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Second Virginity - We can regain something we've lost..

ComeToLife
Regarding the issues I've seen rise from this topic, I've got a couple things to say, as a Christian youth leader myself.

First and foremost, I am NOT afraid to die. I know where I stand, and I don't share or spread my beliefs and the Bible around to claim my position in heaven. My position in heaven is solidified by my acceptance of the atonement for my sins Christ made when He died on the cross. Basically...I sinned and therefore broke my relationship with God, and lost my place in heaven. Because of my sins, there's a debt, a penalty...that needs to be paid. I believe that Jesus Christ, who was God in human form, came down and died on the cross to take the punishment of death for me, that my debt is paid if I accept and believe in it. Therefore, I go to heaven. It has nothing to do with my sins or telling other people...it's by that faith alone. It doesn't help my chances any by staying a virgin or not...it's all about faith.

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Why is it, if the power of "god" is so almighty, that people still question his excistence. If he is so powerful, why are their other religeons, many of which that are gaining speed such as muslim beliefs. If everything that is writen in the bible is so true, why are we having war at this vary moment?

Why should we be told, that what we choose to do with our life is wrong? Why is it stated in the bible that a *happy* couple is wrong, yet god wants you to have happiness? Why is there so many controdictory things writen in one book?


Next, regarding that, well, one of the awesome things about God is that He gives us free will. How could God truly love us, and use His power to make us love Him and choose Him? That wouldn't be love. His love allows us to freely choose who to serve, either Him or ourselves.

Next thing is the whole, "happy couple" thing. I think you're confusing "happy" for "sexually satisfied." A couple can be perfectly happy and not be sexually active. I don't see where the contradiction is that you're speaking of.

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How is it, christians can be saved, sin, have a simple rependence, and be guarenteed salvation? After all wouldn't they have to go through the process of being baptized yet again to clense themselves of each and every little sin? How is it that satan is supposedly controlling my emotions... which have been scientificly proven is controled by hormones such as testostirone? Is a simple explination, that is writen in the "holy book" all that is allowed.


Baptism is our symbol of publicly declaring that we've decided to follow Christ, and accept His authority in our lives. It's a one time thing because it shows that when we're submerged, we die to ourselves and are cleansed of our sins, past, present, and future, and when we come up, it shows our rebirth as a new creation in Christ. A person who now has accepted God into His life.

As for the satan controlling our emotions, that another common misconception about the Christian faith. I don't believe so much that satan controls our emotions, as I believe it's impossible to please God unless we're saved. It is very clear that satan's strongest weapon is deception, which means he decieves people into not realizing what they're doing, and without accepting Christ into your life, which means His spirit comes into your heart and convicts you of wrong and encourages you to please God, you can't please God. You can do good things, but if it's not in the faith that you're pleasing God, then you still aren't in the right relationship with God that you should be in. It's not the satan "controls your emotions."

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Are you some radicalist that is now going to go ballistic because some one has questioned you, as a person? Are you doomed to live the life of a paradox, that people are to afraid to acknowledge, because they worry to much about what other people think about them?

Life it self is a paradox, looking to a religeon for saftey will only help you for a short time. Eventualy the fact will have to be accepted. The world and our life is a lie.


As for that, well, a Christian who has allowed God to come in as the authority in their life doesn't "go ballistic" when a non-Christian doesn't understand or disagrees. My only goal is to tell you what I believe, and display the love that I have in my life, that you would freely choose to accept it. I know exactly where I stand, and what other people think of me is no consequence. I will never be held accountable to another human, so why should I care what they think? One day I will be held accountable to God, and He will know whether I accepted the gift of salvation He gave me through His son, Jesus Christ, or not. That's all that matters.

"Looking to religion for safety will only help for a short time" is definitely something I disagree with. It's because of my faith that I am empowered to live a life that exemplifies love, purpose, oh and the "fruits of the Spirit" basically, the things produced by one who lives their life in faith, which are "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control." I am able to live those characteristics consitently in my life because of the faith I have, and there's nothing short-term about that, nor about my eternity, after I die.

And as for the "world and our life is a lie" I'm not sure what you're saying. If it's all a lie, then what are we doing with laws and jobs and all this stuff here on earth? If it's a lie then what's truth? This is the ultimate question I always wonder about for those who don't believe in God...what really is this all about then? We just live and die and all we really are is another animal on earth with just a higher intelligence? That's kinda dismal to know you're here then gone and there really was no good reason except existence. I don't hold that belief against anyone who believes it, but I definitely do care, (and not for myself), but I definitely do care to understand your belief.

