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QUOTE(Alex_W @ Nov 17 2005, 12:15 AM) Ok I have a girl problem here. I like this girl and she likes me back but there is a small problem. She already has a boyfriend. I want to go ask her out but as you see she has a boyfriend. So my question is what should I do. We are good friends and know each other pretty well.personally i think that is not a matter, because you know.. she is not... read more.
It is never a good idea to intrude on a preexisting relationship. If you were to do this, you may find yourself being threatened or fighting. There is no worse feeling than having a man sweep a girl right out from underneath you it's amazing how much rage can be born from this. If you really like her, you must wait for her to break off from her current boyfriend (try not to have to much to do with that or you could still end up with problems), and then go out with her.
Good luck friend.
i end the thought process before it get any worse, or just wait until they break up and catch her on the rebound.
And what do I do? I've never told her my feeling to her, and so years passed. (I met her in 7th degree whilst I'm 9th degree) Now two years after that, I met her again. Just about when I left highschool she broke up with her boyfriend, and man... I really want to confess at that time. But, I've never confessed my feeling to any girl before even I've ever like several girls before her. And so, I barely made my confession to her later. However, she neglected it,... oh how I want to be swallowed by the earth at that time. Maybe I'm mistaken, and maybe... for my fear... her liking me has voided due to the long period happened around us. So, basically I want to say, if you really like her, CONFESS to her. Yeah, I know she will bring down your hope if she just like you as friend. But, if she really likes you, I think she will turn to you. I know you and her boyfriend will become enemies for sometimes, but I think it won't last forever. For the last, I think any relationship before marriage is still ok to be broken, so as long as she has no husband yet, you still have opportunity to take part in their realtion. Ok, hope this helps. -.hack//gu-
Leave it alone 'til she doesn't have a boyfriend. Take it from someone who just went through this, its so much easier that way.. its not a good idea to interrupt another relationship. While one person may not mind, as they like both people, the other person in the relationship will be somewhat crushed.
Unless you would want someone to steal your girlfriend from you that way, leave it until she doesn't have someone else. Thats got to be her choice, not yours..
if she does like you, she will break up with her boyfriend. simple as that really. also, dont try and talk her into breaking up, otherwise things will get nastyyyyy...
QUOTE(Alex_W @ Nov 16 2005, 05:15 PM) Ok I have a girl problem here. I like this girl and she likes me back but there is a small problem. She already has a boyfriend. I want to go ask her out but as you see she has a boyfriend. So my question is what should I do. We are good friends and know each other pretty well.  Nothing is going to hapen between you and the girls ubless you get rid of the other boyfiend. Ive done it. This is how it works. You start hitting on the girl and you make the girl like you more and in from of the other guy you kiss her or hug to make him go "wow" ur out of your line and then you'll see if the girl really wantes you if she backs on your side or no. It worked for me. It is a little sad but if your that into the girl its a good option.
I agree with what most people are saying. Let the girl take action, if she truly desires to be with you more than her current boyfriend, she will break up with him or end things with him, whatever. Two out of my three relationships have been somewhat like this. In one relationship she had a boyfriend, but she wasn't satisfied with him and broke up with him soon after finding out that I liked her (she apparently also had feelings for me). As for my third and current relationship, it is a bit more confusing. There was this guy that was under the impression that he and my girlfriend (now) were dating, just because they had hung out or something like that. He had never formally asked her out and they had never actually gone on a "date" so she said that they were not dating. Well, eventually the guy found out me and my girlfriend had a "thing" going on and became angry. Well, whatever, as it turns out she didn't even like him so I asked her out and there you have it. He became very sore... and probably still is but he at least became more reasonable. I actually think this was a more volatile situation than my first relationship (come to think of it the guy in that situation didn't really even care).
