e-buttler

Oct 29 2005, 09:29 PM

Girls, post your advise for us guyz and Guyz, post your advise for u girls. Me (being male) have only this to say. Playing hard to get isn't fun. Don't through yourself at him and DO NOT send him little note's. Being subtle is your best bet. But do not lead him on if you don't like him. That's all I got, now it's your turn!

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Compute

Oct 30 2005, 03:06 AM

QUOTE(e-buttler @ Oct 29 2005, 01:29 PM)

Girls, post your advise for us guyz and
Guyz, post your advise for u girls.

Me (being male) have only this to say. Playing hard to get isn't fun. Don't through yourself at him and DO NOT send him little note's. Being subtle is your best bet. But do not lead him on if you don't like him.

That's all I got, now it's your turn!

     

ok I am not the cleanest guy there is but I would consider pretty clean, but for some reason when girls come over to my house they keep looking trough my things which makes very uncomfortable. One time a girl came over and I left her in the living room for a second and when I come back she is looking on tops of shelves and touching my antics sculptures which made me think like the girl is too nosy. also sometime when you tell a joke the girl laughs but like a snorkel which makes me say OMG!! scary!!

 

 

 

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Johnny

Nov 2 2005, 12:15 AM

I already had a topic about this, for the most part. =/

People shouldn't rank their own knowledge, btw.

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inyourarms

Feb 17 2006, 09:46 PM

Guys: Do little things to make girls feel special. We like to have stories to tell our friends. Don't expect us to NOT tell our friends, and try to suck up to them because their opinions mean a lot to us. Don't be too sexual. Don't look at our boobs when we're talking. Concetrate on what we're saying, not our butts. Don't act like we're pieces of meat. Don't be too emotional but don't be too un-emotional... Just be in between. Make us laugh!!

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ongnoai

Feb 28 2006, 05:49 AM

QUOTE(inyourarms @ Feb 17 2006, 10:46 PM)

Guys: Do little things to make girls feel special. We like to have stories to tell our friends. Don't expect us to NOT tell our friends, and try to suck up to them because their opinions mean a lot to us. Don't be too sexual. Don't look at our boobs when we're talking. Concetrate on what we're saying, not our butts. Don't act like we're pieces of meat. Don't be too emotional but don't be too un-emotional... Just be in between. Make us laugh!!

Lol, Inyourarms, I'm a rather elder fox and I usually stand by every rule in this book of yours with a girl. I'm not too bad in that respect...
Still, my last gf insisted right from start that she just wanted to "check the goods", and that's exactly what she did. Pieces of meat can be found both sides, tell ya.
I guess fairness in relationships is the key. Is this word still understood? I dunno.
Cheers

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iGuest

Jul 3 2008, 08:47 AM

Replying to e-buttler
Guys:
Imma girl and hiting our butts and messing wit our hair and tickling us in class is kinda cute at first but it gets so annoying after awhile!! (specially wen you get in trouble for scream cause you wouldnt stop poking me in the ribs!) then you wonder why we mad at you!! oh and takin our stuff fo a day wen we really needed it and makin us get it back doesnt mean I like you cause you got me touching all ova you and begging you!! and yall talk bout y don't yall tell us if you like us...Yall do the same thing! guys at ma school can like us fo months and don't tell us till the school yr almost ova!! wats up wit dat??? and don't send me a text message or send me a message on myspace askin me out cause dats so tacky!!..
Iight I'm done yellin now :]

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trace-uk

Apr 5 2006, 05:30 PM

Some advice for girls, and I know it sounds really weird. But if you're very attractive lots of guys will already assume that you have a boyfriend (in fact many others competing for you) and won't even bother to throw their hat in the ring or ask you out!

Are there any stunningly beautiful girls out there who suffer from this? (I bet there's like 30 posts now from girls).

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Reaper

Apr 5 2006, 02:50 PM

i would say advice for girls when it comes when it comes to guys don't try and give thses subtle little hints that you think we will be able to pick up on. If you see we are picking up on it by all means do it but if we not try be a bit more upfront about it. What happens is you girls see a guy that is checking you out, so you start trying to make these very subtle hints or gestures. Then us guys fir example wont see it and start to think that you are not interested so we move on. I mean you don't have to be too obvious but atleast smile a bit or even walk past us and say hi so we know you are interested and so we don't lose interest !

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semeticsister

Mar 25 2006, 05:21 AM

Guys: If you are interested in one girl and you are sure she is interested in you, do NOT talk to other girls or flirt with other girls. Then she'll think that you are leading her on she will totally ditch you.

Girls: If you really like a guy, don't be hitting him and stuff, even if its playful. Thats just plain stupid and they don't appreciate it. And don't act like a ditz. If you are smart, let it shine through but don't intimidate him.

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savge17

Mar 25 2006, 05:00 AM

QUOTE(inyourarms @ Feb 17 2006, 09:46 PM)

Guys: Do little things to make girls feel special. We like to have stories to tell our friends. Don't expect us to NOT tell our friends, and try to suck up to them because their opinions mean a lot to us. Don't be too sexual. Don't look at our boobs when we're talking. Concetrate on what we're saying, not our butts. Don't act like we're pieces of meat. Don't be too emotional but don't be too un-emotional... Just be in between. Make us laugh!!

Jus like you guys stare at our DONGS! When I am streching for a lacroose game we have to do this leg evlevation and I know that 3-4 girls are always starring. But o well, the LAcrosse girls Practice is always next to us and well when they stretch....yea.... you get the point...

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