Jul 25, 2008
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QUOTE I really like you a lot, maybe we should bring this friendship to a new level. This is definetly NOT the way to ask her out! Seriously! This is lame, bs, suckz, boring at it best. You shouldn't be coming from that scarcity mentality of "I need something, plese, can you give me some" NO!! You should be the one to qualify her, like this:"Are you single?" (if you dont know already), then:"I'd like to take you out sometime to see if you are more then just a pretty face. I'm available Friday, are you?" Sound like you have a life, not like a looser with no social life.
I'm just giving examples, don't kill me now
 QUOTE I'd like to take you out sometime to see if you are more then just a pretty face. I'm available Friday, are you? why would you ask a girl on a date that you don't even know?
im usually smaller/younger than the girl so it always looks cute to them. Just go up to them and be all, "I like you....will you go out with me?" hehe what do i know.
QUOTE im usually smaller/younger than the girl so it always looks cute to them. Just go up to them and be all, "I like you....will you go out with me?" hehe what do i know. I said that to a girl once, and she ran away. I think she thought I was a rapist or maybe she was 'shy'. I don't know which one.
i think if you allready been with this girl allot, then you can ask her out just in her face... but if you dont know the girl so really much... and you want a first date with here... and you didn't see her so often... (never been too her home or anything) then i would ask it rather playfully on msn or e-mail or something.
if you know her better (a little bit) been to her home once... then if you go to her home again... ask it then... like: "so, do you like to go and see a movie?". just if you ask it in a secure place, were she thinks its "homey" there, where se isn't nervus... so dont ask it at your own house when she only been there once. QUOTE I like you.... NOT the words to start any conversation, ecpecially not with a girl. C'mon! Why are you asking her out? Because you think she suckz? NO, but because you like her. So, she already know that. QUOTE why would you ask a girl on a date that you don't even know? Do you want to go out with her? Read post by wassie. Some nice hints there too. QUOTE(ciroxyz @ Oct 19 2005, 04:48 PM) NOT the words to start any conversation, ecpecially not with a girl.  You wouldn't start the conversation with that.. you shouldn't ask a girl out with the first sentence you speak to her... QUOTE but because you like her. So, she already know that. Do you want to go out with her? No, she wouldn't if you don't make it obvious. Mind you, this topic is about the best how to ask a girl out, not try to make a fool of myself by flaming others. And if you've EVER asking a gil out the way you proposed, you would obviously know that your approach shouldn't work, unless you're asking out someone who gives out. And, yes, saying to a girl "I like you" does work. It lets them know your feelings, and they can respond to that with whatever they want.
I think asking someone out on a date, is best done before dances, events, or football games (high school or college). Those are the best times to get a person, cause that will probably be the best experience and timing to do it! So thats what I think.
I guess it's finding the right balance between straight out or absoulute cheesy ness. Coming up with something overly romantic probably isn't a good way to start off.
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"I really like you a lot, maybe we should bring this friendship to a new level."
lmfao who says that.. that is so lame.. i really think the best way to pop the question, is just to wait for when your having an awesome time with the girl [making her laugh, teasing her etc]... then wait for that momment of silence [which usually happens, after tons of fun.. until someone says anywho] then just kinda hold the girls hand, or get close to her in some way, look at her into the eyes, and be like i like you.. do you want to be my girlfriend/ haha(: i always fall for that(:
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Asking A Girl Out Replying to Trap FeedBacker Dude, see gave you a Due date, doesn't that mean she already like you? Ergo It likely doesn't matter what you say. Just be yourself -reply by KingKong24
Well, being a girl myself I can honestly say that the best way to ask a girl out is to be confident and upfront. Don't be shy or timid, as this gives a bad impression of you.
I took the liberty of going through most of the above posts, exhibiting the posters' opinions.
I'll start by saying that I for one am not much (er.... at all) experienced at asking girls out, let alone dating. But that surely does not mean that I don't know the subject in question. My take on it basically revolves around the feelings involved. I'll give you a very literal example. I'm just about to graduate and get a Bachelors degree. A couple of weeks ago, I ran into this girl that seemed familiar. It turned out that she was an old classmate from school, who I hadn't seen for like six years. Right, so we hung out a little and I found her to be an amazing person. I mean, the time that we sat and chatted together, I felt that I could relate to her; and I reckon it was the same the other way around. I made her laugh and she made me feel exalted. I was wonderful. My exams were coming up and I knew that I wouldn't be able to see her, as much as I had wanted to. So I asked her if I could taker her out sometime, say, the dawn of July? And she said yes. That was it. Now if you could stop here for a moment and analyze this. See, I asked her to go out with me. I did not say as a friend or more. Thats exactly the point. I liked her the moment I spoke to her. Not because of her looks, or her social stature, but because of who she is. Because of the things that she said and did. And I asked her out so as to get to know her better. Back in school, when no one had much of what life had to offer, conversations are in very discreet packets that carry little meaning to them. But when you have seen life your way, and another has see it their way, you're bound to have a fusion or conflict of ideas. Thats what makes things interesting. Summing up, if you like someone, just because of their looks or something of the sort, try to probe further. Get to know the person, and use this to ask them to go out with you. Something like, "I like you and I'd really like to get to know you better. Will you go out with me". Be honest, be yourself. Don't pose. That way, you know you've done nothing wrong, and you'll be comfortable with whatever you say. And then, when you have made that special bond; value it, care about it, do not let it fall apart. Let Luck befall those who need it.
I need help asking a girl out at my church.
Asking A Girl Out I really like a girl at my church and I have some competition... One of my best friends! He even gave me a deadline to ask her out or he will ask her out. I need to know how to ask her out at a lock-in,the deadline, before my friend asks her out. So any tips? The lock-in is this weekend. So, any ?'s Please help. P.S. March 26,2008 is when I need tips. -question by Chuck Hall
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