Read Latest Entries..: (Post #40) by iGuest on Sep 15 2008, 08:44 PM. (Line Breaks Removed)
Well it seems I've avoided saying all of those things to my boyfriend...But what about things that guys should never say to girls? I think guys are a bit worse, no offense! Here are some things my boyfriend said to me when we started dating(he even told me to let him know if he's acting like an asshole, so how should I do that?):1. "Are you bisexual? I don't mind if we bring another girl to h... read more.
After years of my friends talking about their break ups here are some NO NO's I've found. Since 7 is my unlucky number, there are 7 tips! ...I got up to 30, but that's a bit too much! ------------------------------------------------------------------------- 1) What are you thinking? *Never ask a guy this. You may be wondering why, girls, but really the guy doesn't need to knowing what he's thinking in his head. Besides, it's probably not anything you want him to be thinking. (eg: You think he is thinking about you, but he could really actually be thinking about the Girl Next Door, lmao)
2) Do you think _____ is cute? *Freaking ANNOYING. They say, "HATE IT when girls ask me this!" So, girls, don't try to be his buddy if you are his girlfriend? On the other hand, if you are very tight with him then you can ask a question like this. But, if your his girlfriend your putting him in a really bad position when you start to talk about other girls with him. Nothing good will come out of this, and the only thing you will do is end up hurting yourself because if he says.. "Oh, she is really cute..." then you will be jealous.
3) Can we talk about "defining" the relationship? * For those of you who still don't know what define means, the best way I can put it is to "state the precise meaning." So in this case... "Can we talk about the precise meaning of our relationship." Don't ever ask a guy this because it truly puts pressure on them. It's like those used car salesmen who say, "What will it take to get you to buy this car "TODAY?" Seriously, it sucks and it's ugly. It's especially NOT FLATTERING to them and can even make them insecure. Besides, if he has any intention to continue with the relationship, you won't have to ask him this question. Trust me, guys are eager to not lose you if they like you. If they're "truly" MEN then we will be the one leading the relationship. They'll be the leaders. *Once heard this phrase... "Leaders define---that's how they tell you where they are leading you so that you will follow."
4) Do you like hanging out with guys more than with me? *All I have to say is LOL because usually when you girls ask a silly question like this, it's usually not the answer you want. If you ask a guy this, it's like him asking if you like shopping more than him. Tought choice for most of you lol. They have their own lives too, and when you keep barging into their private life then soon they WILL think less of you. Not only this, but everytime you DO ask a guy this, you only dig yourself a hole in his lies. Basically he's trapped. Even though they like chillen with their guys friends, they "literally" have to tell you "no" and that they like hanging out with YOU more. And once again, TRUST ME, they won't feel good about it.
5) Who just called? *God, this pisses me off sometimes. Get it straight girls, you don't have the right to ask! It's out private business!! Stop trying to control them by controlling their information!! Let them have their own life too. If you give them privacy, we give you privacy. And definitely, if you ask us, we WILL BE INSECURE.
6) Where were you last night? *To them, it sounds more like an accusation than curiousity. If they want you to know, they will tell you, if not, then live with it...it's not the end of the world! *TRUST* is the key ingrediant. When you trust someone they want to live up to that trust. So no asking him "leading questions" because remember, guys are the "leaders."
AND LAST BUT NOT LEASE... 7) Why don't you call me more often? *ooooo, i get this one a lot. Remember, everything that behings with "why don't you" is unacceptable! You put them on the defensive with this kind of accusation. It tells them that they aren't good enough for you. As if, they aren't meeting you "needs." Let me help you girls of trap17 out tho...a better way to ask this question would be, "I really love it when you call. It's fun talking to you on the phone." This is a positive way of asking the question, and you will most likely get a possible reply back =)
----------------------------------------------------------------------------- POST FEEDBACK! And, I will make another thread...suggestions would be great too =)
------------------------------------------------------------------------------ I showed this to over 20 guys, who have a GF, or an EX, and they confermed it, AND added a little extra. (Plus some info from the gr.11's [thanks])
Funny list of real things that most girls usually answer. I think they are questions that denote insecurity... so probably if a girls asks you if you enjoy staying with her is because she has reasons for thinking that you get bored with her.
