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Internet is just 'reality' really, i mean look how many cases these days do you hear about a 'gold-digger' or some guy exploiting a women, and the fact is it happens on the interenet 24/7. Where ever you go your at risk of being 'played', but the main problem comes with people new to the internet get played worse, and i can tell a first time computer user miles away just by... read more.
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The "cyber" Thing - Relationships on the Net

Becca
I don't know whether this is spam or not or if tis in the right place all I want is to know what people think about Online dating?
I myself actually think it is ridiculous and sad. I'm not being mean but some people go to chat rooms to find a supposely online "boyfriend slash girlfriend" not to chat to... but like just to say they've had a boyfriend or something weird like that.
When I was 8 I did this thing, but people 13+ are doing it as well. What is the deal to it?
I mean how could someone actually keep a relationship without seeing them? You probably can, but I certainly can not. I think most people may disagree with me smile.gif

Sorry if I've offenced any "net" relationshipped people.

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Johnny
I think it's generally not a good thing. I'd much rather have someone to be with, someone to be hold, etc etc, than just talking to them on the net all the time.

But maybe every blue moon one might happen where things actually work out and such.

I also did the net dating thing...didn't work out too well. 'nuff said. tongue.gif

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Kubi
I think online dating is ridiculous. I mean, how proud would you be saying "My first girlfriend's name was HotChick001" and I met her on starcraft." Meh, just seems pretty lame to me.

I think people do it when they're not aloud to have a real girfriend because there parents don't think they're mature enough.

Ever heard of people getting married online? even worse. On Runescape(dont play anymore, so don't know if this is still going on) people start "dating" eachother online, and some time the guy will make a ring for the girl and ask to marry. They go into a church and invite a bunch of people they don't know...meh, then people drop items for the 2 and they go on a honeymoon LOL.

Now the dating thing I can stand, but CMON, getting married online? (fake marrage btw, between 2 young people).

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Johnny
QUOTE(KuBi @ Jul 15 2005, 05:00 PM)
I mean, how proud would you be saying "My first girlfriend's name was HotChick001" and I met her on starcraft."
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LOL. laugh.gif

Whoo man, that was hilarious. Anyway, yeah, I've seen that on Runescape, and other games like Everquest and such. Chat rooms aren't much better. I don't see how anyone can truly call that a relationship.

"I met this hot Dark Elf Enchanter, and we started raiding together, and one thing led to another and we ended up getting betrothed in the Halls of Icevale." laugh.gif

 

 

 


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truefusion
I dont believe meeting someone, that you end up liking, on the net is all that of a bad thing, but i do believe it's not for everyone. Everyone has their own way of doing things that they prefer doing it in that way. But i myself would certainly NOT "cyber" with anyone online. If anything it could be a guy on the other side, LOL -__-. But for some people, they figure that's the only way of "getting some". Sad really.

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Saint_Michael
it was a guy OMG!!!!

i tend to agree with it, most of the time its 40 year old men trying to get some......

i think final fantasy 11 is doing that now i havn't to much since i don't play online games, plus if someone really thought about they get a high powered crew and kill everyone off just to get all their stuff, i would do it in a heartbeat. Thats what you get for being lazy and lowering your defenses down. MUHAHAHAHAHA.

100% is mostly bots anyways, thank god i got out of the chatrooms those where getting annoying.

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Johnny
@Saint Mike -- Um...what are you talking about?

Oh, I just had one thing to add...friendships over the net are great. I've met two of the greatest girls in my life over the net, and met up later in RL. So, yeah. biggrin.gif

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rejected
I agree with you Becca, I could never have a girlfriend and never be able to do anything. I'd never be able to kiss her, hug her, see her, I couldn't do anything!

Yeah, she might have a webcam, and I could talk to her on the phone, but still that wouldn't be anything compared to an actual relationship.

Where's the action?!?! I couldn't live knowing that I would have a girlfriend but never be able to do anything with.

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Klass
QUOTE(Saint_Michael @ Jul 15 2005, 09:24 PM)
it was a guy OMG!!!!

i tend to agree with it, most of the time its 40 year old men trying to get some......

i think final fantasy 11 is doing that now i havn't to much since i don't play online games, plus if someone really thought about they get a high powered crew and kill everyone off just to get all their stuff, i would do it in a heartbeat.  Thats what you get for being lazy and lowering your defenses down. MUHAHAHAHAHA.

100% is mostly bots anyways, thank god i got out of the chatrooms those where getting annoying.
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snlildude87
The online dating thing is lame unless you really need to find someone to appease your parents or something.

