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Dear friends this short note is really very good. And if I am not mistaken according to me its touching also. Who ever is the writer of these lines is an emotional person. And have good understanding of human relations.
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Why Girls Cry - Guys really need to read this

hansley
Something that I found in my friend's notebook...I copied it and now I am pasting it in here.

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A girl wont cry easily,

Except in front of the person who she love the most, she becomes weak.

A girl wont cry easily, only when she love you the most, she put down her ego.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you, please hold her hands firmly, she's the one who would stay with you for the rest of your life.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you, please don`t give her up, maybe bcoz of your decision, you ruin her life.

When she cries rite infront of you,
When she cries bcoz of you,
Look into her eyes,
Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she's feeling?
Think.
Which other girl have cried wif pure sincerity,
In front of you,
And bcoz of you?

She cries not because she is weak,
She cries not bcoz she wan sympathy or pity,
She cries,
Because crying silently is no longer possible,
the pain,hurt,n agony have become too big a
burden to be kept inside.

Guys,
Think about it,
If a girl cries her heart out to you,
And all because of you,
Its time to look back on wat u have done,
Only you will know the answer to it.

Do consider it,
Coz one day,
It may be too late for regrets,
It may be too late to say "im sorry".

To my friends...
Ponder this message seriously.
Don`t do this to a girl,
You may regret for the rest of your life.
Maybe in your life, she's the only one that love YOU the most.
Remember this lesson..


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Nani Cheri
Just The Same For The Girls...They can make boys cry too! And I know a lot of 'em...so ....

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Shadow
QUOTE(Nani Cheri @ Jun 19 2005, 06:17 PM)
Just The Same For The Girls...They can make boys cry too! And I know a lot of 'em...so ....
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I'm probably the only guy who's gunna admit it, but I've cried in front of a girl, and it WAS because of her, in a way. She was going away, and I didn't want her to. So girls CAN make guys cry too. You're 100% right about that Nani Cheri.

As for the poem like thing. It's also true. But only to a certain extent that I have to figure out.. lol. But you MUST quote text from another website, and not lie about it, maybe you did get it from your buddies notebook, but you still have to put the [quotes] tag onto it! Don't let a strict admin, or mod find this, fix it before they do!

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NovaTerra
Heh. =)

I hold back my tears when I'm infront of a girl. Then when I get home and nobody is watching, then it pours. Also, I've made like 5 girls cry, and I didn't do a thing about it. =l

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Tyssen
QUOTE(Shadow @ Jun 20 2005, 01:59 PM)
I'm probably the only guy who's gunna admit it, but I've cried in front of a girl

I'm sure you're not the only one. I've done it and know a few others who have as well. That whole 'guys don't cry' thing is just an outdated gender stereotype like 'women belong in the kitchen'.

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Ao)K-General
Well. I don't think I will have to worry about that happening to me because no girl will like me and I have very few friends. It tells you a little about me. I am horrible with making friends and cant talk to a girl. And like I said before. No girl will like me.

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Cammy
Everyone cries many times when no one is around to see or hear. Its the first thing we do when we are born, besides take a gasp for air . For years its acceptable but then its seen childish and immature. Ive made a few men cry. Its hard to watch. Men have made me cry too and just sometimes the harsh realities of life. I cry during commercials if Im especially moody that day. Crying makes me feel refreshed or cleansed if its due to stress. Its sort of purfying. I dont cry for nothing though. Tears are precious and should be used with care.

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NovaTerra
Hah! Tears a precious!
Have I cried in front of a girl? No
Have I made one cry? Yes, actually 5

Have I cried? yes

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thebluekirby
awww!! that's a really sweet poems <3

but don't you think it goes under creativity? (even though you didn't write it up...)

ha... that poem is totally true...

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NovaTerra
Actually, the poem is so fake. Girls cry very easily.
Also, they cry infront of you because they 'hate' you, not like.

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contactskn
Dear friends this short note is really very good. And if I am not mistaken according to me its touching also. Who ever is the writer of these lines is an emotional person. And have good understanding of human relations.