Anyway I think girls are possesive with their partner (like boys) but maybe in a more psychic way than physical. So they want their boyfriends to think constantly about them and no other. Maybe, it´s just my personal thinking.
Answer: Doesn't matter Answer if yes: Yea, she's fine. If no:Are you kidding? Look at her! Answer:Hahahaa, cute. NO! Answer: Of course, I have a great sex with them. Something I couldn't do with you. Answer: My mom. I got to go to bed. Bye! Answer: You didn't call so I went out with ten stripers. Answer: Because it's not cool.
These are mostly true but i will say that if u have a very close and initimate relationship with someone, a few do not apply like the "Who just called you" and what were you doing since most likely if u are that close, its just is the same as how are you and such. Besides that, good list for new relationships
Wow, good list. I for one, am curious about items number 8 to number 30.
And as an aside, I like my hubby WAY more than I like shopping! I would rather spend time with him watching tv, working together, or just hanging out than I would shopping.
Hey broflovski! that is one good nice topic....I really liked it and I think all girls must take a class from you on this...because you have things clear in your mind...so nice to know that there is a girl on this earth who know what is right
Well it seems I've avoided saying all of those things to my boyfriend...But what about things that guys should never say to girls? I think guys are a bit worse, no offense! Here are some things my boyfriend said to me when we started dating(he even told me to let him know if he's acting like an asshole, so how should I do that?):
1. "Are you bisexual? I don't mind if we bring another girl to have a threesome with. Why not? We can have sex with a couple?"
2. "I am a virgin..Mentally. I mean, I had sex, intercourse, but I never came. It's been a while since I touched anyone, like six years."
3. "My dance partner was hot."
4. "I went to buy some dance gear and this girl was flirting with me, I would have asked her out but then I wouldnt have met you."
5. "My friends invited my ex girlfriend to see the show, hope you don't mind, do you?"
And a reminder to guys...Girls don't want to be reminded about your history of ex girlfriends or even be compared to them...You wouldn't want to be reminded by their ex boyfriends either. So, some things are better left unsaid. If you have something to say, make it short, sweet, and meaningful.
Oooh. Just had a convo wit a friend. Heres a big NO NO for u girls
PMS IS NOT AN EXCUSE! <-- never use that!! EVA!!!
*shudder*
hah its funny that you said that, my girlfriend was being particularly rude to me last night, and when I started calling her out on it she said it was just because she was pmsing
It'd do some of you good to have a girlfriend who finds you annoying too,hehe I've never been told am annoying by anyone, even got some complaints that i don't care enough...you guys should really know your mind,if you wanna have somebody who cares a lot or you then fine,let her ask all those questions.if you just wanna be kissing buddies, then let the girl know,it'll do you both good
I definitely agree with those, my last girlfriend always asked all of those questions and plenty more, its really annoying. I had to give her the answers that ciroxyz recommended, they are pretty funny, but I was really fed up.
Here's the deal, Theres this shy girl. Lets assume she loves me, we will also assume I love her.
I'm afraid she is so shy that if i ask her out she will say no. should i be worried about this?
Also. Before i ask her to bemy girlfriend i want to ask her to go to the movies or something but im
afraid she will be too shy to go with such an unfamiliar person. Would this be a good move? should i
tell her to bring a friend so she will have someone familiar there? or should i just outright ask
her to be my girlfriend? Other ideas would be appreciated!....
hey, im 16 sonn to be 17, and the only thing missing in my life is a gf. Ive never really had one,
ive gone out and stuff but i was really too picky growing up and none were good enough. Now ive
changed, and been open to anyone really but i dont know where to meet girls. Main problem is i got
an all boys school. /ohmy.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":o" border="0" alt="ohmy.gif"
/> Im also busy with work,school, working out, and just hangin out with the guys. I dont have a
problem talkin to them once im introduced, its just i dont know were to meet them, and w....
