Johnny
Jul 11 2005, 07:43 AM
QUOTE(elevenmil @ Jul 10 2005, 09:16 PM) Well, here's what I can tell you... First off, I may be the only current college student to reply to this thread so far, so you'll get a new viewpoint on your debate. I'm now a junior in college, and I remember those days back in highschool like it was yesterday, yet it's been so long. The thing that really gets me though is this, and I don't want to offend all of the highschoolers here because this won't apply to everyone, but I look at the kids in highschool today and I wonder, (Darn, was I that freakin' immature back then???). You ask if the girls will be different in college, and the answer is yes. But, in fact, you as well will be different, and you won't even notice it at first. Trust me, the highschool years are special times, and actually, I would do just about anything to go back in time and live the experience again for a day or two. That's just it though, a DAY OR TWO. The best years are ahead of you my friend. I don't think I got to my main point in replying to this. I think I should maybe make it just a little clearer for all of you - enjoy life. Take it one day at a time. Don't stress out about things so much. I had many friends who were girls, but I never had a girlfriend in high school. In fact, I never wanted a girlfriend in highschool. The only mature part about me back then was the fact that I realized that having a girl during those years was a waste of time and money, because in the end we all move on to college and whatnot, and from there you begin a new life. So I say to you now don't worry about getting a girl, don't worry about everyone else having one. Be yourself and things will turn for the better, and if not, everything changes when you go to college. Everyone is new and looking for a friend, and the girls realize their new long distance relationship isn't worth it, so BANG!, lots of women will be there for the taking...but for now develop a likeable personality and get some confidence, geez, girls don't want guys who call themselves a "loser", so delete that from your vocabulary. Cherish the moments you have at this point in your life. You're in the beginning stage of what I think are the best years of one's life. Live life, be what you want to be, do what you want to do, and enjoy the ride... Hm...puts things in a new light. Good points in there. I'll keep that advice in mind. Guess you should do the same Zach. Also, previously mentioned girl shed some new light on my situation as well. Changed things up a bit. Basically she told me I need to stop being so quiet and lonely all the time. Share my feelings, thoughts, problems. Be more open and social. So I think I'll work on my own life for now, instead of flipping out over a girl that'll still be around for a few more years... And if it's meant to be, it'll happen eventually, right?  So yeah, I'm feeling a lot better today. Renewed confidence and direction, I s'pose. ^-^
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rejected
Jul 11 2005, 10:13 AM
My suggestion to you is yes, go to dances even if you don't like them. You may discover that they aren't as bad as you thought, or they were only acting like that because they didn't know you. I don't know if college girls are better or not, I'm still in high school  I've never really feel like a loser. Maybe every once in a while when I realize that I've been sitting at my computer for over a couple hours straight, but that's pretty much it. I'm not a very shy guy, I'm pretty outgoing, and obnoxious. You could always hook up with girls that don't go to your school, and I know a couple people that have had online relationships that have resulted in a long term real life relationship. You can always go to a dance without a date, I always go to dances if I'm single or going with my gf. QUOTE(Johnny @ Jul 6 2005, 12:53 AM) Trust me...here, I'm Johnny, the "personality" mod, and sig designer extraordinaire, but in real life, I truly am nothing but a loser. =/ Hrm...I sorta have the problem...since I was like 9 or so, I've never had any friends for more than a couple years, because I move so much, so I don't know many people, and I'm pretty shy... Needless to say, it's really hard for me to get dates... I've never gone to a dance...not because I'm scared, or didn't have the ability to get a date, just that I'm not a dancer. I dunno if it's okay to go without a date, but I'd say try to get one just in case.  Can't help you on the college thing, since I'll be turning a senior in HS next year... I feel your pain though bro...I want this next year to be different as well...I don't want to be the lonely senior, you know? And there's this girl I go on dates with and such, but meh...I'm having trouble taking it any farther than that... =/ But meh...I'm gonna need to hook up with some friends like, speedystyle. But that's kinda hard, because I'm really shy unless I know the person, but BECAUSE I'm so shy, it's kinda tough to get to know and befriend people. So usually, I'm only friends with people because they talk to ME first. You know what I mean? No way! Johnny boy is shy?! I know how you feel somewhat though. I've been moving around every two or three years because my father is in the Navy. I think that you need to step out with some courage right after your move. I moved to Texas last summer, and after everything was set up, I went out to our community pool and met people. I'm always extra outgoing the first few days of school to let people know that I'm not a shy guy that likes to sit in the corner, but I'm not an obnoxious guy that will disrupt the class every day. Johnny, you don't need to know how to dance! All I ever do at a dance is either slow dance, which anyone can do, or grind. I knew how to slow dance in the first grade lol, I went to a dance and since I went to a k-8 school, the 8th graders started dancing with the cute little kid. They had to get on their knees LOL. You got this Johnny, it seems you just need a little more courage, taking it farther isn't much harder at all. Both of you, most relationships start off by friendships. Try and be more outgoing, talk to the girl who sits next to you in class, make friends first, and then continue from there. EDIT: Haha, fixed Johnny's name <.<
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Johnny
Jul 11 2005, 10:24 AM
Lol, rejected, thanks for the advice, but my name has two n's, not two h's.  Where in Texas did you move?
