I understand how you feel friend... you want her but you're afraid you might come across as being a pest and desperate... it's a tough choice.. I feel the best thing to do is just be her friend.. most relationships are indeed based on friendships.. Most girls don't want guys that look all handsome or rich, those that want that aren't worth having in the first place.. Girls want guys that show genunie care for them.. Like my friend.. initially she didn't like this guy, they were just friends. He liked her but all he did was to show concern for her.. There was this once, they were at a camp and she fell sick. All he did was just to give her some medicine and she fell in love with him after that.. You never know what might happen but I'd rather remain as friends than to make things ugly and lose even a friend altogether..

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You don't have much to lose if you ask her again. Sure it might be embarrassing and you might loose a bit of dignity. Look at it this way, it's a song(translater), "There's so much to loose, but there's so much to win, and I want to win."

Those lyrics have inspired me a lot with girls. It's in Spanish by the way.

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Oh, Prom's coming up, and i have to buy bids soon, last time i asked her out was in january for winter formal, I have another friend who wants to go with me, just as friends, to have fun, but this is the one girl i'd rather be with her, you know? and as for the asking part, i'll have to wait and see, pls keep those replies coming, its great to have advice from all of you.

thank you

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I'm curious to know what happened witht hat situation? Ive been in a tough one like that before loooong ago and she got really annoyed at how desperate I was. So I realized all id done wrong and turned it around. Within a month she was asking me to her room weekly and asking me to the movies, most of the time id reject her to her room to hang out and id never go to the movies with her.

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Yeah, it's tough, but your friends are right. I've been in the same situation quite a few times, and I can honestly say that if she says something like that (getting over someone, even though it's been about a year or more), she's probably not interested. No offense.

I'd say try your best to move on and maybe try to notice some other girls you've been missing.

I could be wrong though, so don't completely give up. Just put it on the back burner.

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