A Girl Likes Me And I Like Her

tdktank59

Oct 8 2005, 12:53 AM

Ok this is kinda lame but heh i need to know...

Ok i talk to here eveyday and that sort of stuff!

i know her fairly well, about 3 years now or so...

I was talking to her online: heres the conversation ( i bleeped the names for my sake lol)

QUOTE

Me: so u want me to ask u out huh?
Girl: lol why
Me: just wondering
Girl: comon...there is a reason
Me: yes there is but i asked a question... u just going to leave me without an awnser?
Girl: umm well yeah i guess i do want u to
Me: then i will lol...
Girl: lol not online
Me: never said i was going to online...

so i know she wants me to ask but how do i ask?

Saint_Michael

Oct 8 2005, 02:11 AM

be yourself its that simple, you could do it in one of two ways one face to face asking out (best option) or call her up and aee if she wasnt to go to a movie and get something to eat. Also if you havn't done so already meet the parents to get that out of the way no matter how tough you think you our meeting your dates parents is nerve racking.

Also Don't be like pimp daddy or thugnomics on her just be yourself and all should go well.

grnjd

Oct 8 2005, 03:19 AM

well shes right, never ask a girl out online or over the phone (also don't break up that way either). Just ask her to get a drink or something, it seems like she likes you so what do you have to lose? But do you know her in like real life? not just over the phone, because she may not turn out what you think shes like

Rubyducky

Oct 8 2005, 03:38 AM

Yes, be yourself, maybe talk about the stuff she likes, everything will turn out fine...It usually does.... Good luck

dymondgurl

Oct 8 2005, 05:14 AM

Be straight foward and honest. Tell her you like her and want to spend more time with her. Say will you be my girlfriend. Honesty is always the best policy so tell her exactly how you feel about her. Also ask her how she feels make sure your ont he same page. If she says yes let her know what you want out of a relationship with her and pray it's the same thing she wants out of one with you.

leiaah

Oct 8 2005, 05:54 AM

Hey tdktank59. I don't know if by the time you get this message you've already asked her out but I'll still try to give you some advice. I used to chat online and I don't know about you but sometimes what you talk about or the chemistry that you and the person on the other end feel when chatting (or texting) might not be the same or might be different when you actually talk face to face.

Umm..I guess my advice is to keep at it. If you say you know her for 3 years already then just ask her out. She seems eager to be asked out by you.

tdktank59

Oct 8 2005, 05:58 AM

Yes i know her personaly shes in my section in band lol Tuba Pride!!!

but yeah ok nah i havnt asked her out yet i will on monday or maybe tomarrow i dont know yet...

Thanks guys
Trevor

vujsa

Oct 8 2005, 06:06 AM

I can't believe that you took the time to post this here. You should have logged off right then and walked to her house. A woman gives you an open opportunity like that, you got to act quickly. Women don't give us that many opportunities.

But, since you choose to ask us first and left her hanging, here is my suggestion.

The first chance that you see her (make it happen if you don't se each other frequently), you need to arange to spend some alone time with her. I don't mean that you need to go parking somewhere, just get away from any other friends that would make either of you uncomfortable to be around while talking. Bookstore, coffee shops, etc are suitable for this. Looking back you can tell her it was your first unofficial date. She'll like that later on. While talking with her you need to ask her out on a real date. And be sure that you are clear that it is a date. Don't be nervous, she has already told you she is interested even if you didn't hear it. She is going to say yes, it is just a formality that you ask.

My next suggestion:
Learn how to give a really good massage. It may not seem like the thing to do now but it will definately be very helpful in your future.

Good Luck.

vujsa

exhale

Oct 8 2005, 06:24 AM

If I were you I would ask her out at school

Yeah my opinion, and I'm a girl

Give her flowers =) make her happy

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Oct 8 2005, 10:01 AM

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iGuest

Nov 15 2007, 12:25 AM

Ok.,just stay cool and calm about it,just look at what her body languge is tellin you like how she acts while ur askin her,

1.look in to her eyes,

2.like I told you stay calm and cool,

3.try not to act like ur messin with her you know like(jokin about the whole deal),

4.Tell her that you really like her and that you have always and say will you (whatever her name is)go out with me?

thanks good luck with everything!

-rocker___chick103

disguise

Nov 12 2005, 06:18 PM

Well just be yourself. Go up to her with a beautiful smile and ask her if she's busy or anything...if she says no, then ask her out for a cup of coffee or set a date. Just use your imagination boy!!!

tdktank59

Oct 13 2005, 03:06 AM

QUOTE(Moody @ Oct 11 2005, 12:29 PM)

It's very important to ask it right in her face. I made my own list:

Best is: In het face
2: telephone
3: MSN or something
4: e-mail
5: sms

But just only use the first 2 and the best is the first....and of course (you have heard this many times) BE YOURSELF

Yes i have her phone number yes i know here in real life...

so yeah its all good now i asked her out...

Moody

Oct 11 2005, 08:29 PM

Unregistered 015

Oct 11 2005, 04:52 PM

Thank you round!! I was just thinking about reporting this as abuse

Guys, dont think that if a girl says she likes you that she wants to marry you or have sex with you immediately! You were just chit-chating and she might have been joking or playing. If you already know her, just tell her: "c'mon lets drink something wonderful tonight", and get over it already...
As round said:"Just ask and stop making this into the biggest deal in the world"

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