brandice
Aug 22 2006, 11:38 PM
| | Being "paranoid" in a situation like this is never a good thing. What's happening is that your mind is filling in the blanks, right? You don't know what she's doing, you assume the worst. It's been 12 hours since she's replied... maybe she doesn't like me/is with someone else/ yadda yadda
This is unhealthy at any age, especially when you are so young. Having a need to fill things in means that you are making up a large portion of this girl's personality in your own head. I won't get into it in this thread- I think I have talked about my personal experience on this issue too many times on this board. I just need to tell you that I really know what I am talking about on this one.
You need to know that if it did happen that you ever were to meet, she's not going to be exactly what you think. There's much to much that you can't know.
You might not be interested in any "real life" girls right now, but keep your options open! |
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EnRohbi
Aug 24 2006, 12:01 AM
QUOTE(brandice @ Aug 22 2006, 08:38 PM) 
Being "paranoid" in a situation like this is never a good thing. What's happening is that your mind is filling in the blanks, right? You don't know what she's doing, you assume the worst. It's been 12 hours since she's replied... maybe she doesn't like me/is with someone else/ yadda yadda
This is unhealthy at any age, especially when you are so young. Having a need to fill things in means that you are making up a large portion of this girl's personality in your own head. I won't get into it in this thread- I think I have talked about my personal experience on this issue too many times on this board. I just need to tell you that I really know what I am talking about on this one.
You need to know that if it did happen that you ever were to meet, she's not going to be exactly what you think. There's much to much that you can't know.
You might not be interested in any "real life" girls right now, but keep your options open!
Ya, thanks for the input though. The paranoia thing isn't just with her... It does it... With everyone in every situation... It has my entire life, i've just learned to live with it. Thing is she's the only one I'd really care if my paranoia came true on XD Anyway, I have, for the most part, gotten over it with her. Only with certain things that it starts acting up again... Like she's in Mexico now, visitting her father, and the first few days after she left were real hard >.< I was almost ready to jump headfirst itno a wall =D But I calmed down, I'm fine now XD And, I do kinda keep my options open... I mean... I'm not looking for someone or anything or running off at any crush... if I were to leave the girl in England it would have to be for someone who I really loved .-. And just for the record, I have -really- been trying to avoid using the word Love here. Not because I don't believe I'm in love with the girl, I just don't want to get into the whole "TEENAGERS CANNOT POSSIBLE KNOW WHAT LOVE IS AND YOU'RE BOTH IMMATURE AND OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE" discussion that I've gotten into so many times before with so many other people >.<
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