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The same here, There was this guy last year in my math class and we became friends over the school year and on the last day of school he kissed me. I had liked him and he had came over my house and parents was not so fond of him. Then we kinda lost touch because I went to Australia for the summer, when I came back, my other friend asked me out and I said yes. Now that the new school year has started, the guy in my math class last year is now in my ap class. Seeing him on the first day brought ba...
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tough situation, normally i would say you should get rid of your boyfriend because its not right to almost be in love with someone else if you have a partner but as you know you cant be with the other guy then you should stay with your boyfriend, i think as long as you dont act on your feelings then its not really a problem.
I'm not really sure what to do. I would probably cautiously see if your friend likes you. If he says no, you still have your other boyfriend, but if he says yes, you can dump your other one. It really up to you who you would rather be with.
If you are considering your friend as a candidate for the role of new boyfriend, you apparently don't like your old one well enough to keep them. Being alone is better than jerking someone around just so you have a boyfriend. It will also look better if you end your relationship with your existing boyfriend, wait a little while, and then see if your friend is up for a more serieous relationship.
Heya,
Don't leave your man for some other guy, if he says no then you're going to be left with a broken heart and the worst thing is that you're going to be left alone. So don't take a risk like that...After all it is better to be safe then sorry... If you think that maybe you and your boyfriend aren't soul-mates and you think maybe you're sure that your friend is you soul mate then, If you love something, then let it go. If it comes back, then that's how you know. Good luck hun
Thats a messed up situation, but honestly if you dont want to be with your current boyfriend I wouldnt stay, reguardless on whether or not the other guy likes you. Its not fair to your boyfriend to be used as a convienience just because you want a boyfriend. It sucks being alone, but it sucks even worse to be with someone and take advantage of their feelings and emotions towards you. Dont let this ruin a good thing. But also dont play with peoples emotions. Carma is a beeyatch, and she comes around ten fold..
Whatever you do, my advice is BE CAREFUL. Just being around this guy would be better than not seeing him at all. Life can go from great to crap very quick, and if you're not careful you'll lose both of them.
"Why are all the cute guys straight?"  'Pride!
My advice is, be with the one you loved...
tell the other guy that you are sorry and you don't like him, tell him you can't force yourself.. Just follow your heart, feel sorry for him and tell him that you must choose someone, someone that you really have feelings with. good luck on that.
"never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love."
-cambria
I really agree with killerbichon. It sounds like you just have a boyfriend because well... you want one. If you really don't love him, then maybe you break it off. I bet that if your boyfriend liked someone else more, you wouldn't be very happy with it, so stop thinking about just your feelings and start thinking about everyone elses. You don't have to tell anyone you like this friend more and ruin it with them, but trust me, if hes a real friend, he won't let your feelings come between them and if not, then hes not a true friend.
good luck, but remember the world doesn't revolve around you... -mickey-v Latest Entries
The same here, There was this guy last year in my math class and we became friends over the school year and on the last day of school he kissed me. I had liked him and he had came over my house and parents was not so fond of him. Then we kinda lost touch because I went to Australia for the summer, when I came back, my other friend asked me out and I said yes. Now that the new school year has started, the guy in my math class last year is now in my ap class. Seeing him on the first day brought back so many feelings for him again and I feel like I'm not being fair to my boyfriend. That day after class he said to me "did you miss me, and I said yes I did". I don't know, but there is something about him that makes it feel so right. I'm in so many activties in school, I have no time for my boyfriend. I'm so confused
a very similar situation..
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I know I'm only young, but this situation has occurred for me too. It's none of this getting married stuff, but Jake, a friend of mine recentely asked me out and he is so so nice to me, and has wanted to go out for ages. I wasn't too sure, but I decided I'd take a chance. The problem is that I have another person in the back of my mind, Sam, which is why I was searching for this question on Google. Sam says he really really likes me, but he is a family friend and is related to one of my very very close friends. We both know and have discusssed that it just cant happen and is too difficult. On one hand I feel like I'm cheating on Jake by having this person in the back of my mind and its extremely unfair, I even had a dream about the other person last night, but on the other hand I know Jake will treat me well and I can at least take a chance after everything his done. We talk all the time and not going out with him would be just as unfair. I figure I should just take the chance and try and make it work. If it ends up I just cant do it, even though I still cant be with Sam either, I at least know that I've tried and maybe when we're older things will work out differently. Maybe writing this is just making me feel better about the whole thing, but hopefully it might help some other people out too. And considering other responses, I'm not just going out with him because I want a boyfriend, I really wouldnt mind not having one, I just think it's worth a go, and with everything thats happened and how much we've talked, the least I can do is give it a try. Ive never written on one of these sites before but any support or disagreements please post!
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I recently started going out with this guy, Robbie. We had been friends for a few months and slowly we started spending more and more time together. Then he asked me out and I said yes.We enjoy spending time together and I like being with him, but I really don't think I like him all that much. We're both at university, but I live in an other country and I'm just Studying abroad at this uni for a year. I will have to leave and go Back in a few months time. He really really likes me and wants to be together after I leave, but I'm not so sure that will work. The other thing that makes this even more complicated is that before I left to study abroad, I had a crush on this guy back home, Trey. I knew that Trey wasn't at that moment interested in me as anything more than a friend, but I felt like given time, things could develop between us. When I got together with Robbie, I asked Trey how he felt about me, because I did not want to be with Luke if things could happen between Trey and me. Trey said he liked me as a friend, because he wasn't thinking of dating rigth now. He also said that in a few months or a year, things could change if he felt like dating then. Basically, I feel like I like Trey a lot and want to be with him, but rigth now he's not ready for that, while with Robbie who's been an absolute sweetheart to me, I don't really feel a spark even though he does everything right and really could be the perfect boyfriend, if only I liked him back as much as he likes me. I don't know what to do. Is a spark all that important? Am I just too hung up on Trey to make things work with Robbie? or is that I'm not meant to be with Robbie anyway? I really don't want to let a great guy go, but if I don't feel strongly about him, is it worth staying with him? -question by Callie
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I Like Someone Else I don't see alot of this advice as usefull. Its seems as though all the people giving the advice here are all about the same age and have similar levels of experience. So in theory its the blind leading the blind. To get good solid advice that will actually help I think that you need to talk to someone older, not just a year or two older either. Parents can be a good point of contact, I know my dad was very helpful coz he had been in the same situation as I am in at the moment and so he had done it and was in a position to look back and see it for what it truely was. But yeah, not having a go at anyone, just I feel I peronaly would want to talk to people that have not only gone through it, but have also had enough time to pass to look at in the way that my younger mind is unable to -reply by Prim8
same here!
I Like Someone Else I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years, and I've always said to myself that he's not the kind of person I would want to spend the rest of my life with. But we have a good time, (we dance together so we have that in common) and I'm a senior in high school, so I feel like I should wait until I go to college to break up with him. On the other hand, I really really like this guy in school. Although we don't share my favorite hobby (dance) in common, I could see myself spending the rest of my life with someone like him. I just don't think my relationship would work out with him right now because I don't think I would have enough time to hang out with him outside of dance. Anyway, he has this beautiful girlfriend from Ecuador lol and I'm extremellllly jealous. I feel like if there is a God, there will be some day when both of us will break up with our significant others and get together and live happily ever-after. It greatly upsets me right now, however, that we make such great friends, but I don't want to be only his friend, and I have a feeling he feels the same way about me. Life isn't FAIR. I'm sorry I didn't give you any answers! the truth is I googled this question because I'm looking for answers myself! lol Just letting you know there are tonnnnsss of people out there in the same boat as you! Good luck -reply by apricorn
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