But anyways, lesson of the story: make sure she's aware that you like her and make sure she likes you. If she likes you more and values your companionship, she will end whatever relations she currently has to be with you. Be patient, sometimes these things just take time. But in no way coax her to do it or start spreading rumors or lies. That in fact will probably make your already touchy situation worse. But the best of luck to you, I'm sure things will turn out well. QUOTE(conret @ Nov 16 2005, 10:18 PM) Nothing is going to hapen between you and the girls ubless you get rid of the other boyfiend. Ive done it. This is how it works. You start hitting on the girl and you make the girl like you more and in from of the other guy you kiss her or hug to make him go "wow" ur out of your line and then you'll see if the girl really wantes you if she backs on your side or no. It worked for me. It is a little sad but if your that into the girl its a good option. some people believe there are no rules in the game of love and war. i disagree because that is the kind of guy i am. if i feel i am doing something that will be "sad" to others, i just don't do it. we live in a world about how we treat others in a positive or negative way and how others treat us in a positive and negative way. i don't believe to much in cliches(sp) but patience really is a virtue. if you have no patience in this life, you wont go through the learning experiences that you are expected to go through to become a better person. i say be happy with what you have and don't dwell on what you don't have. and you certainly don't get anywhere in life disrespecting others for selfishness. i'm not much for the outdated propoganda the bible has to offer either, but i do believe in doing unto others as you would want them to do unto you. bottom line pal, it IS sad, so don't do it.
the problem I see here is that when alex says that girl likes me back. That means there was / is a thin thread of bonding between them.
And seems after the new boy has entered it has made both of them realized how much they require each other. This makes the relationship complex. Now may be the girl is in no position to move out of relationship till such time you(alex) assures her of his presence and support. And for that to happen this feeling should come out loud and clear. Latest EntriesQUOTE(Alex_W @ Nov 17 2005, 12:15 AM) Ok I have a girl problem here. I like this girl and she likes me back but there is a small problem. She already has a boyfriend. I want to go ask her out but as you see she has a boyfriend. So my question is what should I do. We are good friends and know each other pretty well. personally i think that is not a matter, because you know.. she is not yet married unless u like virgin, but i dont think girls today is virgin... just forget about the bf and ask her to go out once for a while and see how she reacts QUOTE(Alex_W @ Nov 16 2005, 08:15 PM) Ok I have a girl problem here. I like this girl and she likes me back but there is a small problem. She already has a boyfriend. I want to go ask her out but as you see she has a boyfriend. So my question is what should I do. We are good friends and know each other pretty well. Too many women out there for you to sweat one son.
ths should help! =]
I Have A Girl Problem Here Hey alex...So I read your "problem"...And if you rele like her and you like her back that best advice I can give to you is to go for it. Yes she might have a boi frend at the moment but you would be suprised what can happen if you just take a chance, finding some one special is not some thing to be taken lightly. Feelings llke these don't come along every day, so why not give it what cha got and see wha happens! =] good luck getting your girl! <3 nikki. -reply by nikki
I have to agree with most the people posting here. You don't want to spread rumors and plan for people to help you frame the other boyfriend. That's just pathetic to attempt something like that and I'm sure you care for yourself (and her for that matter) enough to forget about anything like that. I am in a similar situation as you are right now and I can understand your feelings about wanting to do something about it. But the truth is, although we get along great and she's flirting back with me more now, I have no idea what her feelings are. In both your situation and mine, the key for us is to continue to be ourselves and talk with the girls. If they want to be with us, then they might not make it overly obvious, but the hints will be there for sure. If you get a sign from her, then flirt a little more. I think that confessing your true and full feelings to her at this point is not the best idea, because it may just end up driving her away because it may just come as a huge shock. If you build up to it with being a friend and gradually tossing in some flirting and comments, then she should pick up on the fact that you like her. When you're sure that she has some feelings for you, then that would be a better time to confess your feelings. However, you need to keep in mind this whole time that she has a boyfriend and you're running the risk of upsetting her if you overstep your boundaries with her and also pissing him off. No guy likes to have another guy hitting on and trying to steal his girlfriend and the situation can get very ugly very quickly. Just keep your head up my friend and be tactful in this. I'm sure you've heard it and it's not very heartening to hear it in a case like this, but if you are meant to be with her, then it will happen. Good luck!
well, "liking" is way far different from "loving". are you really sure that the girl feels the same way for you? it's more of her problem not letting go of her current boyfriend so she could stick with you. if she "loves" (take note, i used the word "love" not "like") you then she should know better that there's no point in staying with someone whom she doesn't love anymore. if you say that she "likes" you, then that's another thing. you can't just go jumping around and shooting people's boyfriends just because their girlfriends "like" you. people could easily misinterpret what others say. i could say to someone that i "like" them in a casual way and not giving them the idea that i'm into them. and that goes the same for you. i'm just going to leave you the question, is it really "love"?
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