Mkay, I know it is usually better if guys ask girls out, but like.. a lot.. girls have been asking
me out? Is it some kind of joke, or do they actually have feelings for me, and then i feel dumb for
not asking them out myself, because most of them I knew that they acted like they liked me, i should
have asked to something, it just feels unusualy to be asked out by a girl, is it completely normal?
Or not. Now i don't feel confterable dating a girl that asks me out, because im not sure if it
is just a haux, im not sure if i should ask, or just say NO. Its really weird,....
Okay girls got a question for all of you. Say you go to a bar/club with a guy. Do you want to
grind and stuff like that or what and do you would you want a guy that likes to dance yet cant
necessarily dance well or just a guy that doesnt like to dance?....
So i have been dating this guy for 1yr and 5months and when we first got together we used to have
sex all the time. But id say for the the last 8 or 9 months its like he could careless if we have
sex or not. Like right now we haven't had sex in almost three weeks. He does have a job that is
stress full and has long hours and we don't have the same days off. He says hes just not that
sexual of a person and its not the most important thing to him. Well the first thing that comes to
my mind is he must be cheating. We live together and i know what hes doing all....
okay, I'm wondering...what really turns girls on. I mean physically. Or is it not always that. I
mean, I'm trying to impress some girls. I know it sounds wrong, but really this is the only way
I know how. When I talk I get nervous and say a lot of stupid stuff. Topic title modified. ....
Hi, This is how it all happened: I've met this girl on the meeting site Lnm.eu and she's
good looking. Actually I don't look for the outside of the girls, I find the inner part more
special. A good look can be extremely nice, but particulary i like more the inner part /smile.gif"
style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile.gif" /> Now to continue the story:
We started chatting on lnm client first and got to know much about each other. Every time i heard of
her, it was like my life cleared up and the sun started shining. /laugh.gif"....
I need help, I like a girl but she jut likes me as a freind we have similar interests and we are
both single, Shes 15 and im 14 we both love anime but I don't talk much, Kinda like emo but a
Otaku so what should I do to get her to like me, were already freins but im ugly and usually
that's the first thing a girl looks at is your looks...I walk around sad all the time (Even I
don't know why) But I really like her she is very nice and calm...If you need any more info on
her tell me just help....
I'm very intered in finding out what sounds like a good date to girls. If you girls coulds have
a guy ask you out on a "good" date what would that date involve? Generally a "good" date to a guy
is any date that ends in sex lol /biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":D" border="0"
alt="biggrin.gif" /> so no other guys posting pelase!!! Okay, what types of dates
would you want to be taken out on by the following kinds of guys. 1) Someone you've known for a
few months and alreayd like. "friends first" etc. 2) Someone you barely know, y....
Ok well I like this girl at my school, shes soo cute and likes alot of the same stuff as I do. I
always walk her home and we share a lot of good times in school. I've heard she liked other
people before but not sure if she will go out with me. Everyone think we like each other and stuff
but I am so scared! Everytime I think about asking her I get nervous and change subject. I'm
not exactly attractive or cool so its hard to ask. Anyone can help me out?....
::99 Facts About Guys:: QUOTE 1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They
prefer neat and presentable girls. 2. Guys love flirts. 3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then
forget you afterwards. 4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're
not thinking the way he is. 5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first
usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering. 6. Guys may be flirting
around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl the....
