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Girl problems How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? Yea I'm in a similar boat. There's this girl I like and I met her over the summer and we started hanging out then it turns out she started going to my school so we keep talking and I go to her house every weekend but when I go we sleep in the same bed and all that but for some reason she never seems interested in the thought of dating me. She always talks with me and we go together places but like I said she never wanted to ...
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I have a close, personal friend in the same boat - except he's been in a relationship for 5 years and is only now finding out what his girlfriend is REALLY like! Five years, man, and he's finding out she's text messaging other guys FROM THE BATHROOM and meeting them for dinner and drinks while he's away on business trips etc etc. Total horror show. From the sounds of it, the relationship already ended for her awhile ago. This is a very common occurance for women - they mentally break up with their man months before they physically do. You're seeing the phenomenon right before your eyes. Please don't set yourself up to be any more hurt than you already are. It sounds like you should be able to make a pretty clean break without anyone having super bad feelings....so send her a message stating you're not receiving the same level of affection you're giving and this isn't going to work out for you in the long run...then thank her for the opportunity to meet and get to know her and MOVE ON! Be nice, though...seriously. A guy that breaks up well is a guy other girls find really attractive for some reason. You might wind up scooping her best friend! HA HA HA HA HA HA HA! Good luck kiddo.
You definitely need to talk with her. If you still like her, don't give up yet. She might just be very busy and doesn't have time to talk. It might be better to talk to her personal rather than over a phone, so she can't hang up or anything. If you are lucky, she will tell you the truth. If you are really worried about what's going on, than the best thing is probably to dump her. There's no need to load a bunch of stress on yourself over something like this. Sometimes it's best to just let these things go rather than thinking about them continuously. You might just want to take a break from girlfriends for awhile, let yourself focus on what with wrong with your last one and what might be going wrong with this one. You might need to change the type of people you are looking for, because it's seems like you are very unhappy with your decisions. Mainly, it's up to you what you are going to do about this. Good luck with this and I wish you the best.
She didnt even invite you to her party? Damn thats going alittle too far. However, it could have been an all girl slumber party thingo too. If it wasn't, find out what happened at the party, usually if she is breaking up with you in a cruel way, she would ahve been all over the guys at her party.
I say also to throw the phone away, and start talking seriously with her face to face to do a number of things, gage her bodysigns weather she is actually listening, you could look at her eyes when she talks and guage wether she is lying. Its just soo much better.
Do not come to any conclusions yet, give her the benefit of the doubt ... give her space and hear her out if and when you meet but meanwhile give her space cos it si apparent she wants that now.
Topic is nearly one year old!!
 Maybe we should see if we can find out what happened, but i'm not holding my breathe so lets leave the topic to die gracefully.
is this girl using me?
How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? I give you some details about the story.I and this girl worked together for some time and she used to call and msgs etc.Intially I was not interested,but later on started replying..She used to do a kind of mild flirting.I started haiving feelings for her.However,she told me once that she had got a boyfriend. Her boyfriend knew of our intimate friendship.He is staying in another city and asked her not to continue talking with me.He had got number of news regarding our alleged affairs through common friends and he asked her not to talk to me anymore.She lied to him that she is not in talking terms with me. We are still in continuous talking terms.In fact,we meet and every second day talk on phone..However,my one sided affair only hurt me.Since she talks to me as an when she requires to.She shares everything with me at least her dealings with her bf... I decided to quit gradually.And stopped calling her.There was another reason behind this..I think she takes for granted and sometimes talks very rudely.I stood by her in her difficult times as she also admitted.If I call,she would ask me to call after 5 mins and then her phn is busy for hr. After 2 yrs frustration,I decided to part my way..I gave less call...To my suprize ,she called me and asked why I stopped calling.I told her I was not sure if she needed me.Since it was evident from her behaviour that she took me for granted... Now I have a few questions" A.My heart says she is using me because she sometimes flirt with other guys also. B.If I call her regularly,she would either put me on hold or do anything which clearly means she is avoiding me. C.Why does she go after me when I stop calling her and then she talks nicely and every sort of good things to me. D.She also ask for any suggestion.Is she emotionally dependent on me? E.She knows I had feelings for her.Why did she lie to her bf? Thanks waiting for your reply -reply by jack
is this girl using me?
How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? How Do You Know If A Girl Is Lying And Just Playing You? I give you some details about the story.I and this girl worked together for some time and she used to call and msgs etc. Initially I was not interested,but later on started replying..She used to do a kind of mild flirting.I started having feelings for her.However,she told me once that she had got a boy friend. Her boyfriend knew of our intimate friendship.He is staying in another city and asked her not to continue talking with me.He had got number of news regarding our alleged affairs through common friends and he asked her not to talk to me anymore.She lied to him that she is not in talking terms with me. We are still in continuous talking terms.In fact,we meet and every second day talk on phone..However,my one sided affair only hurt me.Since she talks to me as an when she requires to.She shares everything with me at least her dealings with her bf... I decided to quit gradually.And stopped calling her.There was another reason behind this..I think she takes for granted and sometimes talks very rudely.I stood by her in her difficult times as she also admitted.If I call,she would ask me to call after 5 mins and then her phn is busy for hr. After 2 yrs frustration,I decided to part my way..I gave less call...To my suprize ,she called me and asked why I stopped calling.I told her I was not sure if she needed me.Since it was evident from her behavior that she took me for granted... Now I have a few questions" A.My heart says she is using me because she sometimes flirt with other guys also. B.If I call her regularly,she would either put me on hold or do anything which clearly means she is avoiding me. C.Why does she go after me when I stop calling her and then she talks nicely and every sort of good things to me. D.She also ask for any suggestion.Is she emotionally dependent on me? E.She knows I had feelings for her.Why did she lie to her bf? Thanks waiting for your reply -question by jack
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I would break up with her. I mean, she had a party with a bunch of people there and didn't invite you? thats like her saying all those people are more important to her than you are. -reply by Dillon
Well if you ask me she is a player. I believe you are wasting your time she is basically all about her self and looking for attention. My advice stay away from her. Either her daddy must have gave her too much attention when she was young.
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