How would you ask this girl out?
Advice On How To Ask A Girl Out
Hi guys pretty much there's this girl in college like and everytime I see her I go extremely shy and can't talk to her can't even look at her sometimes, it's mainly when she is with her friends, we talk every night on MSN and that I've not got her number yet and we say we will talk the next day in college but when it comes down to it we both go extremly shy, last friday I said I'd walk her home and I stood outside with my mates as... read more.
Ok theres this girl that i rally like and im not sure if she like me too. I want to find out if she like me so i dont make a total fool of myself if i ask her out. But i really dont know how to ask her out i mean i tottaly freeze up when im about to ask a girl out its like i think im saying it but i cant open my moth to say it. The last time i went to ask a girl out i got rejected and made fun of for three months. So i turned to the internet to help me. If anyone has advice please help me out. I really like this girl
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if you really like the girl, just go and ask her, i wouldnt jsut say it right out in the blue if she doesn't know you, get to know her hang out at lunch be at palces she is..lol but if you do know her just ask her...and if she is a good enough friend she wont make fun of you..although i dont have this problem because being single is the life
Ok theres this girl that i rally like and im not sure if she like me too. I want to find out if she like me so i dont make a total fool of myself if i ask her out. But i really dont know how to ask her out i mean i tottaly freeze up when im about to ask a girl out its like i think im saying it but i cant open my moth to say it. The last time i went to ask a girl out i got rejected and made fun of for three months. So i turned to the internet to help me. If anyone has advice please help me out. I really like this girl
srry but grow sum balls n just do it..U wont regret it.. why whould u want to alweys be wondering what if? just do it what do u got to lose besides sum pride lol
Of Course there is the 'What If' argument, but if you really like this girl, take some time to do it right, flowers, hang with her, be there in times of need etc.
If some chick asked you out of the blue, and they didn't know you so well, wouldn't you think they just asking for the sake of it. If you show some interest first, and use the skill of flirting to show you like her.
Also find the right place and time to ask, not just in class ready to do a test, they are most likely to be stressed sometimes, and relaxed more at other times. The best is out to dinner, or at the movies, when they are relaxing and not worrying bout anything.
Hey <insert happy word> head i dont like losing any pride, And thanks for the advice chris. i Just dont know how to start hanging out with her i mean almost all her friends hate me if i go near her when there around it juts makes me feel like <insert happy word> and it really <insert happy word> me off but when shes not around her friends she talks to me for like 15 seconds and then one of those <insert happy word> heads show up
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When it come to girls. The rule you always have to remember is to ""ACT DONT THINK" . if you wanna ask her out just ask! dont Think about what will happed.
thinking stuff like what i would say or what if she dont like me. will make your fears will step in and ruin the moment. so whenever you see her again jus do what you got to do..
As for her friends...you need to become friends with her friends. Most girls always seek advice from their best friends when it comes to things like relationship and dating...
.so if you can be friends with her friends and get them to like you...they will put in a good word for you whenever she ask their advice...
that will make her will like you more because her friends like you also..
Ask yourself one question, "Would she go out with a wuss?". If you want to get her attention, just talk to her. Treat her like a normal person. If you start buying flowers and trying to tag along she will just think you are creepy. I know it's cliche, but just be yourself. If she likes you it will be obvious, if not, well, she probably has some girlfriends that may take notice. As far as the friends that don't like you, screw her friends. Do you want to date her friends?
I never dated anyone, so I really don't have any advice. But I can say that you should go on and ask. This is a matter of Yes or No. Try it and it can work. Dating advice is hard for me and that's all I can say.
darthmalis is on the dot. Treat her like anyone else. Pretend she's a guy for a while for all i care. Now, to get to know a person, u gotta have a conversation with her. So the next time you meet her, in a completely casual voice say that
"I'm heading to <insert name of cafe or place> after school (or any other time you choose. Weekend is good) to relax and have some tea. You should join me. Ok. Cya then."
Then when you meet her for drinks, act as if you've known her for the past ten years and that she's your best friend. No need to act like u just met her and want to know all about her childhood, family n that stuff. Humans are wierd. They follow your lead. If u act like she's an old friend, she'll feel infinitely more comfortable with you than if ur interrogating her and she feels like its an interview. Crack a few jokes, get her smiling. Don't hang out too long. You'll run out of things to say. 20 minutes, 30 minutes tops. Then say that u got an appointment or that u hv to pick up ur brother. Whatever. End of the thing, ask for her number. I guarantee u that it'll work.
MOST IMPORTANT THING: Act like she's just a friend. A best friend, but still just a friend.
erm.. i know what you mean.. cant yu get her email address and msn her or email her to tell her about yur feelings and find out if those feelings are the same because that way you are not looking at her face to face but internet to internet lol or.. yu could jus try and walk up to her with the thought in yur head that im the man, im the man and no-one can destroy this thought even if you are (her name) and then go up to her and talk to her about anything and find out about her this way she knows that yu are willin to find out more about her, yu are brave and yu aint afraid of being knocked down it always works
How would you ask this girl out?
Advice On How To Ask A Girl Out
Hi guys pretty much there's this girl in college like and everytime I see her I go extremely shy and can't talk to her can't even look at her sometimes, it's mainly when she is with her friends, we talk every night on MSN and that I've not got her number yet and we say we will talk the next day in college but when it comes down to it we both go extremly shy, last friday I said I'd walk her home and I stood outside with my mates as they pushed me towards her and she stood with her mates and they were telling her to come over but I completely bailed it wasn't good. I know that most of your advice will be like "grow a pair" but it's different because I have never felt like this before :S
use things to your advantage man
Advice On How To Ask A Girl Out
hey man, I'm sure you have access to a phone, ask for her number. And call her, not face to face, but gets you more comfortable with her personality, and her with yours. After you get a bit more comfortable then ask her to go to a movie, you get to hangout with her but at same time its stress free for you because your watching a movie, then dinner, no need to spend alot of money on dinner, and just talk to her, show her your interested her, but don't ask a billion questions..
Dude she's dating your friend...That should tell u right there to just drop it
No offense bro but less then a month of dating is nothing...Ull have plenty more
Of that down the line...I'd move on and if down the line she shows genuine interest
Again then maybe think about it but don't linger on something that never got off the ground.
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Yo I'm in the same shoes you are bro I've liked some girl for like 2 years I'm not like u though ive had other girls I just cant seem to ask out the one I actually want to go out with allz I can say is don't listen to that douche albus dumbledore anyone with a name like that doesnt get girls anyway and the reason hes living the single life is because he watches harry potter every night alone
But, your best bet is to follow epic revolutions advice or just keep your poker face up bro and act like you don't have any interest in her and just find out if she likes you just from texting her as a " friend "
Do not listen to Albus at any COST! First of all, his name is Albus Dumbledore, second of all, don't stalk her. Eventually the time will arise that you two should talk and if you can just remain calm and there is something to acctually talk about, such as something in school or something on the news if your not in highschool... Also, I'm not the biggest dater but I realize that girls, or anyone for that matter don't want some creeper to stalk them around like a freak. If she sees you everywhere shes going to think your buffalo bob. If you can, try to make her laugh with you and not at you and when you get to know her a little try to learn more about her. After a while you should try to get her cell phone number or something and if she's interested she will text you or call you. I hope this helped by you'll probably know if someone wants to date you, maybe this girl isnt the girl and its one of your closer friends instead.
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