brandice
Dec 29 2005, 04:20 AM
| | exactly. There's been a lot of great advice in this thread.
But going back to what Saint Michael said a few pages back, you need to take a break from dating all together for a while. Don't go looking for someone new right away. I've seen it so many times, with friends, 3 sisters, aunts... even myself- If you don't get yourself together and learn to like yourself and feel that you deserve to be treated a certain way you are going to keep dating the exact same guy with a different shell. My older sister must have gone out with 15 guys in her life that were basically the same person before she took some time off and got herself together. |
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the_aggie10
Oct 1 2006, 02:43 AM
well. you said you love him....i think he loves you...but also loves the bottle i think you should give him a choice between beer or you....that sounds mean but wouldnt you want him to love you more than beer?
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MikeyUchiha
Oct 1 2006, 03:09 AM
Ok that really pisses me off when a guy uses a girl like you and the girl just stays with him because she "loves" him. I mean come on there are guys out there like me who are willing to treat you right and have never had a gf because they're "too nice" I think you should just quit. He obviously does not plan on changing. Besides you're a minor I should sue his a**. I would be willing to go out with you if we lived near each other which I doubt. Anyway just think about yourself before him.
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trace-uk
Oct 2 2006, 03:58 PM
I agree with the others. you've been a fool to stay with him. "So I put up with him for a year or so" - This is the worst thing you've ever done. Wasted a whole year. That's 365 Days! Any idea how many hours???
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iGuest
Nov 12 2007, 06:38 PM
Hi. I am quite good friends with this guy and lately hes getting quite mean now and I have had this argument with him, today, and hes starts bitching about me. and if I have something to say. when I am with my friends hes like ssssshhuusssssssshh and wont let me say anything, and I cant stand it anymore. I want to be friends but not like him like this and I have told him this and hes all, whatever.
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iGuest
Jan 28 2008, 02:05 AM
He gives you all the signals but you still not sure!
Guy Problems
Okay, there is this guy I like and he says he doesn't like me like that. Well, last night he brought me back to town to meet my mom after a party and while we were there, he moved my hair from my face to behind my ear. I'm not sure if he was flirting, making a move, or just trying to be nice since I was worried about my mom driving. I need help before I make a drastic move I might regret later. Please help. -reply by Robyne
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weimond
Feb 3 2008, 11:16 AM
You are way too young to get your life too complicated, that guy is clearly not focus, he probably needs to sort out his own demons first.. My honest advice will be to give him some more time apart and see how he goes. Remember, life is to enjoy  S QUOTE(AmandaB78 @ Dec 15 2005, 01:13 PM)  hey everyone. I have a serious problem on my hands. Let me start here..
I started going out with this guy a year and 4 months ago. While we were together he used to get drunk all the time and completely hurt me.. Not physically but emotionally and mentally. Its like.. when he gets one beer in his system he doesn't care about me or us. Everything sets him off. So I put up with him for a year or so. I was use to the weekends being a mess.I knew that I would get ditched at least once or twice every week, have him leave my house out of nowhere for stupid reasons (always when he drinks tho) ((which is every night))
, hanging up on me all the time, basically breaking my heart.
I do everything for this kid. We are broken up now. But were back trying to see if wwe can work it out. He tells me hes goning to change but I've heard it a million times. He freaks out over nothing still to this day and were not going out. He says he can't trust me and mostly everything is my fault but if you ask me and everyone including my parents friends teachers etc.. hes got some seri0ous problems and if anything I shouldn't trust him. Hes done some bad things and he even admits to me that he "ditches" me and that he keeps things from me. Also... I've really changed my life around alot in the past year and started doing alot of good things instead of being miserable. But he doesn't appreciate the things I do. He doesn't ask me how I feel or how my day was. He doesn't congradulate me on things I do. He just thinks about himself.
I love him but I HATE THIS! I don't mean to sound cocky or anything but I'm sure there are other guys out there that would appreciate me and treat me good but I can't let go. Everyone I know tells me I should but I can't do it. I hate being miserbale and I know I will be. I just don't think he'll change. He told me he would the other day and just an hour ago. He got mad at me because some stupid kid called my phone. I don't talk to this kid I can't stand him and I don't know why he called. But "the boy toy" got mad and basically flipped on me walked out and went home. It wasn't my fault!! I'm 17 and hes 20 but I swear to god hes just as immature and stupid as he was when he was 13.
I need some advice. I'm pretty positive the outcome though.
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jogarriot
Feb 9 2008, 05:22 AM
hey amanda, let me tell you... my girlfriend used to smoke like crazy, she used to drink like hell and got drunk, violent, and we had problems all the time. i couldnt sleep well anyday because she partied everyday and it really hurted me, all her guy friends wanted to sleep with her and taking a drunk girl is not that hard... i just hated it. but she loved beer too much what i did was did. when she was sober, we talked about how much it affected me. she would have comebacks for everything, but eventually after i asked her to not talk back (for the hundredth time) she listened totally. and we made a deal that would meet half ways (using in a sutil way the threat that if she didnt change i would leave her) the deal was she would only drink to get happy not drunk and i would not complain about the beer. she agreed upon it. a few months later when she got used to be only happy i told her that it still affected to see her like that, that i didnt want her to get happy or drunk (this was harder thought) but eventually we agreed, she didnt get happy/drunk and i wouldnt complain about drinking. time passed and eventually i told her hey, i want you to drink less because you are not fit or whatever excuse i could find (this was the hardest part) but eventually she almost stopped it. now i have my very healthy and responsible girlfriend :-) it took around 9 months overall and like 1 and a half for each step but it sure was worth it.
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jogarriot
Feb 9 2008, 05:23 AM
maybe you dont have to leave him... but if he doesnt change at all, its 'better alone than with bad company'
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iGuest
Mar 4 2008, 12:35 AM
what would you do?????
Guy Problems
So I'm friends with this guy, and we have been seeing each other for the last 5 months, plus we dated about 7 years ago, I really like him, he tells me that he likes me to. My friends keep telling me that I'm stupid and he's just using me and thinks that he can have me whenever he wants. They tell me I should forget about him, and move on. He told me the other night that he had a date the next night and that he didn't want me to be mad or anything, I'm not mad but it still hurts, I do feel like he is using me but then he always tells me that he likes me and stuff, I'm so confused and I don't know what to do. Everyone looks at me like I'm stupid and like what the hell is she doing.It's so hard because I like him so much, I want to say thats enough but easier said than done. I have even turned down other guys for him, and everyone says he would not do that for me. I feel so stupid because I think sometimes he is just using me, but then he gets there telling all this stuff about how he do like me and that I'm so pretty and all that stuff, he got my head confused...What would you do if you were me??????????? -reply by confused
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