ok this is the problem iam a skinny guy that ppl are not too happy to have around. I am a little talkative but the thing is that iam very skiny. I dont get it i have muscles more than average and when i say i do ppl look at it and they say they are tumors as they bulge out as they are supposed to be. i kno ppl more skinny dan me dat dont get that from chicks. plus y do ppl dont like agree with wat i say amnd are mean to me

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honestly, I find that boasting about muscles you may have is a quick way to being disliked, actually, boasting about anything. It's alot better to be modest about what you have, people will like you much more, i'm not saying you boast, but it does sound like you do. I'm alot like you though, very skinny, white, but some decent muscle structure; however, I usually try to hide my muscles and my friends actually try to show them off for me (what gives), anyways, hope this tip may help you.

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If there are people who dont agree with you and are mean to you etc. you shouldnt hang around them. They are not your friends, and you should not pay any attention to them. I am quite skinny but no one says anything to me about it. You shouldnt care what people think about you. If they are mean to you just get away from them. Not everyone is like that.

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Ok, I can't picture people not liking you because you are skinny. Got to be something else going on. And if there is a group of people that don't like you, it's simple enough to avoid them. Meet other people, avoid those that don't like you. However, if it comes to it that nobody wants to be around you, maybe you should analize your personality and figure out why people don't want to be around you and do what you can to change for the better.

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It sounds to me like this is happening to you because you just haven't made any REAL friends yet. The people you speak of seem to be insecure around you, which is probably why they put you down and insult you, in order to make themselves feel better.

My son has had a similar problem, he was bullied mercilessly by students in his school, he too was very skinny, and talkative, and very sensitive emotionally. His feelings are hurt much easier than most. I think this may also be your problem. You value the opinions of others too highly, and you can't do that. True self esteem comes from within. Love yourself, regardless of whatever has been said to you, or about you, and soon, it won't matter to you anymore, and above all, be kind to yourself:)

My suggestion is that you remove yourself from your current circle of friends, and find people who are interested in the same things you are. I mean REALLY interested, not just faking it. Soon enough you will find your own soulmate posse and the people who now harass you will suddenly find better things to do with their lives than try to make you as insecure as they are.

Please realize that people who treat you badly do NOT deserve to be in your life;) And you DO have control over who you allow into your social circle:) Start from scratch, with a mission to get rid of losers, users and energy vampires who drain you, and keep only those who are not cruel to you, those who sincerely care about you, those who are there for you and those who love themselves:)

Hope this helps:)

 

 

 

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I can't believe people would dislike anyone for being too skinny. I have some skinny friends and we are always making good-natured jokes about them and they laugh about it with us too. Perhaps they were just joking about the 'tumors'? If they really dislike you because you are skinny, then go get yourself other friends. People who make friends based on appearance are shallow and will not make good friends.

On the other hand, maybe they dislike you for other things, not your skinniness. Perhaps you may really be too talkative, since you yourself admit it. Either you tone down a bit and stop being so talkative, or find yourself some friends who appreciate your talkativeness.

Oh and being skinny isn't bad, as long as it's not a result of health problems. Not everyone has perfect body structures. So don't talk about it as though it's a bad thing.

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I like skinny guys...they look much better than muscular guys

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what?!?!? what makes you think that kids wont like a kid that's too skinny or not proportioned? kids are MEAN! they don't like fat people, they don't like skinny people, they don't like people that aren't the same race, they don't like the dummies, and they don't like the smart kids. they don't like the trendies, etc....and the list goes on and on and on depending on which kid you're talking about. kids are kids.

deal with it skinny guy.....and don't show off your muscles unless you're lookin' for a fight because kids love to fight too. don't take it personal. be happy with who you are. that's most important....so deal with it...and eat a couple big macs for god's sake!

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