Omg.. ok so i think im tramatized, i logged into my msn, for no reason whatsowhever, and some random guy on my msn sends me an invitation to use webcam, i was like, oh gad how annoying, and i exed it out.. im guessing msn doesnt believe on ESC, because as i dipped my cookie into the milk and stared into the screen, saw the guy holding his penis on his hand, and moving it on circles, i seriously wanted to TROW UP, i was like omgad, ESC, AHH EWW ALT+F4.. why are guys like that? im not saying all guys are, but half the guys out there are like, all they want is sex, or some sort of sexual thing, and i find it so disgusting specialy when your not even going with them, its like, okay are you serious? i dont even know if you like me, and you want ME to meet you somewhere to make out/have sex... ladies.. what do you think haha

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if you look ugly enough there is no problem from normal guys to wanna have sex with you

*edit to remove undesriable abbreviation* what is wrong with sex ?! it's a need...that's all, like food...

and because of the society sex became a "bad" thing...till some years ago it was just taboo, doh... and now after the communism disappeared (excluding china/cuba and some) an explosion of xxx movies appeared...

doh I guess people will never fully understand it's purpose..

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I dont think you can really generalise like that.
Most guys are nice people, not sex obbsessed perverts (although, being a guy, my view couold be slightly bias)

Although there will always be exeptions to the rule, the ones who think so much of their appearance that they think its normal, or right to do things like that.

I have been using MSN and different IM programmes, for about 6 years, and this is the second time i have heard of this.

Just block them, and forgt about it.

I dont think it is fair to say that HALF of the male population is like that, infact, i dont think it is really fair to generalise like that atall, i think you are basing that on one event.

Its like, trying a drink, and finding a fly in it, then saying you will never drink it again, because of that one time...

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It's really not fair to say it like this. Like you and anyone else, no guy wants to be stereotyped. OF cause there are guys like that but there most guys that I know find the whole camsex, roleplaying and fantasizing thing quite disgusting.
What is funny here is I used to think there are more girls that boys looking for online sex. I used to complain about the "See me naked..." links that one will get if they put their Skype in "Skype me mode" I hate them but I never hated girls for that. I still have decent online friends who will never talk about things I dont wanna hear about.
My advice to you is: Learn to say things in a way that does not offend a large group of innocent people. Your topics anme got my attention.

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Well, as a male, I find this to be quite an interesting topic. Why are guys so inclined to this type of unnecessary sexual and perverted behavior?

I think that one of the major reasons for this is that, in short, we have been brainwashed. Look at the media, the music videos on MTV/Much Music/etc. they are full of sexual images, and the have created a world full of lustful animals. Not to mention the pornography industry, which undoubtedly has tempted 100% of males who know what a vagina is to spend countless hours in front of the computer/t.v./etc. watching the perverted images flash across the screen. The world around us has turned women into an object of pleasure, and this is utterly wrong, and a perversion of what God intended for us.



Unfortunately, this is a common misconception. As sad as it seems, every male, whether you can admit it or not, is like this. Of course, others have this problem to a more extreme degree (like what gisellebebegirl witnessed), and some have it to a much lesser extent. For a real life example, I'd like to use one of my friends, who shall be called 'Bob'. Every time Bob sees a women, he will usually decide to inform me of whether she is hot/sexy or not. Now to some of you, this may not seem like a problem. You may say something along the lines of, "That is only a compliment." However, when you look much deeper into this you can see that Bob only values women for how they look. Why is this so? The FIRST judgement he makes about a women he meets is on how she looks. So instead of treating her like a human, you begin to treat her like an object. It is like purchasing a vehicle solely on it's aesthetics.

Of course, due to the chemicals/hormones and generally how our brains our wired, we cannot help but feel inclined to think about sex. I myself have struggled with pornography, and other lustful desires. But, from my own experience, I believe that we are able to over come such desires, and reverse how we think. We are able (but we must be willing) to change how we view women. We can change this view from a disgusting one where women are treated as objects used for pleasure, to one where we consider them humans.

To sum up my opinion... I guess you could say the following. We are naturally inclined to be disgusting animals. This is not helped by the world in which we live, in fact, these animal desires are only enhanced by it. If us men are ever able to overcome this, we must realize how we are treating women is wrong, and we must change it.

 

 

 

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People need to evolve or grow the heck up.

Just reading the OP belittles what respect I have left for a lot of guys, and that's bad. What possible gratification would you have in doing what gisellebebegirl was describing, aside from maybe getting some kicks in knowing you grossed someone out? People are idiots.

KansukeKojima might be right about guys - and this would be applicable to girls too - about humans being, well, human. It's the maturity that I encourage to have some self-control and not be a moron about something like this. I'm not sure how everyone else sees it, but I view sex as something that you share with someone you love and care for... so things like one-night stands and promiscuous activity may seem appealing at times but in the principle of things, I don't find the concept very attractive at all. The media does promote a lot of approach towards sex appeal and guys and girls gobble up this crap like a kid in a candy store, and it takes quite a bit to actually separate what you're being pushed towards with what you really want to be as a person. I always question why girls always complain about shallow guys and arsehole boyfriends and yada, yet they wear "skimpy" and "skanky" outfits... and you can't tell me that a miniskirt during the colder times of the year can be comfortable, or a low-cut tee is really there for cooling purposes.

As far as receiving random invites, go to Options > Privacy and check the "Only people on my Allow List can see my status and send me messages" box. That's just a no-brainer right there if you want to keep this sort of thing from happening.

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Thus the reason I can't find a girlfriend because its morons like that and the myspace pedophiles make it had for people to date because all they will be thinking about will that guy do me in a dark alley or something like that. Heck I would report the dudes email address to police to find his butt and throw him in jail for him exposing himself and what not. Guys are stupid and all they think about is sex and money and video games.

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