Does He Like Me? - i need help finding out if this dude likes me or not! please help&

theres this guy at my school and i REALLY like him. so my friends think he likes me but im not sure. whenever he passes me in the halls he looks at me for a brief second then he looks away (somewhat blushing) and keeps talking to his friends. i asked him out a week ago but he rejected me in a nice way. so i had someone come back and tell him it was a "zap" and that i got dared to as an excuse. he just said "whatever". ever since then i always catch him staring at me in my class from all the way across the room and its not one of those looks that you give anybody. he stares for a while.i look at him alot cus im just about obsessed and sometimes i catch his eye for a minute or two. the weird thing is, just about every where i go in the school i always see him! and you woulda thought that i had it planned but i swear i didn't! when i am at my locker sometimes he will go all the way to the side where i am and walk right past me and look back to see if i saw. the day that i asked him out he sat behind me in one of my classes and started kicking my chair. and his friend, who im friends with too, was making a joke and said he loved me. so then the guy i like started singing the "baby come back you can blame it all on me" song on the commercials. it seems like he is always grinning when i am near him. then, after class, i was giving out mentos and he came up and stood there so i gave him one then he left. i think he already knows that i like him, i think one of my friends told him. i got to correct his paper once so i drew hearts all over it and put a cloud around his name. i gave it back to him and i think he smiled but he wasnt mad i think he was flattered! then a couple of days before valentines day, i was sitiing on the bleachers with my friend and all of a sudden these guys came up and sat next to us and we were sandwiched inbetween them. they were really close! and the best part is my crush came up and sat right next to me! he didnt say anything though he just looked over at his friend and smiled and then he looked at me. it was really awkward because i liked him and so i didnt know what to say without sounding retarded. i dunno if he really likes me or im im just seeing things, but my friends insist that i have a chance with him and that i just dont want to believe it. today he didnt really look at me that much...so that was a bummer. i believe it was from the candygram i sent on valentines day. he most likely guessed it was me who sent it or hes just not that into me. idk if the flame burned out or if it was ever lit in the first place. can you help me please? i need your opinion! first of all, do you think he likes me? do you even think i have a chance with him? and what do you think i should do? i barely ever talk to him because im too shy around him (lol we talk with our eyes! we just stare at each other!), and i realized that he just stares he never jokes around with me like he does with other peeps which makes me think that he doesnt even like or notice me at all! is this good or bad? maybe hes shy too...everytime someone guesses who i like, they always guess him first and they say we would go good together. so...what do you think? i really need to know because i dont know what to do now!

 

 

 

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If you say you asked him out, and you also think one or more of your friends told you they have had told him what you felt for him, I suppose he might know by now. You know, when these kind of information is leaked, people get to know it. That's not bad, though. Also, keep in mind, when something is really in your mind, you're bound to notice things you wouldn't notice in simple sight.

If you're really wanting so much to know if he likes you, I'll either check out with known people, and if you don't get any kind of answer with them, if you're really so decided, I would ask him out again. That's depends on you, though, you have to decide and get your decision right.

Good luck!

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So you asked him out and he said no? What is it a good reason? I mean if a girl I liked asked me out, I would definitely say yes to that. That's the only thing throwing me off on your story. Like... it seems like he likes you because of the way he is acting around you, but the only thing I don't get is him no wanting to go out with you that one time.

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in my experience it is better to go up to him and tell him directly to his face you like him and see what he says. Guys dont like it when girls play games with them any more than you like it when guys play games with you. He would probably admire your bravery. Dont get your friends to talk to him for you and dont ask other people about him instead of you asking. It makes you look like a spineless coward. If you want to know something, ask him. If you want to know more about him, have a conversation with him. Ask him what his hobbies are, his favorite color, favorite movie, what he likes to do on the weekends, what he likes to read (if anything) does he play any instruments? is he an artist? Make a commitment to actually get to know him as a person. Get to know him on the inside and try to find things in common and talk about those things. Do not make it all about you. Guys and girls both like to feel special. So give him a compliment every day. But do not over do it. You dont want him to think you are really desperate or easy. Keep your dignity.

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It sounds like he likes you except, of course, it's weird that he would say no if you asked him out.
From a guy's perspective I can't really imagine doing that unless I was busy with something else...then again I have a lot of girls as just friends, and we hang out all the time, so I don't think it's necessarily something romantic when a girl wants to hang out. I guess it depends on how old you are.
He might just be really shy and was kinda shocked, but you'd know best what kind of person he is I suppose. Right now I like a girl who is ridiculously shy but we're really good friends and we hang out all the time and stuff, and she sometimes does weird stuff like that that doesn't make a lot of sense and I think it's just because she's so much a different person from me.
My advice with this guy is to get to know him a bit better as a friend, that way you'll be closer and you'll better understand him and will have a better idea of what you should do. Guys don't like it when girls keep beating around the bush, so it's probably to be direct about it if you absolutely have to tell him.

I love how you sound so excited about every time you describe him I hope it works out for you!

 

 

 

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If I go through your narration and feel the whole episode I have only one thing to say. LOVE is in the AIR. All you have to do is wait for the right moment and the right environment.
There are thousands of such encounters in one's life hardly any gets noticed, either because we are too busy with our work or we do not bother to look at it that way.
"So you asked him out and he said no? What is it a good reason? I mean if a girl I liked asked me out, I would definitely say yes to that. That's the only thing throwing me off on your story. Like... it seems like he likes you because of the way he is acting around you, but the only thing I don't get is him no wanting to go out with you that one time." This s a strange situation that I think is not answered well by anyone.
The best part is hit or miss, you ask him out one day for some small work, maybe helping you in your studies or in sports, maybe invite him in some of your friends party in school. Just see what he does. If he agrees just hang around with him a couple of times and you will have the chance to ask him his mind. There are moves and stories that tell you exactly what to expect at what time, but then life is different and no same thing happens in a different person's life the same way. Just have faith and go ahead and ask.
Sadly there is little that you can do if the there is no response. There are tricks to befriend his friends or others that challenge his mastery and a few that encourages cooperation between the two. It depends on the type of person you are and he is.

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I think he does. I do the exact same thing he does around the girl I like and she's all the way at the other corner of the classroom. Sometime she looks back. But I sure know what can caused the not-looking part. Don't try to laugh along with other boys around, and if you want to ask something 'bout school or something, go and talk to him first! We digg that kind of stuff and we feel self-confident. He'll probably like you...

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Had fun reading it

I swear when i read this i thought you was the girl at my school who i always stare at(She does too) when we're walking on the hall way. Damn its not you

Well i think he likes you he was probably shy when you asked him out, give it another chance and ask him again.

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Try talking to him when his friends are not around, if it is a shy guy then it will probably refuse you again if his friends are there.
Still you really should go talk to him if not your going to regret this for a long period.

If is not going to work, just kick his azz ^^

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Answer to the question
Does He Like Me?

yes he likes you but is just scared to admit it

 

HE might just be a little shy

Just ask him if he likes you or not

Tell him you need to know so you can either move on or go with him

 

IF he does ask him out 

 

IF he maybe likes some sports then ask him to go to one of the games at your high school or middle school with you

 

Maybe try double dating or having both of you bring a friend for some dates you know to mix it up

 

Don't double date every date though or he will never get to have any 1 on 1 time with you and that is a very important thing to have in a relationship

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