There's this girl i like, its a long story, but here's how it went I saw this girl in the
quad at my HS, and she's a junior to me, so i had no classes with her, so i basically talked to
her a couple times, made some excuses to go around her, and asked her to a dance 4th time i ever
talked to her, the dance i thought went well, so i told her i liked her, a week after the dance, she
replied she's trying to get over another guy, (according to friend, its been 2 years now) so
basically rejected me, and my friends told me try to stay away from her a bit, so s....
ok, i like this girl ,and her best friend likes me . I have told her friend nicely that I don't
like her that way. The girl that I like is friends with one of my friends and kinda likes him, but
at the same time she doesn't because he never talks. I have found out that the girl I like knows
I like her and she has considered me before , but her friend who also likes me told her to back off
of me because she still likes me. The girl I like said that she wishes she wouldn't have to
decline me on the account that her best freind still likes me. I really like ....
QUOTE THE PROBLEM WITH GUYS If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him; If u
Don't, he says u are PROUD. If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him; If you
Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG. If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN; If u keep
QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS. If u are SMARTER than him, he'll Lose FACE; If he's
Smarter than u, he is GREAT. If u don't Love him, he Tries to POSSESS u; If u Love him, he
will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?) If u don't Let him KISS u, he says u don't....
Another mail I recieved... No assumptions please.. /tongue.gif" style="vertical-align:middle"
emoid=":P" border="0" alt="tongue.gif" /> QUOTE Things guys should know about girls
1. Don't ever lie to us; we always find out. 2. We don't enjoy talking dirty to you as
much as you enjoy listening. 3. Don't say you understand when you don't. 4. Girls are
pretty, but yours is the Prettiest! 5. You don't have PMS; don't act like you know what
it's like. 6. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something s....
Girls, post your advise for us guyz and Guyz, post your advise for u girls. Me (being male) have
only this to say. Playing hard to get isn't fun. Don't through yourself at him and DO NOT
send him little note's. Being subtle is your best bet. But do not lead him on if you don't
like him. That's all I got, now it's your turn! /smile.gif' border='0'
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Hello Friends, This one was forwarded to me from my GF, I was so much possessive over her and more
jeaouls in her guy friends matter. We fouhgt and she left, At that time she forwarded me this
article. Anyway she came back to me now, but I can not forget those days which I read this atricaled
with my tears in my eyes. I am trying little by little to apply this article. I tihnk this will be
useful for guys /smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /> God
bless. QUOTE What Girls Really Want From You 1. Don't flirt with other ....
Okay. So I'm bored, of reading all these "How-can-I-get-a-GF?" kind of post from guys. So here
are some tips from a friend (AKA Daniel Degtiarev /tongue.gif' border='0'
style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tongue.gif' /> ), of a friend, of a few older friends of mine.
You guys can read, reply...be silly, w/e.. i don't care. *Note: I made this thread because
some guys just can't flirt and this might help them /laugh.gif' border='0'
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I need help impressing a girl. I dunno what to do really. Act myself, meh. what else. My sister has
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style='vertical-align:middle' alt='dry.gif' /> ....
Sup guys this year I will be a junior in HS and well I really want it to be different than the
previous two years. You see I was home schooled through eighth grade. So most of my friends ive
known for only two years, not that that isn’t long enough its just so many of my friends have gone
to school with there gf’s since first grade. But mainly what it means is that my social skills arnt
exactly up to par with the rest resulting that im sorta shy around girls. Ive never had a gf, and
until the other day I thought that was fine but I went to a friend of my siters wed....
Okay for all you dating noobies, here are some tips to asking a girl out and stuff. 1. Don't
be afraid of rejection, the more nervous you are the worse it is. I have a friend who asks girls out
just to be an a-hole, he's been rejected 617 times and counting, no joke. He's pretty good
at dealing with it /tongue.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tongue.gif' /> 2.
Make sure you know the person. Most relationships come off of friendships; that's where most of
mine have come from. 3. If you want a girl to go out with you, you're goi....
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Funny list of real things that most girls usually answer. I think they are questions that denote insecurity... so probably if a girls asks you if you enjoy staying with her is because she has reasons for thinking that you get bored with her. 