For example, I run a pretty successful site, and people IM me all the time. I get about 3 IMs each day from random people. When they ask who I am, I just say that I'm a 21 year old brunette chick from New York. For some weird reason, they seem to want to get to know more about me after I say that. Go figure.

Obviously, I'm not a chick because of my screen name here. If you didn't get that last sentence, then...well...hide in a box. Of course, I don't have brown hair, but it's a pretty dark color.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you can never know who's on the other end of the line when you're talking to them. Even when you're talking via webcam, the other person could play a movie of chick on her webcam, and you'd probably would never know the difference.

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tuddy
Internet is just 'reality' really, i mean look how many cases these days do you hear about a 'gold-digger' or some guy exploiting a women, and the fact is it happens on the interenet 24/7.

Where ever you go your at risk of being 'played', but the main problem comes with people new to the internet get played worse, and i can tell a first time computer user miles away just by the way they type, talk, and ask for help to do something.

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CinnamorollTK
Cyber and online relationships are two different things. Cyber is a form of online sex where you type what you're doing. An online relationship is pretty much the same as a long distance relationship except you most likely have not met the person yet. (Some long distance relationships are the cause of one of the people in a relationship having to temporarily move somehwere because of family, a job, or college.)

You can meet someone in a chatroom and get together but that doesn't mean the relationship is serious. Sometimes young people meet someone online just to be able to say that they have someone because they feel left out if they don't have someone.

As for online dating when referring to dating sites, I think they are the worst thing ever invented because the person puts on their profile what they like and don't like. You never really know what you'll like in a person until you've seriously dated someone with that quality.

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Becca
QUOTE(freakylilgurl69 @ Mar 2 2006, 08:25 PM) *

There is nothing wrong with Internet dating
I mean I have done it before and one time it lasted for 4 months


Rawr.. my old post smile.gif

It's not just internet dating now.. it's the "lies". People tend to lie about who they are and what they look like and taking pictures of google sending it to you and stuff. It's cool that you can be who you want on the internet but it's a bit mean to the person your lying to..

When I mean internet dating.. I mean as in just online.. and not meeting... I mean it's like that on cokemusic. It's sort of sad. People like just go 'looking for a girlfriend' there.

I didn't say you can't make friends online.. I didn't say you can't date online either. I'm just saying I don't like it. I don't mind having friends online because it gets you sort of socialising with people from around the world and stuff and I have online friends.. (I think) it's just the whole not meeting someone and dating them thing I'm not too keen about.

Match.com is ok. As those are people who are probably going to meet and start dating in real life.

Oh and I've even heard of internet weddings

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tuyetmy
I have cybered online bfore, but that was when I was like 11 years old, but I never really toke it seriously seriously. I would tell two of my closest friend about him and we would like email him and I don't was only 11, so I don't really remember much ( four years from now ). And I've met stupid people who I would talk for only a mintue or so, and they would say I'm beautiful ( and I didn't even show them in my picture ) or they would say they love me. i hate nowdays how everyone would use the three words so carelessly, but anyways, that's getting out of topic.
I'm not trying to be mean, but this is my opinion. I think that online relationships are really stupid, I think people who are into it is desperate... no offence or anything. I had a friend who was dateing online, and I used her why would she even do that, and she was so dedicated to him and everything. We don't even know if hes real or anything. He could be like 43 years old man, when he said he was 17 years old. This shows to me how desperate she is, because of her appearance, she believes that noone would want her so she dates a guy on the internet... and that's her first boyfriend. I think I know that she actually felt love and everything, but that ain't love, its lust. How could people fall in love with each other with just words? Yeah, words do have lots of meaning to it, but without knowing what the person truly looks like, talk like, acts like, and etc like... love involes touching, feeling, and know what that person looks like. I think it's alright to do this for fun and all, but don't take this too seriously, because s/he probably lied about everything.

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freakylilgurl69
QUOTE(Becca @ Jul 15 2005, 03:48 PM) *

I don't know whether this is spam or not or if tis in the right place all I want is to know what people think about Online dating?
I myself actually think it is ridiculous and sad. I'm not being mean but some people go to chat rooms to find a supposely online "boyfriend slash girlfriend" not to chat to... but like just to say they've had a boyfriend or something weird like that.
When I was 8 I did this thing, but people 13+ are doing it as well. What is the deal to it?
I mean how could someone actually keep a relationship without seeing them? You probably can, but I certainly can not. I think most people may disagree with me smile.gif

Sorry if I've offenced any "net" relationshipped people.

There is nothing wrong with Internet dating
I mean I have done it before and one time it lasted for 4 months

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