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re-greta
QUOTE (re-greta @ Nov 16 2009, 08:48 AM) *
As a Girl ,When I cry ,in front of someone it's actually someone that I do trust and care deeply about ,although ,allowing my self to be seen as I call it to be ,very vulnerable and allow someone see me really cry ,i is a trust with everything I hold deep inside of me ,to be shared with that guy,that what ever

Sometimes due to different cultures ,Girls are taught "not" to cry ,in front or not in front of others ,When they learn they can trust and not have to become ,what they were taught or become ,that is where the strong faith is also shared between the two .

I share tears with someone ,this guy will hold my secret within ,very understanding ,offer a love that ,allows me to ,hold this trust and share ,emotional time with him .
Allow things to get released and both could ,work through those emotional times together .

Although when a guy ,does get this chance and something happens that holds some form of lack of trust ,during sharing ,those tears ,it will create something inside me ,that makes it very hard to share those tears in front of that person ,the trust seems to still be there ,just leaves a tad bit of hurt ,behind .

When a girl shares that part of herself ,there is a strong belief and faith ,that makes them close and best friends .

Each can share those deeper emotions ,with each other ,holding a trust that there will be understanding between the two .

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re-greta
As a Girl ,When I cry ,in front of someone it's actually someone that I do trust and care deeply about ,although ,allowing my self to be seen as I call it to be ,very vulnerable and allow someone see me really cry ,i is a trust with everything I hold deep inside of me ,to be shared with that guy,that what ever

Sometimes due to different cultures ,Girls are taught "not" to cry ,in front or not in front of others ,When they learn they can trust and not have to become ,what they were taught or become ,that is where the strong faith is also shared between the two .

I share tears with someone ,this guy will hold my secret within ,very understanding ,offer a love that ,allows me to ,hold this trust and share ,emotional time with him .
Allow things to get released and both could ,work through those emotional times together .

Although when a guy ,does get this chance and something happens that holds some form of lack of trust ,during sharing ,those tears ,it will create something inside me ,that makes it very hard to share those tears in front of that person ,the trust seems to still be there ,just leaves a tad bit of hurt ,behind .

When a girl shares that part of herself ,there is a strong belief and faith ,that makes them close and best friends .

Each can share those deeper emotions ,with each other ,holding a trust that there will be understanding between the two .

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legend112
QUOTE ((G)girllastGeneration @ Nov 14 2009, 05:18 AM) *
I am a girl and I know when does a girls cries infront of a guy, its when she trusts him, trust with her whole heart that this guy is going to keep her secret , keep her weakness with him and not make a mockery. Trust can melt a girls ego, may be that guy is not her bf or her husband but the mear fact that she choose this guy to share her pain and she cried in front of him , means she has enormous faith in this guy ,and expects that he will keep her faith.Not all relations can be defined in this world, I wish to have some one a true friend whom I can trust without having any expectation from anyside of anykind but just trust, full pure, trust . I don't know if that kind of relation is possible between a guy and a girl.

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I mean guys hurt too but rarely do they break down like that.

I have been let down and felt like crying but the thought that i will put myself in a position where i have to rely on somebody for my happiness is not pleasing smile.gif

Thats why often guys dont cry, they bottle emotions inside that why most of them are bitter lol...

really because if you look at it, girls who cry are soft and in most cases kind...now look at guys...most of us have personal issues we can't even discuss with others and just hurt girls because w're insensitive IMO.

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I am a girl and I know when does a girls cries infront of a guy, its when she trusts him, trust with her whole heart that this guy is going to keep her secret , keep her weakness with him and not make a mockery. Trust can melt a girls ego, may be that guy is not her bf or her husband but the mear fact that she choose this guy to share her pain and she cried in front of him , means she has enormous faith in this guy ,and expects that he will keep her faith.Not all relations can be defined in this world, I wish to have some one a true friend whom I can trust without having any expectation from anyside of anykind but just trust, full pure, trust . I don't know if that kind of relation is possible between a guy and a girl.

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