psychiccyberfreak
Jun 30 2005, 12:06 AM
ana
Jun 30 2005, 02:45 AM
QUOTE(snlildude87 @ Jun 28 2005, 08:04 PM) Damn. Based on your 4 characters on whether or not a girl likes you, girls actually liked me. Too bad I never took the chance.  well, that's an important tip then isn't it? You have to take the chance. maybe the girl would like the boy if she'd noticed or thought the boy liked her. so, show initiative I do think the "look prepared" tip is a good one. you don't have to look a certain way, but being a slob is hardly ever attractive i'm a slob... but when you are dating someone you have to show the consideration to like.. brush your teeth even when you don't feel like it 
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ashton
Jun 30 2005, 05:15 AM
QUOTE(rejected @ Jun 28 2005, 09:29 PM) 1. Don't be afraid of rejection, the more nervous you are the worse it is. I have a friend who asks girls out just to be an a-hole, he's been rejected 617 times and counting, no joke. He's pretty good at dealing with it I don't like a guy who is showing his nervousness when talking to me or asking me out. It makes me think, "Is [insert a mutual friend here] okay?" Then when he finally asks me I get a attitude because he just worked me up for that. QUOTE(rejected @ Jun 28 2005, 09:29 PM) 2. Make sure you know the person. Most relationships come off of friendships; that's where most of mine have come from. 4. Make sure she has at least some interest in you, my friend asks out random people and he gets rejected 99.9% of the time lol Most guy who approach me is friends with my friends. Now, I guess I'm to nice or the guy at my school are idiots, because even my friends get the wrong impression. QUOTE(rejected @ Jun 28 2005, 09:29 PM) 3. If you want a girl to go out with you, you're going to have to look pretty prepared most of the time. None of that nerdy crap, if you have glasses, get contacts, ect. I don't mind a guy with glasses as long they are not the size of a small country. lol
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rejected
Jun 30 2005, 05:22 AM
QUOTE(Jeigh @ Jun 29 2005, 06:03 AM) Yea alot of those seem 100% high school or earlier.. cause I mean you don't hit the bars/clubs and hook up with a chick only if you knew them beforehand  That's where I am currently, highschool I guess when I'm out I'll post some for adults...but I think adults pretty much have it down-pat
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BuffaloHELP
Jun 30 2005, 05:56 AM
I guess I am an adult, although I will always see myself as a 17 year old. Boys, don't forget to look deeply into her eyes when you are speaking from your heart. There's a saying, eyes are the windows to one's soul. When you are genuine and passionate about your feelings for the opposite sex, gently looking deep into her eyes just about conveys your true emotion. And remember, boys, her eyes are at her face...not at her chest.  Additional note: don't stare at her one eye to another like a maniac! If you have to choose which side of the eye to gaze into, pick her left (now that's YOUR right side)... 80% of people tend to stare into the right eye (your left) when engaging in a casual conversation. Choosing her left eye (your right) seem awkward but it subtly sends a message, "I am here listening to you" But not only that, it’ll make you a better listener. Listening should be your very first step.
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fsastraps
Jun 30 2005, 04:29 PM
I dont think you have bad advice, but one thing that i would add is that a guy should make a girl laugh. When you are meeting a girl, i think that is one of the most important things, and if you guys go out, then you still have to have fun and make jokes, so she doesnt get "bored"
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Jeigh
Jun 30 2005, 07:14 PM
BUt making her laugh doesn't mean your in the clear...cause I make every girl laugh...doesn't mean I get them all haha. And I didn't mean to sound like I was bashing you when I said they are only for the HS crowd, I was moreso just pointing it out to clarify your target audience
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QUOTE(psychiccyberfreak @ Jun 30 2005, 01:02 PM) I asked a girl out because she showed like one or two signs, so I ask her out, she says no, for some reason, (mabie her mom, Idk) and now she does alot more, exept now school is out, so she stays away from me. Her friend is kinda friends with me, so that's a plus side, the minus, she's just as hot as the one I asked out. Rejection hurts... but there is always another girl out there for you
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rejected
Jul 1 2005, 01:13 AM
QUOTE(Jeigh @ Jun 30 2005, 01:14 PM) BUt making her laugh doesn't mean your in the clear...cause I make every girl laugh...doesn't mean I get them all haha. And I didn't mean to sound like I was bashing you when I said they are only for the HS crowd, I was moreso just pointing it out to clarify your target audience Yeah, as I said, it doesn't always mean that she likes you I never thought that you were trying to bash me at all, it was totally reasonable and true 
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Becca
Jul 2 2005, 07:55 PM
I remember once this guy asked me out. I guess I gave out the wrong messages or something because I certainly was not interesting in that annoying thing. He text me twice asking me out, whilst I was having fun on holiday, not to mention it was at 4am and woke me up. I got to school and he came towards me and I was like oh *BLEEP* and ran into the toilet and wouldn't come out. Can I just say there is nothing wrong with guys wearing glasses. I think it's kind of cute. And just because you look geeky doesn't mean people don't like you and you wont get girls. I laugh at everyone's dafts jokes as much as they laugh at mine. And well I laugh at my friend's crap jokes, their girls, not like I fancy them or anything.. I guess it's kind of polite. I remmeber once when I was in year 4 these two boys gave me valentines cards and I ripped it up right infront of their faces..lol. they were so thick they get the message and kept trying to grab me and kiss me. It was terrible you know. I ended up crying at the end. I was like only like 7 or 8.
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