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rejected
Jul 12 2005, 02:59 AM
No problem I live in a city near Fort Worth, why?
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Johnny
Jul 12 2005, 06:53 AM
Just wondering. I lived in Houston.
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desnserv
Jul 12 2005, 04:53 PM
man dont make me come over there and slap the little girl out of you, what the hell are u thinking calling urself a loser man dont have any selfrespect? .... tel you wat go here http://www.doubleyourdating.com immediately and let the de-wussification begin please i beg u. It's all there all you need to kno i really think all of you shold visit this link its well worth it belive me..
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astraesboi
Aug 20 2005, 04:00 PM
well, things are always like that. easier said than done. sounds easy on paper. very very very difficult to do. sigh... i used to call myself a loser too.... the more lonely i got, the more loser i think i am. and the more things look depressing... i guess it's a big vicious cycle.
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concertina226
Aug 21 2005, 09:43 AM
LOL Ohmigosh you guys are so cute! It's really refreshing to see you guys talking about girls and dating problems in this way, because from a girl's perspective, it always seems that girls are the emotional ones who obsess about stuff, while guys are calm, cool, collected and always know what they're doing... Over recent years as I've interacted more and more with the opposite sex I've started to realise that the whole "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" theory is real rubbish. In fact it seems to me that we create barriers between ourselves exactly by feeling, "hey what the hell is he/she thinking? he/she is a million light years away from me... i just don't get men/women". I think that personally all of us feel like a loser sometimes. And while you guys are sitting at the table at your prom feeling shy and stupid cos you aren't getting up to dance or just in general not mixing much with girls in public, we're probably sitting at the next table thinking you're just too cool for words and probably think we're too uncool, and that's why you're not coming over to chat us up. To me, the bottom-line is being honest and being yourself. Even if you think that being yourself means being a loser and uncool and you're never going to get that hot chick/dude, pretending to be someone you're not is far worse and really goes nowhere in the long run. My guy mates often tell me they have problems knowing what a girl is thinking, and they respect me for being honest... and it's the same thing with girls... we spend half our time wondering what you're thinking, whether the reason you're not calling is because we had something stuck in our teeth (as opposed to you lost our number ) So here's my advice... embrace your quirks, be who you are, like what you like, and talk to people... talk to as many as you can and sooner or later you'll find a couple who not only don't think you're a geek, but actually think you're really cool for being just the way you are
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kitty
Sep 10 2005, 11:43 AM
I'm not in highschool any more,but I think that everybody sometimes feel like a looser,girls and boys to.But we need to learn from our mistakes..I know that is hard to do,but we need to try, nobody is perfect and the biggest mistake of all is when you make an image of perfect girl or perfect boy,there is no such one..there are a different types of people,some guys are looking for an extra girls,long legs,nice body etc.,some girls are looking for macho guys,with a good car..but there are girls and boys who are different then the others..For example I'm not some extra chick,I'm a common girl and I like boys who have something else and not a muscular body..I agree with some people from here,the communication is the most important thing,and for those who is to shy to start a conversation think about that,that the other part is shy to and you are the one who must to make a move..nobody will be agressive with you if you aproached to him or her with a smile,and start a conversation.. I think,that everybodyon this world have someone who is like him/her or who will like our character..maybe you are not a nice guy or girl,but there are person who will look into your soul,but you must let him/her inside..I think everybody had an experience with evil persons,but that doesn't mean that we must to finish our social life,because we globalize everybody in one category.. The second thing,yes,the technology had his on influence on us..the internet gave us all the benefits of communication,but what kind of communication? We can't live our lives on the internet..or I'm wrong? We are different from the animals because we have a power to talk,be social..so let's use that power don't you think so? Enjoy every day of your life,because every day is bringing to us something or somebody special to our lives,we only have to recognize this things and persons. So,you don't have to shy and you talk a lot to other persons...and don't forget for everyone there is someone who will make you happy,just open your eyes and offcourse open your heart to..
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iwuvcookies
Sep 10 2005, 04:19 PM
I don't think you should go to the dance alone. Its always good to bring a date or some friends with you that don't have dates. lol. Highschool is not everything. DOn't feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. But if you want to take a shot at it and see what happens. go for it. I"m not daring enough to do it alone. but maybe you can.may the force be with you. lol.
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