etc. and make your getaway.

Seriously, disregard the above and just be honest with him It sounds like the main reason you don't want to be around him is because of what happened with the rocks. Tell him that. Honesty is the best policy. Tell him what happened again and that you lost respect for him because of his actions there, and that you'd prefer not to spend time around him.

Like someone else said, his feelings are going to be hurt either way, so that can't be avoided. What can be avoided are the misunderstandings that could make this even worse. Tell him exactly why you don't want to be around him. Based on that, I wouldn't think him a very good choice for a friend either, and it sounds like you're honest enough to be able to tell him that.

I do hope though, that it's not just because of his reputation or whatever or how it affects your reputation. Sometimes the best friends can be the most unpopular, but we shouldn't worry about what others think regardless. If you were willing to stick up for him in the first place though, I doubt that's much of an issue for you.

Still, just be honest about what's affecting your decision and at least do him the service of letting him know exactly where everything stands. Who knows, maybe it will even result in a misunderstanding being cleared up? Truth has a funny way of making relationships stronger when you'd think it would tear them apart.

And hey, if the guy's the whiny sissy you think he is, at least you can walk away from this with a clear conscience and no regrets or misunderstandings. Maybe that honesty could even have an impact on his character in the future and one day he'll be able to thank you for it.

Figure out exactly why you feel the way you do, and tell him it. I'm guessing it might run something like this: "I stuck up for you against the bullies because it was the right thing to do, not because I wanted to hang around you all the time. The main reason I don't want to spend time with you is because you got in my way when I was throwing rocks at a pole and then got me in trouble with the teacher, which isn't my idea of what a true friend would do. With all due respect I really just want you to leave me alone. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, I just don't like you hanging around me all the time."

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Rats, all these recent posts made me think this was a recent issue, I just realized it wasn't. Oh well, hope it turned out alright.

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