e-buttler
Oct 29 2005, 09:29 PM
Compute
Oct 30 2005, 03:06 AM
QUOTE(e-buttler @ Oct 29 2005, 01:29 PM) Girls, post your advise for us guyz and Guyz, post your advise for u girls. Me (being male) have only this to say. Playing hard to get isn't fun. Don't through yourself at him and DO NOT send him little note's. Being subtle is your best bet. But do not lead him on if you don't like him. That's all I got, now it's your turn!  ok I am not the cleanest guy there is but I would consider pretty clean, but for some reason when girls come over to my house they keep looking trough my things which makes very uncomfortable. One time a girl came over and I left her in the living room for a second and when I come back she is looking on tops of shelves and touching my antics sculptures which made me think like the girl is too nosy. also sometime when you tell a joke the girl laughs but like a snorkel which makes me say OMG!! scary!!
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e-buttler
Nov 1 2005, 11:22 PM
Great guyz keep these post moving
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Johnny
Nov 2 2005, 12:15 AM
I already had a topic about this, for the most part. =/ People shouldn't rank their own knowledge, btw. 
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beeseven
Dec 1 2005, 01:05 AM
Girls should be subtle? Are you kidding? Guys don't get hints at all. Just in case it's kind of unclear, I'm a guy, and I don't get hints, and none of my male friends get hints, and all of my female friends agree that guys don't get hints.
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callum
Jan 15 2006, 09:54 AM
The worst thing you can do in a relationship is kill any privacy you may have. I mean, if your girlfriend or boyfriend tell you something that they only want you to know, then you don't go telling your friends about it - no matter what it is. If you do that and they find out, then it ruins any trust they may have ever had in you. Oh, and don't lead anyone on, no matter how funny it may seem at the time - that's just plain mean.
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unicornrose
Jan 23 2006, 12:31 AM
Well there is lots of things I could say: Some women like to be cuddled. Cuddling does not automatically mean sex or relationship either. Getting head from a girl is a privilage not a requirement. Don't expect it. Don't ask. Be honest but kind when you are encountered with a girl that likes you. Be friends with her and show her that you care. Ignoring a girl that likes you that you like back does not always make them go away. If you really don't want to be friends make that clear but be nice about it. Women be nice to your guy. If you must leave him then do so. Don't play the wishy washy back and forth game. Its leading him on. Men and women........ Friends with options is not always fair. Especially if you are in the relationship for a long time. Most of the time when one of the partners leaves the other for someone else someone gets hurt.
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serenity
Feb 11 2006, 06:50 PM
stop tryin to make us do something by using the line.. QUOTE if you love me yu will this to me. I can be really annoyin are yu guys just out there for *** gyals like to be appreciated if you want something from her, talk to her about it sweeten her up and ask DNT command, tell her or make her feel guilty.. it will get you know where and with a broken relationship
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inyourarms
Feb 17 2006, 09:46 PM
Guys: Do little things to make girls feel special. We like to have stories to tell our friends. Don't expect us to NOT tell our friends, and try to suck up to them because their opinions mean a lot to us. Don't be too sexual. Don't look at our boobs when we're talking. Concetrate on what we're saying, not our butts. Don't act like we're pieces of meat. Don't be too emotional but don't be too un-emotional... Just be in between. Make us laugh!! 
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ongnoai
Feb 28 2006, 05:49 AM
QUOTE(inyourarms @ Feb 17 2006, 10:46 PM)  Guys: Do little things to make girls feel special. We like to have stories to tell our friends. Don't expect us to NOT tell our friends, and try to suck up to them because their opinions mean a lot to us. Don't be too sexual. Don't look at our boobs when we're talking. Concetrate on what we're saying, not our butts. Don't act like we're pieces of meat. Don't be too emotional but don't be too un-emotional... Just be in between. Make us laugh!! Lol, Inyourarms, I'm a rather elder fox and I usually stand by every rule in this book of yours with a girl. I'm not too bad in that respect... Still, my last gf insisted right from start that she just wanted to "check the goods", and that's exactly what she did. Pieces of meat can be found both sides, tell ya. I guess fairness in relationships is the key. Is this word still understood? I dunno. Cheers 
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saitunes
Aug 3 2008, 10:48 AM
Girls: Don't play hard to get, there was this girl that rejected me when I asked her out. I moved on, and later she said to me that she liked me and so on and so forth, and asked me why I didn't continue to chase her... because she rejected me I moved on. Guys have enough trouble reading the signs, don't put it in a foreign language.
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kudmus
Jul 29 2008, 08:04 AM
QUOTE stop trying to make us do something by using the line.. I also don't like people who try to get things from me by making me feel guilty. I hate that! I also hate girls who ask for things indirectly. Don't say "if only I had ...., I would...". Come on! If u are hungry tell me you are hungry and say what you want me to buy and where and don't ask for an apple when you know you need proper lunch. QUOTE Be honest but kind when you are encountered with a girl that likes you. Be friends with her and show her that you care. I can not tell you to do it my way but I take my time to know someone and let myself fall in love, not just start an affair just because someone is interested in you. What people think is love at first sight may be lust at first sight. I also don't like exaggerating how I feel. Show and tell them how you feel and not tell them that "I can't sleep at night thinking about you", "Not a minute goes by that I'm not thinking of you",etc. I understand poetry can exaggerate things but please make sure you make it clear that this is poetry. Please don't be selfish. Most people have friends of the opposite sex but they don't want to see their partner interacting with a member of the opposite sex.
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EquiPow
Jul 29 2008, 12:05 AM
Remember everyone is individual and everyone likes different things! When i first got with my fella he kept buying me flowers, which was lovely and a great gesture, but i dont like flowers, they die quickly and then make a mess on the floor. I felt really horrible asking him not to buy them for me, but i just didnt want them, some girls love flowers, but not all so don't caterogise them! I recently went out with a male friend on his birthday and i said i'm help him find a girl. He's a really nice bloke but dosent have much confidence when it gets to the guy/girl scenario so he never gets past saying hello. I didnt realise how hard it was for you guys to make the first move! He's not a bad looking bloke but whenever he went up to a girl he liked the look of he either got completely ignored or they were very drunk and threw themselves at him, which he wasn't interested in! All i can say is a sympathise with you guys and sorry i dont have any good advice for you!
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anwiii
Jul 28 2008, 10:18 PM
to the one who said women shouldn't play hard to get, i disagree. they should. no girl or woman should respect herself enough not to be so EASY. some people will look down on that anyway. as far as be subtle? women can never just be straight forward. they are always beating around the bush on one thing or another. it pisses me off. i hate hints and i hate trying to verify with questions to figure out what a woman is actually trying to say also, if you women are going to tell your other girlfriends everything under the sun about us guys, you better not let it get back to us or there is hell to pay for sure. i don't know why they have this need to tell personal secrets but i think it's very disrespectfull other than that, women are evil, men are scum. let's all deal with those facts
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iGuest
Jul 27 2008, 10:54 PM
I'm a guy and I agree with all of the above BUT sometimes it doesnt always apply to your situation. Some people like somethings while other people don't e.G. In my relationship we feel free and trust eachother so we look check other people out because we feel there is nothing wrong in checking out the scenery but when the day ends we both know that we are going to sleep in eachothers arms HELL we even point people out to each other and say "look at that arse" -reply by lostman1011
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