I will not say what is right or wrong, but I really think it is a natural thing. I have alot of gay & lesbian friends, and I know how hard it may be for them sometimes. The world is cruel, I don't think anyone should have the right to say if someones sexuality is right or wrong, because it is right for them. Another thing I think most of the world is good at, is discrimination. Lesbian is okay, but gay is not, what is up with that? I think that is because alot of people likes lesbian because of sexual reasons, but why is it like that? Someone tell me... My conclution is that the worlds people should live after one guideline: QUOTE Respect is the ultimate curancy!

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Being gay is fine, as long as you don't pressure yourelf on people who are not. I have nothing against gay people, they are not harming me. Put alot of men are homophobic, just something men do. We don't want to be accused gay, so we will hate all gays.

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As far as I'm concerned, it's wrong.

My belief is based on my faith. I'm a Christian and a Southern Baptist, so I'm fairly conservative where religion is concerned. That's my personal belief, which does not supersede your (generalization) right to your own belief.

Some of my friends are gay. I don't try to convert them and they don't try to dissuade me of my beliefs. *shrugs* They make their lifestyle choices and I make mine, as we're all free to do that.

And they know better than to ask me to go to a gay pride rally, just like I know better than to invite them to my church

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Personally, a person should be whatever they want to be, and as long as they don't pressure what they want to be on me, I can tolerate them.

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Hi,

First of all who can define what is right or wrong?. No one can exactly define it for positive and negative itself is a perspective. Think about it If a teen smokes or has sex, to him it is justified but to his parents and others it is the ultimate sin. It is the same with homosexuality, We do not understand or respect what is new and different to so we suppress it coz we think it is bad. But what about them? Are they now like us who perform functions like us?

Humans are creatures that reason, they say but we do not. In a documentary I saw it said that gays were highly respected for they were more highly tuned with the fine arts and history than their straight counterparts, This was ages ago.
It is none of our business whether they love men or women. When we speak of morals, we forget our own sins and point at another's.

So in short, I just wanna say that do not make gays look like freak shows but treat them like you and me.

Whether they want marriage, kids, publicity or love whether genuine or not.
Accept not reject, Be positive

 

 

 

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In my opinion homosexuality is a wrong thing. Not for any religious claims, but strictly for social and moral causes. I am just argued with a friend about this yesterday and I did some research on this subjec to find out if he is right in defending gay rights.
First of all many of those who defend gay rights think that being gay is genetic. This theory is called "Born that way" (if you want to find out more about it CLICK HERE). Most research (made by true scientists, even from the gay community) has show that there is NO such thing as a "gay gene". Indeed there are links that point out to genes, but most researchers believe that being gay has to do with both genes, social and psychical factors. In other words there is no such thing ad I WAS BORN THAT WAY!. Homosexuality may be considered similar to a disease. Some people are genetically more vulnerable to it.
I also heard that some consider homosexuality a normal thing. Their explanation would be something like this. In the animal kingdom homosexuality is a known fact. If animals do it and we are an evolved type of animal shouldn't homosexuality be considered natural as well. This theory is also based on false facts. First of all homosexuality in the animal kingdom is not a rule, but an anomaly. Homosexuality in animals is not linked to instinct. Furthermore homosexuality in animal kingdom has more to do with other instincts like dominance. In other words this is one way that animals show a contender who is the boss. So homosexuality is also not normal in animals. Not to mention that evolution tries to kill those traits that are not usefully, homosexuality being one of them since it does not produce any offsprings.
As a personal opinion I think society is trying to excuse itself for it's inability to fight homosexuality by making it genetic. Society has a lot of impact on young kids. Family is also extremely important. Although there isn't any research to prove that a kid from a homosexual family will become homosexual himself, it is certain that will have some repercussions on his character. So I think society must understand that is has part of the guilt for this situation.
I am strongly against homosexuality because it's rewrites all values that mankind has. I'm not saying extreme action must be taken, but I do support the idea that gay couples should not have legal status. Furthermore society must tolerate, but not accept them. It is not natural for them to be that way... It is easy to tolerate one thing when you don't want to see the repercussions. Only imagine what it would happen if everyone would be gay, or a gay majority, would you like to have two fathers???

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Nice posts, Joshua.

And, ciroxyz, we as Christians are Christians because we want to follow the faith, not because Jesus told us to. God has given us free will and we are using it by being Christian and not Hindu. If you were to look into our religion a little further, the religion of Christianity, you would see that there are a lot of things that we decide for ourselves. Such as celebrating certain events, it's all about "making the truth your own." I'm not trying to come off hateful here, but we follow certain Bible guidelines because we want to, using our brain.

To know why Lot had intercourse with his daughters, you have to read the scriptures AROUND that verse. I will not go into explaining this due to time and becoming offtopic; But if you want the answer to that scripture just let me know, I'd be glad to help you understand it. =]

Now, I'm not going to say that Homosexuality is wrong or right or that you should/shouldn't agrre with it, I just don't agree with it personally because of my beliefs in the Bible and what IT has to say, but I will say that it does make me sick to think about it. =( It is possible to live 600 years or so, back in Bible days, so if you could explain to me why you think it's NOT possible, biscuitrat, then please do so. I know it is because if you look down the family line, you would see that from as far back as you could tell down to now, people started to die at younger ages. I know this because I researched my family line.

Please don't take any of this wrong, just debate with me. =D

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I think its wrong... Why?
God created man to love womans, not to love other man, so if GOD created it that why people must change it?.... (no offence for the gays, is the truth and sorry)

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Is it okay for women to love women? Because you have said nothing about women loving women. All you said was that god created men to love women, not men. So are you saying it is okay for a woman to love another woman? Because that'd be unfair and pointless to state. You will never know how we feel, you will never know if the feelings we have towards other men are same as straight men feel for women, or straight women feel for men... just as we will never know if straight loving is the same. It is the same, as we do love...but if the love is measured the same we don't know...you have to be gay or straight to know. I don't believe god created people and if a god did, i doubt they'd care whether or not two guys or two girls got together, because theres still enough heterosexuals out there to make up the difference.

Your statement is weak, you say your sorry for what you said. So if you are sorry you must have some doubt in your opinion? Or some fear that you may be wrong and have no proof, so you quickly say sorry just in case all chaos breaks lose right? What you said is not the truth, just because you said it or because 'god' said it. Its inconclusive because its just an opinion. If you tell me the sky is green and white, am i supposed to just take it if you add 'it's the truth' after it? Its not true...so why state that it is true when it isn't? You should never say your OPINION is true.

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I can't say it is wrong, but if I found out that my friend was gay I would not say: "Hey congrats! Good going" and our releationship wouldn't be as good as before becaue I would feel uncomfortable around him. That is just my theory. I haven't got in such a situation so I dont have real experience. But homosexuality isn't right or wrong. It just IS as been said

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