I live my life to and dedicate my time and energy to helping those who are willing to listen know what I believe, with hopes that they will one day accept these truths in their life and have the same joy and security I have. A huge part of that is understanding, and this isn't for selfish gain, it's only because I care. Now, you may not live what you profess, but you'll definitely live what you believe. And if you believed someone you cared about was living on a cliff that was about to have like a land-slide or somethin, you'd prolly actually try and talk to them or do something. Now if you said you believed it was gonna land-slide, but really didn't believe it, you probably wouldn't do much of anything. I truly believe what I believe, and therefore I will live my life that way.

I really do wish to understand what your beliefs are, and I promise you that I won't bash you or hold them against you or disrespect your beliefs. They're what you believe and they matter to you, and because I care for your life, I just want to know. Hopefully this will bring to light some controversial beliefs about Christians.

 

 

 


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Regain Your Virginity
Hey !!

recently i came across a website that claims to sell a herbal cream that restores a woman's virginity without surgery or pain.

wonder if any of u may find it useful : http://www.virginon.com

regards,

austin

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Goosestaf
quite an itneresting topic. . . .was reely worried when i saw the topic title thinkign it would be somethign to do with a back door blink.gif

I believe its more of a theoretical thing reely. . . . since a woman can loose the hymen due to alot of things. . . .so it cant just be the physical side of it.

as for second virginity. . . . mmmm depends what you beleive in really.
If its souly down to when u first have intercourse then u cant really get it back :s

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(G)marco
Virginity is a one time thing
Second Virginity

As much as I believe in the glory of God I do know that he gives eacy of us personal responsibility in many aspects, one of those is virginity.  Although this girl that opened this forum glorifies God I fear its just an act so as to enforce her virginity recovery.  I'm afraid to say that virginity loss, meaning the compliant giving of your body for the first time, is something you only have one chance at.  This secondary virginity though may make girls feel better about their mistake, is just a ploy to avoid personal responsibility.  They chose to lose something that is very special and sacred, you cant get this back, which is why it is so special.

I'm sorry for any females I may offend by this or guys for that matter, all I'm saying is forgiveness is one thing, God in all his glory can forgive all, but that doesn't mean you don't have to live with the results of the mistakes you have made. 

-reply by marco

 


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(G)John
Dear Brother/ Sister, I am a born again Christian. My virginity was lost long time ago. My problem is that I still go back and sin. I enjoy reading erotic stories. I know it is a sin. I want to stop this habit. Reading your forum was like breath of fresh air. I want to be happy, joyful and contented. I feel very guilty and unhappy when I commit the sin. I know I am able to enjoy real happines only in the presence of God. Issiah 59:1, 2 says sin is what separates man from God. I want to be in the presenceof the Lord all the time and I want to enjoy that bliss and not the pleasure I derive from satisfying the disires of the flesh. Please help me. I am waiting for your reply. Thank you and God bless you. JT -reply by John

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(G)
Delusion can be extremely dangerous.
Second Virginity

I know this topic was started in 2006, but considering there are already a couple of other comments made in 2009 I figure I might as well add something. OP is ranting about being 'Controlled by Satan'. He is clearly seriously delusional, and possibly dangerous. You can believe whatever you want about the nature of the universe (just keep it out of schools and quit indoctrinating children), but when you actually think you're being possessed by an evil entity, that is a serious mental problem. I strongly suggest that anybody who thinks they are being controlled by Satan or any other entity seek mental help IMMEDIATELY. And for anybody else worried about sinning in eyes of God - Relax. There probably is no God, so just enjoy your life while it lasts.

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(G)Berna
Please read
Second Virginity

Everything is possible in universe.Actually,ı did not think about regaining virginy untill ı read it.But your essay gave me a hope.You may be feel hurt and disturbed.But the others situation like me is worse,believe me.I' m Turk and Muslim,and in this religion virginity is the top requirement for a girl who wants to marry.Unfortunately ı lost my virginity excepting for my want.This is the one of the worst experience for a female to have.I hated myself.I went on depression therapy for 2 years.I left my university and of course left my pink dreams about future.Seeing my fate go.Not being virgin is a secret for me(Not even said my best friends).But their being no experienced,untouched is felt by me so harmly.Now I m 23 years old,beautiful enough ,I have to admit the reality of being a sinner.And no one will marry with me.No perfect spouse,no perfect children and die alone.I can find a lover but he will just have fun with me,and going to marry with an ugly virgin girl.% 99 of man make this.They  entice,take the satisfaction and go.I wish I could be an abbess.Pry all my life along.If there was a God;who gives my second chance,my life would be so different.Never make same mistakes.I wanna be say to the person who write the essay:Don't be sad and ashamed.We are all together,you are not alone.All of us have same fate.I hugging you,you are one of my bad fate sisters.But be happy and remember:There are women who are in bad situation from you.

-reply by Berna

 

 

 


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