"I really like you a lot, maybe we should bring this friendship to a new level."

lmfao who says that.. that is so lame.. i really think the best way to pop the question, is just to wait for when your having an awesome time with the girl [making her laugh, teasing her etc]... then wait for that momment of silence [which usually happens, after tons of fun.. until someone says anywho] then just kinda hold the girls hand, or get close to her in some way, look at her into the eyes, and be like i like you.. do you want to be my girlfriend/ haha(:


i always fall for that(:

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Asking A Girl Out

Replying to Trap FeedBacker

Dude, see gave you a Due date, doesn't that mean she already like you? Ergo It likely doesn't matter what you say. Just be yourself

-reply by KingKong24

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Well, being a girl myself I can honestly say that the best way to ask a girl out is to be confident and upfront. Don't be shy or timid, as this gives a bad impression of you.

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I took the liberty of going through most of the above posts, exhibiting the posters' opinions.

I'll start by saying that I for one am not much (er.... at all) experienced at asking girls out, let alone dating. But that surely does not mean that I don't know the subject in question. My take on it basically revolves around the feelings involved.

I'll give you a very literal example. I'm just about to graduate and get a Bachelors degree. A couple of weeks ago, I ran into this girl that seemed familiar. It turned out that she was an old classmate from school, who I hadn't seen for like six years. Right, so we hung out a little and I found her to be an amazing person. I mean, the time that we sat and chatted together, I felt that I could relate to her; and I reckon it was the same the other way around. I made her laugh and she made me feel exalted. I was wonderful.
My exams were coming up and I knew that I wouldn't be able to see her, as much as I had wanted to. So I asked her if I could taker her out sometime, say, the dawn of July? And she said yes. That was it.

Now if you could stop here for a moment and analyze this. See, I asked her to go out with me. I did not say as a friend or more. Thats exactly the point. I liked her the moment I spoke to her. Not because of her looks, or her social stature, but because of who she is. Because of the things that she said and did. And I asked her out so as to get to know her better. Back in school, when no one had much of what life had to offer, conversations are in very discreet packets that carry little meaning to them. But when you have seen life your way, and another has see it their way, you're bound to have a fusion or conflict of ideas. Thats what makes things interesting.

Summing up, if you like someone, just because of their looks or something of the sort, try to probe further. Get to know the person, and use this to ask them to go out with you. Something like, "I like you and I'd really like to get to know you better. Will you go out with me". Be honest, be yourself. Don't pose. That way, you know you've done nothing wrong, and you'll be comfortable with whatever you say.

And then, when you have made that special bond; value it, care about it, do not let it fall apart.

Let Luck befall those who need it.

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I need help asking a girl out at my church.
Asking A Girl Out

I really like a girl at my church and I have some competition... One of my best friends! He even gave me a deadline to ask her out or he will ask her out. I need to know how to ask her out at a lock-in,the deadline, before my friend asks her out. So any tips? The lock-in is this weekend. So, any ?'s Please help.

P.S. March 26,2008 is when I need tips.

-question by Chuck Hall

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