lol. I have to say I just love this topic. Yeah, don't run to her her, arms flailing, and bear hug her in front of her whole class screaming I LOVE YOU WOMAN!! But, jeez, don't worry about letting off the odd smile aound her, I'm sure she won't dissolve with the horror of it all Er, yeah that was perhaps a bit sarcastic, but oh well.

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k that whole thing is kinda stupid...first of all if you're dating a girl and you dont want anyone to know that you're with her...then WHY are you with her you should never be ashamed of a relationship NEVER. it causes problems...when you're doing these things shes gonna think a lot of things and the mind is something that can confuse anyone...at some point if you keep up these things that girl is gonna dump you for someone who treats her like a princess which is how most girls want to be treated they want to know that you care about them not feel sloughed off to the side when you're around your friends....get real...you'll never keep a girl this way.

 

 

 

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This is an old topic, but I think I need to add my two cents. I appreciate the topic, there are definitely times when you need to hide it. Sometimes in the early stages of a relationship, the world knowing can mess it up because of the things people start gossiping about or giving bad 'advice' to either party. Second, in my situation, I liked a girl on my campus who lived on the same floor with a bunch of girls that were interested in me. When they found out I liked her, they got so jealous and were hurt that I would consider that girl and not them. Well, it didn't end up working out so they all came back and became close friends to me again. Then, a few months later, I liked another one of them. That time I hid it successfully for a full month and no feelings were hurt. It also added a really exciting dimension to the relationship because of all the secrecy and covert methods of meeting each other at 2 AM in parks or at random points.

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First of all i would have to agree with other members, this is one silly idea, and only kids still do this hiding stuff. If you want to be with that girl you shouldnt hide her in public. She will think that you are embaresed when you are with her. If you wanna be with her you need to know that you will need to go out with her, buy her presents for her birthday, valentines day, christmass and so on. You need to know that you cant visit girl once a week and dont even say hello on street. My friend is 20 yeras old and he scored a really nice girl but he was dumb so he is now single because he "used" your advices.

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in some cases in might be okay to hide your feelings towards someone.. i've done it before, but i had good reason in doing so. we all have our responsiblities as people. ;o

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Wrong. If you do that she will think you are ashamed of it. Anyway, what's so bad about liking a girl?

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so you might be hiding it from everyone else but at the same time you are hiding it from her as well if you do what s2k6 said i don't know if it is just me but WHY ???

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Did you know that often the biggest wish a girl could have concerning her boyfriend, is to actually wanting him to show his feelings.

I don't know how you came up with this but I suggest you stop immediately!

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Well currently, I am in my first relationship and when I didn't have any relationship with someone, my friends used to tease me with endless number of names but now they I am serious about this girl (you might say this is not the age for being serious in a relationship but this is the first girl I like and also I am the first guy she ever liked) they don't tease me ever by her name.

And I also learnt that whatever you feel for her, just go ahead and tell her, just don't be tooooo romantic otherwise the girl might be suspicious that are you just fooling around with her.

I am not that experienced but this is all I can say and yeah I actually disagree with the topic itslef, why to hide your feelings, I tried that and it ruined my brains, the moment I told her that I like her, I was like relieved of 100 punds of weight from my head.

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Yea, dont hide your feeling..it just screws things up. YOu gotta let her know you like her. I learned this the hard way......2 YEARS of hiding feelings.and then she decided that we should just be friends..adn then she stopped talking to me

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